Complex trauma tends to impact our relationships with ourselves and others.

In this episode Zoë explores:

• why positive, healthy relationships are powerful for healing from complex trauma
• what good relationships look like
• what are healthy relationship characteristics and skills
• what to look for in healthy, safe others who we can build positive relationships with.
• practical ways to start building positive, safe, healthy relationships

How we feel app

https://howwefeel.org/

This episode is for you if you've left an abusive romantic relationship and are struggling with difficult symptoms of complex trauma.

In this episode Zoë explores how complex trauma can develop from abusive adult relationships.

She discusses:

• the signs of an abusive relationship
• the typical progression of a relationship with an abusive person
• the impact on us especially our attachment and nervous systems and how complex trauma develops
• what makes us vulnerable to these relationships and how to start to address that
• practical tips to start your recovery
• the power of safe, healthy relationships for our healing

In this episode I focus on childhood and complex trauma. I discuss the important impact our childhood experiences can have on our relationship to ourselves, others and the world as a whole.

I also explore healthy relationships are so important for us all and why the origins of complex trauma usually lie in childhood as this is where we learn our template for relating.

I talk about what children need from their parents and caregivers to thrive, the impact of neglect and abuse in childhood and how you can start to recover if you experienced complex trauma in childhood.

Episode 3 resources

Feelings wheel

'Name it to Tame it'

⁠The Still Face Experiment Video

⁠Excellent, free, evidence-based parenting support from the Anna Freud Centre⁠

In this episode I cover more about what complex trauma is and the impact it has on our brains, minds and bodies. I also discuss more about the common symptoms and challenges faced by people who have experienced complex trauma and an overview of how it can develop from childhood and adulthood traumatic experiences.

You can find a transcript of the episode on my website: https://www.zoeross.com/podcast/episode-2-the-impact-of-complex-trauma/

Tips on dealing with Flashbacks

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-and-complex-ptsd/self-care/

https://pete-walker.com/13StepsManageFlashbacks.htm

NHS Self-help guide for complex trauma

https://www.nhsinform.scot/illnesses-and-conditions/mental-health/mental-health-self-help-guides/ptsd-and-cptsd-self-help-guide/

This first episode introduces Zoë and the podcast, giving you an overview of Complex Trauma.