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#46: Love, Adoption & Feminism: The Politics of Parenthood & Marriage, ft. Sameena Dalwai

#46: Love, Adoption & Feminism: The Politics of Parenthood & Marriage, ft. Sameena Dalwai

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 In this powerful episode, legal scholar, feminist thinker, and writer Sameena Dalwai joins host Neha for a deeply engaging, humorous, and thought-provoking conversation about love, partnership, adoption, and parenting beyond social scripts. Drawing from her lived experiences as a professor, activist, mother of two daughters (one biological, one adopted), and partner in an egalitarian marriage, Sameena brings rare candour and warmth to the complexities of raising children in modern India.In this conversation, Sameena narrates her unconventional journey — from an impulsive three-month courtship and minimalist wedding to adopting her younger daughter, navigating identity, and balancing activism with motherhood. Her reflections dismantle the romantic myths of love and marriage, question gendered expectations, and celebrate the joyful chaos of authentic parenting. The episode is as much about personal freedom as it is about empathy, equality, and humour in family life.🌟 Why You Should ListenTo hear a feminist perspective on parenting that integrates ideology with affection, discipline with laughter, and activism with daily life.To understand adoption through love rather than charity, as Sameena normalizes it with grace and practicality.To discover how egalitarian partnership and co-parenting actually look in practice — with wit, occasional chaos, and deep mutual respect.To learn why “selfless love” doesn’t work, and why parents must retain a sense of self to model integrity and independence for their children.To enjoy the rare blend of intellect and humour that makes tough questions feel human, hopeful, and deeply relatable.Notable Quotes from Sameena“Marriage is not connected to love. You marry to share rent, to take out the garbage, to manage logistics.”“We must have chemistry and politics — both subjects must match.”“Some babies come from mothers’ tummies. Some come from Nagaland. So, these are two types.”“They are the kings, little children. We should earn their smiles.”“Selfless love does not work. Because if you let go of yourself, there is nothing to actually love.”🔗 Resources & ReferencesSameena's Books:Bans & Bar Girls: https://www.amazon.in/Bans-Bar-Girls-Performing-Mumbais/dp/9385606247/Forthcoming book: Love Jihad and Other Stories of Desire and PoliticsSameena on Social MediaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sameena-dalwai-20546933/X/ Twitter: https://x.com/sameenadalwaiSameena's Podcast:Cultural Crossroads: https://open.spotify.com/show/6C6rOhLtEUALydd6qIAIeN?si=560f08f156f7405eOn feminist parenting and equality:All About Love by bell hooksThe Second Shift by Arlie HochschildThe Mother of All Questions by Rebecca Solnit🧘‍♀️ About the GuestSameena Dalwai is an Associate Professor of Law and feminist scholar whose work bridges academia and activism. With over two decades of experience in legal education and social justice work, she writes on gender, love, marriage, and minority rights in India. Her upcoming book explores the intersection of politics and intimacy.Sameena is also a mother of two daughters, a partner in a deeply egalitarian marriage, and a podcaster herself. She brings humor, intellectual rigor, and compassion to public discourse, making her a voice of contemporary feminism rooted in everyday life.Follow Sameena’s writings and talks on academic platforms and public forums related to gender, law, and culture.💬 Join the Conversation🔔 Review & Subscribe: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review, subscribe, and share it with your friends and family!💖 Follow Us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parenthootwithneha/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/parenthoot/☕ Support Us: https://buymeacoffee.com/gargneha Your support helps keep the show running.👋 Join our WhatsApp Community!🔗 https://chat.whatsapp.com/CHdbb6XkpSt5hBR4KN58qQ💬 For updates, reflections, and real talk on parenting, life, and everything in between.
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