Warfare in Divorce: Unconventional Strategies for Women Divorcing Narcissistic Spouses

Welcome to the first episode of Warfare in Divorce! Come on in, take a seat, and get to know a little bit about your host-- Val Olivia. Enjoy the full song and lyric video here: Chosen Ones Fight Differently

If you’re divorcing a narcissist—whether diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), undiagnosed, or simply showing narcissistic traits—this podcast offers the clarity, support, and strategy you need.

Each episode of Warfare in Divorce helps you:

• Maintain your dignity and emotional stability during high-conflict divorce.
• Learn healthy coping strategies for narcissistic abuse recovery.
• Develop mental and spiritual strength to respond, not react.
• Reclaim your power, peace, and purpose after divorce.

Hosted by someone who’s walked this path, this podcast is your guide to healing after narcissistic relationships, and maintaing your strength during divorce—without losing yourself or becoming like your abuser.

If you’re ready to stop fighting dirty battles and start winning with grace and strategy, you’ve found your tribe.

Hello there! My name is Val. I am a mom, caregiver, international certified coach, and Christ-follower. For five years I was embroiled in a divorce case that resulted in 359 documents filed-- the vast majority by my former spouse.

I was relentlessly attacked in public, strategically harassed in private, and subjected to continual threats (and several attempts) of arrest.

Until I shut it down.

I finally realized this was harassment and abuse, and I was not willing to let it go on. If I was going to be truly free, I had to stop hiding, engage the enemy, and rely on God’s guidance to avoid further harm to myself and my loved ones in the process. The strategies I learned have proven effective and sustainable, and it is my privilege to share them with you.

If you are ready to learn how to protect your reputation, reclaim your identity, and move forward with strength, this podcast is for you. Together, we’ll help you strengthen your faith, regain emotional control, establish and maintain boundaries, and navigate the divorce process with your DIGNITY intact so you can reclaim your PEACE.