The Fear of Being Seen Is Costing You

Most people don’t lack strategy.

They lack safety.

In this episode of Unplugged with Pam – Breakfast Club Edition, I unpack the psychological and economic cost of hiding — and why the fear of being seen is blocking your income, influence, and impact.

I share a personal story about battling imposter syndrome before going on TV — worrying about how I sounded, how I looked, and how I would be perceived — and how visibility activates the nervous system in ways most people don’t talk about.

If you’ve ever:

• Undercharged your value
• Delayed posting or launching
• Hesitated to pitch or speak
• Shrunk in rooms you were called to lead

This conversation is for you.

The market cannot reward what it cannot see.

Visibility builds credibility.
Credibility builds profitability.

And the life you’re praying for requires a version of you that isn’t afraid to be seen.

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If you’re serious about growth, come sit at the table.

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A mindset reset for entrepreneurs, leaders, and high performers ready to step into confidence and stop shrinking.

Are you doubting yourself… even though you’re qualified?
Undercharging… even though you overdeliver?
Playing small… even though you know you’re called for more?

In this powerful mindset episode, Pam The Plug breaks down why your biggest limitation isn’t your skillset — it’s your self-belief.

Fresh back from the Dominican Republic and inspired by a historic cultural moment, Pam unpacks a deeper message about identity, unity, confidence, and knowing your worth — in business, leadership, faith, and life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why “garbage in, garbage out” applies to your mindset
• How morning habits shape long-term success
• The difference between a skill gap and a belief gap
• Why high achievers still struggle with imposter syndrome
• How to rebuild confidence after doubt or delay
• Faith-driven confidence vs ego-driven confidence
• How to stop shrinking in rooms you’re qualified to lead

If you’re an entrepreneur, executive, creative, parent, or purpose-driven leader navigating growth in 2026 — this conversation is for you.

You are not behind.
You are not underqualified.
You are worth more than you think.

Start your day with fire. Start your day with belief.

🎙️ Unplugged with Pam Episode 9 — Breakfast Club Edition
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In this episode of Unplugged with Pam (brought to you by Chosen Global), Pam sits down with Carlos Gutierrez of Financially Fluent for a real conversation about what it takes to grow—mentally, emotionally, and financially.

Carlos opens up about immigrating from Cuba, breaking free from a “survival mode” mindset, and the pivotal moments that shaped his leadership—including leaving a 14-year banking career, navigating divorce, and choosing therapy as a turning point. Together, Pam and Carlos unpack mental health, identity, entrepreneurship, and what it means to keep moving forward when life is heavy.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Unplugging from survival mode and scarcity thinking
• The “Hulk mindset” vs. strategy, finesse, and growth
• Why therapy changed Carlos’s leadership and relationships
• Building systems, discipline, and health as non-negotiables
• How to keep going when life feels like it’s falling apart

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What happens after the dream comes true… and then ends?

In Episode 7 of Unplugged with Pam — fittingly BJ Daniels’ lucky number — Pamela Pacheco sits down with former NFL quarterback and Super Bowl Champion BJ Daniels for a raw conversation about fame, failure, identity, and mental health after the spotlight fades.

BJ opens up about:

• Life after the NFL and the silent mental health battles athletes face
• Losing your identity when the game is over
• Finding Yourself!
• Transitioning into corporate America with no roadmap
• The importance of Family, and Community
• How fitness and art became his therapy
• Redefining success beyond applause, titles, and trophies
• Defying the odds from the start — from being told he didn’t “fit the mold” to choosing USF because they loved him (not just liked him)
• The full-circle moments — Super Bowl nights, and the real reality when the jersey comes off
• The season that shifted his “why” — losing his grandmother while his sister fought cancer, and how purpose got louder than popularity

📘 BJ also shares the heart behind his book Beyond the Red Zone, available on Amazon, Target, Walmart, Kindle, and Audible.

This episode isn’t about football — it’s about identity, transition, and becoming who you are next!

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In this episode of Unplugged with Pam, I sit with Jennifer Fox — powerhouse wife, mom of three, and serial entrepreneur who co-owns 15 companies — to talk about what it really takes to lead, love, build, and protect your home in a world that glorifies hustle culture.

Jennifer went from corporate sales at Coca-Cola to running her husband’s business and building her own thriving company. Along the way, motherhood, faith, and mental-health awareness reshaped her entire approach to leadership and family life.

We dive into:

• Corporate to CEO: making the leap into entrepreneurship
• What it’s like to co-own 15 companies and still protect your peace
• Why mental health matters in marriage, parenting, business, and team culture
• How she studied mental health to support her husband and children
• Setting boundaries (no emails after 5 PM, no weekends burned out)
• Building a people-first company culture
• How reading the Bible changed her leadership

If you’re a faith-driven leader, mom, or entrepreneur who wants to build success without sacrificing your family or your mental health, this conversation will speak to you deeply.

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In this transformative episode 5 of Unplugged with Pam, Victory Gurley—Thought Leader, Published Author, Investor, World Traveler, reveals the mindset shift that changed everything: the power of learning to just be.

From redefining identity beyond titles, to surrendering the hustle, to healing through fatherhood and purpose, Victory shares how awareness, intuition, and inner work can dismantle the systems that no longer serve us.

If you’ve ever felt trapped by your roles, your grind, or expectations—this conversation will challenge you, free you, and call you higher.

Unplug from what drains you.
Plug into who you truly are.
Learn to just be.

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On this episode of Unplugged with Pam, I sit down with Jose “Visionary” Vega — author of Brand Genetics, entrepreneur, and a powerful voice in personal growth and modern branding.

We dive into the truth behind entrepreneurship, parenting as a leader, mental health, business identity, branding and the importance of giving yourself permission to pivot without guilt. His new book Ugly is in your DNA! A must read!

This episode will challenge you, inspire you, and remind you that every chapter of your journey is preparing you for the next level.

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Unplugged with Pam Featuring Jasmine Charbonier World class Content & Brand Strategist We Talk all things from Outgrowing your Environment to Mindset Shifts, From Brooklyn Ny to NYU & Around the World, The Power of Travel, Building Community, Why Mental Health Matters, Faith and more! Above all, You are Worth the Work that it takes to Live the Life you Deserve and Dream of!

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