In this episode of We’re the Mother Fogging DJs, DJs Shanaz and Emma are joined by legendary UK rave and house music pioneer Lisa Loud for an honest, funny and emotional conversation about dance music, midlife and staying relevant in club culture.

Lisa shares stories from the birth of acid house and Balearic culture in Ibiza, the illegal rave scene, touring the world as a female DJ, and becoming one of the original women of UK dance music. From Cream and Back to Basics to Russia, Ibiza and global festivals, she reflects on four decades behind the decks and how the industry has changed for women DJs.

The conversation explores ADHD, menopause, anxiety, burnout, social media trolling, ageing in the music industry, perimenopause brain fog and navigating a career in nightlife while getting older. Lisa also opens up about boundaries, difficult promoters, online hate, motherhood, relationships and why midlife women shouldn’t shrink themselves to make other people comfortable.

Alongside the deeper topics, there’s loads of laughter, rave nostalgia, DJ life chaos, pelvic floor chat, magnesium recommendations, forgotten names and stories from the golden era of clubbing.

A candid conversation about women in electronic music, ageing in the DJ industry, rave culture, mental health and why the dance floor still matters in midlife.

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In this episode, DJs Shanaz and Emma are joined by DJ Mini da Minx to explore the realities of balancing a career in electronic music with motherhood and midlife.

Minxie shares her journey from the Czech Republic to Cape Town and the UK club scene, building her name through radio, events and the breakbeat scene. She opens up about how becoming a mother impacted her career, identity and confidence — and why, unexpectedly, motherhood became a turning point rather than a setback.

The conversation dives into the day-to-day challenges of being a working DJ with a young child, including managing anxiety around gigs, childcare logistics, sleep deprivation and the mental load of constantly switching between home life and nightlife.

They also discuss wider topics affecting women in music and midlife, including perimenopause, stress, neurodiversity, burnout, and the long-term impact of the pandemic. There’s honest insight into festival culture with kids, mum guilt, relationship dynamics, and how the industry is (slowly) changing for female DJs and mothers.

Alongside the deeper topics, the episode includes lighter moments and practical takeaways — from mindfulness and sleep tools to on-stage mishaps and the reality behind social media highlight reels.

A candid, unfiltered conversation about sustaining a creative career while raising children — and redefining success, identity and longevity in the music industry.

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This week on We Are the Motherfogging DJs, we sit down with the unstoppable force that is DJ TBX (Bex)— and trust us, this is one of those conversations that stays with you long after the music fades.

From her roots growing up in Blackpool to commanding dancefloors in ski and snowboarding resorts, TBX shares the real, unfiltered story of how she carved out her place in the industry.

But this episode goes deeper than DJing.

We talk honestly about the realities of being a woman in the DJ world — the inequalities, the frustrations, and the power of using your voice to call it out. TBX’s perspective is both refreshing and necessary, especially for women navigating midlife in an industry that doesn’t always make space for them.

This is a conversation for women who’ve lived a bit. Who’ve seen some things. Who are done shrinking, done pleasing, and ready to take up space.

We also dive into her journey to sobriety — and how it’s brought her clarity, confidence, and that powerful shift into caring a whole lot less about what doesn’t matter. It’s freeing, it’s inspiring, and it’s something so many women in midlife will resonate with.

Add to that her upcoming book, and what you get is a woman stepping fully into her power — and showing others they can do the same.

This episode feels like a chat with that wise, straight-talking friend who tells you what you need to hear — not what you want to hear.

If you’re in a season of change, growth, or “what the hell comes next?” — this one’s for you.

Honest. Empowering. Unmissable.

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