• Believe In The Good More Than Believe In The Bad Of A Person!
    Jan 21 2026
    I had to sit with what God showed me today. We are quick to believe the bad in people, quick to repeat it, quick to disqualify them, but when it comes to ourselves, we want grace, mercy, and understanding. That contradiction? God had something to say about it… and it might be the very reason some blessings are delayed.There’s something God spoke to my spirit today that I can’t shake, and I won’t pretend it was comfortable. He reminded me that He is a God of second chances—and if I truly say I know Him, then my posture toward people has to reflect that truth.Here’s the problem though. Many of us are excellent at believing the worst about others. If someone messes up, fails publicly, or does something that doesn’t sit right with us, we lock them into that moment forever. We replay it. We define them by it. We cancel them out completely. But then… when it’s our past, our mistake, our weak season, suddenly we want God to “understand,” to “see our heart,” to “remember our growth.”God showed me how backwards that is.When we only believe the bad in people, we leave no room for correction, growth, or redemption. And that’s dangerous, because correction is how people learn. Without it, without patience, without someone willing to see potential instead of permanence, how does anyone ever become better?People do not always remain where they are.You didn’t.
    I didn’t.And God didn’t meet us at our worst just to abandon us there.What really struck me was this: when we cancel people out completely, we are silently telling God, “I decide who deserves grace.” And that’s not our place. That’s not our authority. Judgment belongs to God alone.God is not a God of “just a select few.” He is a God of everybody. And in this season, a lot of people are praying for blessings while simultaneously asking God to punish someone else. But mercy doesn’t work like that. You don’t get to demand grace for yourself while denying it to others. That door doesn’t stay open.This is why some people feel stuck spiritually.
    This is why prayers feel unanswered.
    This is why peace feels distant.It’s not always because of what was done to you—it’s sometimes because of what you refuse to release from you.God showed me that paying attention only to the bad can blind you to the good. And when you miss the good, you miss what God might be trying to grow. You miss the lesson. You miss the purpose. You even miss the blessing that can come out of an uncomfortable situation.That doesn’t mean ignoring wrongdoing.
    That doesn’t mean excusing behavior.
    That doesn’t mean trusting people blindly.It means understanding that God specializes in transformation, not permanent labeling.And here’s the part that really sat heavy with me: many of the same people who were given patience, time, and mercy by God are now the loudest voices saying someone else should get none. That’s not discernment—that’s pride dressed up as righteousness.God touched my soul with this because He made it clear:
    If you want mercy, you must walk in mercy.
    If you want grace, you must extend grace.
    And if you want God to work in your life, you cannot block Him by trying to do His job.I go much deeper into this on the podcast—what God showed me, what Scripture confirms, and why this message is critical right now. This post is just the surface. The conversation? That’s where the real revelation is.🎧 Listen to the full episode on the podcast
    Because some truths aren’t meant to be skimmed—they’re meant to be heard.


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    15 Min.
  • Stop Trying To Explain!! What They Don't Understand!
    Dec 23 2025
    https://kingdominfluencemedia.com/2025/08/21/nicki-minaj-god-is-speaking/I had to learn the hard way that not everybody is meant to understand my relationship with God—and that’s okay.One thing God has really been teaching me lately is this: we have to stop trying to explain ourselves to people who were never meant to understand us in the first place. Especially when it comes to our relationship with Him. I used to feel like I had to explain why I move the way I move, why I don’t do certain things, why my heart is sensitive, why my convictions are strong, why I choose obedience even when it costs me comfort or relationships. But God gently showed me something that changed everything—this walk is not for public approval.Your relationship with God is exactly that: a relationship. And just like any real relationship, it’s personal. Intimate. Sacred. There are things between you and God that were never meant to be put on display or explained to people who don’t share that same heart posture. Not everybody is supposed to “get” you, and not everybody deserves an explanation. That was freeing for me.



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    17 Min.
  • Nicki Minaj Is MAGA!!
    Dec 23 2025
    This is to reaffirm the message I mention The prophecy I gave in August 2025!! GOD IS SPEAKING!!!!
    https://kingdominfluencemedia.com/2025/08/21/nicki-minaj-god-is-speaking/

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    3 Min.
  • GOD Allowed It, So You Could See The Person Heart & Character.
    Dec 16 2025
    There comes a moment in life when God allows you to see the real character of a person. Not the mask. Not the charm. Not the words. The heart. And when that moment happens, it can feel painful, confusing, and even unfair. But one thing I’ve learned — and I need people to really hear this — God does not expose things to hurt you. He exposes things to protect you.God had to let you see the bad so you could finally understand what was truly going on. You weren’t crazy. You weren’t overthinking. You weren’t “reading too much into it.” God wanted you to see clearly. He never wants His children walking in darkness, confusion, or deception. Everything about God is rooted in truth.Scripture tells us plainly that whatever is hidden will be brought to the light. That’s not a threat — that’s a promise. If God loves you, He will not allow lies to sit over your eyes forever. He will pull the cover back. And when He does, it may hurt, but it will also free you.A lot of times, when something falls apart, we blame God. We ask, “Why did You let this happen?” But what if the real reason wasn’t punishment at all? What if God was saying, “I needed to get your attention.” Sometimes the process hurts because we were comfortable in something that wasn’t good for us. And God, being a loving Father, will disrupt comfort if it’s keeping you from Him.God is not a liar. He doesn’t manipulate. He doesn’t deceive. When He shows you someone’s true character, it’s because He doesn’t want you trapped in something that could destroy you later. He’s saving you from deeper pain down the road. And even though it feels overwhelming in the moment, it’s actually mercy in disguise.Think about Apostle Paul. Before he became Paul, he was Saul — confident, religious, and completely convinced he was right. God could have gently whispered to him, but instead, God knocked him down and blinded him. That encounter wasn’t pleasant. It was terrifying. Paul was left in despair, confusion, and darkness. But it had to happen. God needed his attention.Once Paul heard God’s voice, everything changed. What felt like devastation became destiny. His hardship wasn’t random — it was purposeful. And in the end, God received the glory.That’s how God works with us too.Sometimes He allows situations to collapse because we weren’t listening before. Sometimes He lets us see betrayal, dishonesty, or manipulation so we never walk into it again. And sometimes, He uses pain as a doorway back to Him — not because He enjoys our suffering, but because He loves us too much to leave us lost.We have to stop seeing God as the villain in our story when He’s actually the rescuer. The process had to happen. The truth had to come out. The light had to shine. And once it does, God says, “Now let Me heal you. Let Me guide you. Let Me be your God.”Every single thing you’ve been through — yes, even the parts that broke your heart — God can use to make something brand new. That’s why gratitude matters. Not because the pain was good, but because God is faithful through it.So if God has recently shown you the truth about a person, a situation, or even yourself, don’t run from Him. Thank Him. He didn’t expose it to shame you. He exposed it to save you.And I hope that encourages you today. 💛

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    16 Min.
  • They Don't Like Me & I Don't Like Them!
    Dec 14 2025
    You don’t have room on your plate for hate. You just don’t. Hate takes up space that love, peace, wisdom, and discernment are supposed to fill. When you choose to hate, you’re choosing to operate outside of God’s character. And a lot of folks want God to move, want God to fight, want God to expose people, but they aren’t even standing in line with Him. You’re asking God to cosign behavior He already told you not to operate in.And let’s talk about this real quick—because it needs to be said. Wanting God to “get” somebody while you refuse to love them is not righteousness. That’s pride dressed up as spirituality. That’s ego pretending to be discernment. And yes, sometimes that’s a Jezebel-type spirit at work—manipulation, control, offense, self-righteousness, and a refusal to submit to God’s actual instruction.

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    20 Min.
  • I Feel Like GOD Is Not With Me......
    Dec 10 2025
    And not just a little bit — I mean lie, exaggerate, twist things, and make you believe something that God never said. Feelings are powerful, but they are not always truth. And for some reason, when life hits us hard, our emotions start talking louder than the Word. 😒There are moments when you’ll say, “God, where are You? Why don’t I feel You? Why does it seem like I’m going through this alone?” And the whole time, God is looking at you like, “I’m right here. I never moved.”We forget that we’re living in a spiritual world, and just because you feel silence doesn’t mean God is absent. Sometimes God lets your emotions quiet down so your faith can rise up. Because if you never learn to trust Him beyond your feelings, you will keep letting your emotions lead you into fear, confusion, and frustration that He never intended for you.Here’s the truth:
    God wants to see how you come out of the battle… but also how you ACT in the middle of it.We love to say, “The battle is the Lord’s,” but then we act like we’re supposed to fight it with our emotions. No! God wants to see if you’ll still walk in obedience when your feelings are screaming something different. He wants to see if you can stay calm when everything in you wants to run, shout, or snap back. That’s the real test.You might not feel good about what happened. You might not feel strong. You might not feel supported. But listen — feelings are not facts.What is a fact?
    God said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
    God said, “I am with you always.”
    God said, “I fight for you.”Your emotions didn’t say that.
    GOD said that.And if God said it, it stands forever.Sometimes the hardest part of faith is choosing God’s Word over your own emotional reactions. Your feelings say, “Go off on them.” God says, “Peace.”
    Your feelings say, “Handle it yourself.” God says, “Be still.”
    Your feelings say, “God must’ve forgotten about me.”
    God says, “I’m working behind the scenes.”So even if you didn’t feel His presence…
    Even if you were nervous or hurt…
    Even if your mind was all over the place…You still didn’t make the situation worse.
    You still didn’t step out of character.
    You still didn’t go against the Word of God.And guess what? That matters. Heaven sees that.God isn’t looking for perfect people — He is looking for people who choose Him even when their feelings are lying to them. That’s real faith right there. That’s maturity. That’s growth.So please stop thinking something is wrong with you because you “don’t feel God” every second. Faith is not a feeling — faith is knowing. Faith is standing on His promises when your emotions are having a meltdown in the background. Faith is saying, “Lord, I trust You,” even when your heart is shaking.Feelings come and go. God stays.
    Feelings shift. God is constant.
    Feelings confuse you. God brings clarity.Next time your emotions start lying to you, remind yourself:
    “My feelings are temporary. God is eternal.”
    And walk in peace, knowing that your Father has already gone ahead of you and taken care of everything. 💛🙏

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    12 Min.
  • Let GOD Handle THEM!!!
    Dec 5 2025
    Let me tell you something real, because a lot of people struggle with this and don’t even realize how much damage they’re doing to themselves. The best policy — the strongest, safest, most powerful spiritual policy you can live by — is to let God handle the fight. Not you. Not your temper. Not your emotions. Not your pride. GOD. Period.See, this is what people forget: you are human… and God is not. You have limits, weaknesses, blind spots, emotions that flip from zero to a hundred. God doesn’t. He sees the whole picture. He knows the truth behind the scenes. He understands motives, intentions, lies, jealousy, manipulation — all the things you don’t always see. And because He knows all of that, He knows exactly how to deal with the people who hurt you, betray you, disrespect you, or try to tear you down.But here’s the part that many folks miss: when you jump in and try to fight the battle yourself, you literally get in God’s way. You block what He’s trying to do. You interfere with His process. And then you wonder why the situation got messier, uglier, and more painful than it needed to be.You were never designed to fight spiritual battles in human strength. Let that sink in.God said, “Vengeance is mine.” Not yours. Not your mama’s. Not your best friend’s. HIS. That means the moment someone hurts you, the moment someone disrespects you, the moment someone lies on you or plays with your name — you are supposed to hand it over to Him. Not clap back. Not plot revenge. Not lose sleep trying to prove a point. Just hand it over and step back.

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    8 Min.
  • I Hate Her!!!???? WAIT.........
    Dec 5 2025
    In this post, Your Girl Renae breaks down why unforgiveness and secret hate block people from the fullness of God — and why it’s time to TAP IN for real.Let me go ahead and say something real, because a lot of people are not ready to hear this, but they need to. It is crazy — absolutely CRAZY — how people will claim they “hate” someone they do not even truly know. They catch a vibe, hear a rumor, see a moment, or witness a flaw and suddenly they’ve made up a whole story in their head about who that person is. That’s wild to me! And you know what’s even crazier? Those same people will get on their knees every night and say, “Lord, bless me. Lord, help me. Lord, do this and that in my life.” But your heart? Oh, your heart is nowhere near ready for a blessing. And that’s the part people don’t want to accept.This right here is the reason why so many people have never experienced the fullness of God. Not because God doesn’t want to bless them. Not because God doesn’t hear them. Not because God doesn’t care. But because they refuse to step into alignment with Him. You cannot ask the God of love to bless you while you’re actively choosing to walk in hate. It does not make sense spiritually, emotionally, or biblically. Yet people do it every single day.People don’t understand how serious this is. When you hold hatred in your heart — especially toward someone who hasn’t even harmed you directly, or someone who may be struggling, or someone who may be living in sin and actually needs prayer — you’re literally living outside the will of God. You’ve stepped out of His covering. You’ve stepped out of His instructions. And then you want to ask Him why your prayers haven’t been answere

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    23 Min.