Male escorts aren’t what you think.
They’re not just about sex. They’re not sleazy. They’re not transactional.

They’re about presence.They’re about seeing women.
Listening. Touch without expectation. Confidence without ego.

Yet the stigma runs deep, especially when women are the ones seeking it.

In this episode, I sit down with Anna Grosman, the founder of Her Confidant Australia’s first male-escort agency created for women, by a woman.
And we go there.

💋 Why “paying for intimacy” is actually a radical act of self-ownership
🔥 How midlife women are rewriting the rules of desire and connection
🧠 The psychology behind women who choose this path and why it’s not what you think
💫 How compassion, communication, and consent make these experiences healing, not transactional
⚡ What this says about the unmet emotional and sexual needs so many women carry

This isn’t a dirty secret, it’s an invitation.

To explore the truth about what women really want… and to celebrate the women brave enough to go after it and what’s possible when we stop apologising for wanting more.

🌸Connect with Anna
📲@herconfidant
https://herconfidant.com.au/

🩷Connect with Katelin 🧡
📲 @yougogirlfriend_
https://www.yougogirlfriend.com.au/

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It’s time we stop pretending we’re all “too busy” for good sex.

Because what’s really happening?

We’re stuck on autopilot - rushing connection, skipping foreplay and mistaking performance for pleasure.

In this juicy AF episode, I unpack it all:

💋 How to make him last longer, without the pressure or performance mindset
🔥 What women actually want (and why she’s not as spontaneous as you think)
🍓 Sensual eating & embodiment - the forgotten foreplay
💦 The art of seduction - from Cleopatra to confidence in your own bedroom
🧠 Why men jerk off to complete a task, not feel and what it’s costing connection
👅 Going down on a woman - discovering her pleasure and your own
🩸 Yoni eggs, crystal wands, and breaking shame! Yes, we went there
💣 The truth about autopilot sex and how to finally wake your body up

This isn’t a “sex tips” episode.
It’s a wake-up call.
To slow down, reconnect, and actually feel something again, because real pleasure isn’t about performance.
It’s about presence.

🎧 Tune in! You’ll laugh, squirm, and maybe blush… but you’ll never see sex the same way again.

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You Go Girlfriend 🌸
💖Join the waitlist for Her Feminine Power
🔥Ready to get off autopilot? Book your 1:1 reconnection session
😍Be part of our community! Pleased to Bleed 🩸

You Go Bro 🩵
💚Man to Matter: Build intimacy & connection that lasts
🧠Stronger mind, stronger man: Book your GRIT Coaching session

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🩷Connect with Katelin 🧡
📲 @yougogirlfriend_
https://www.yougogirlfriend.com.au/
📧 yougogirlfriendz@gmail.com

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Why the hell am I still spiralling about that thing? 😵‍💫

The friendship that ghosted you, the one-night stand that fizzled, the person who never gave you closure… and yet, here we are, still thinking about it.

You’ve processed it, talked about it, journaled about it hell, you’ve even saged your whole bloody house and it still lingers.

That’s not the universe punishing you.
That’s your body saying: “There’s still something here you’re not facing.”

We project, we distract, we point the finger because it’s easier than sitting in the discomfort.
We call it “healing” when really, we’re just dressing up avoidance.

This one’s for the woman who’s done the “work” but still feels stuck.
The one who’s asking, “Why do I keep attracting this?”
The one who’s tired of buying another $10 serum to fix what’s really an internal ache for connection.

In this episode, I call out the self-sabotage patterns we all do (yes, even me):

💭 Why your brain loves to spiral and make pain feel productive
🔥 How we confuse closure with control
🪞 The illusion of healing when we’re still avoiding our own accountability
💋 Why your fake “pleasure” might just be another distraction from sitting with your sh*t
💡 And how to finally break the loop and actually listen this time

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why does this keep happening to me?”

Maybe it’s time to ask, “What am I still not learning from it?”

You don’t need more closure.

You need to listen.

🎧 Tune in now this one’s a little uncomfortable, but it’ll wake something up in you.

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💃🏻Take our FREE Pleasure Archetype Quiz

You Go Girlfriend 🌸
💖 Join the waitlist for Her Feminine Power
🔥 Ready to get off autopilot? Book your 1:1 reconnection session
😍 Be part of our community! Pleased to Bleed 🩸

You Go Bro 🩵
💚 Man to Matter: Build intimacy & connection that lasts
🧠 Stronger mind, stronger man: Book your GRIT Coaching session

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🩷Connect with Katelin 🧡
📲 @yougogirlfriend_
https://www.yougogirlfriend.com.au/
📧 yougogirlfriendz@gmail.com

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