"The Self-Edit is not a podcast you listen to; it is a practice you participate in."

In This Episode, We Cover:

• The Power of Chapters: Drawing from Michelle Obama’s philosophy that you can have it all, but not all at once.
• Beauty Marks vs. Blemishes: How Ciara’s "Beauty Mark" philosophy reframes our challenges as the very things that define our best eras.
• Stretching vs. Striving: A practical discernment grid to tell if you are moving in the "speed of grace" or running on the fumes of anxiety.
• Radical Themes for 2026: Why this is the year of Radical Surrender, Radical Execution, and Radical Alignment.
• The "Soft Girl" Rebrand: Why the "soft life" isn't about bubble baths—it’s about the end of striving and the beginning of "no more drama" (Mary J. Blige style).

The Self-Edit Practice: Your Integration Tools

1. The Grace Test Ask yourself these questions this week to discern your current pace:

• Is there peace underneath the discomfort? (Stretch = Uncomfortable but peaceful; Striving = Chaotic).
• Is this connected to a word God already gave me? (Stretch aligns with prior revelation; Striving comes from panic or comparison).
• Does this require more faith or more force?

2. The "Deposit Check" Exercise Stop reaching for shortcuts. Before your next big decision, list:

• What knowledge has already been given to me?
• What skills have I already been trained in?
• What influence already exists in my hands?
• The Rule: Obey only from this list of deposits this week.

Key Quotes & Anchors

Scripture & Meditation Anchors

• Isaiah 43:18–19: "Remember not the former things... Behold, I am doing a new thing."
• Proverbs 3:5–6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart..."
• Matthew 25:21: "You have been faithful over a few things; I will make you ruler over many."

What does the new version of you look like and feel like in 2026? I want to hear your "word" or theme for this year. Share it with the community and let's hold space for the stretch together.

Jeneba

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In this special Mother's Day weekend episode, Jeneba shares her refreshing perspective on motherhood and challenges the common myths and misconceptions that often leave moms feeling overwhelmed and insecure. She encourages listeners to embrace their unique mothering style and offers practical advice for creating a personalized motherhood philosophy.

Top Takeaways:

1. Perfectionism in motherhood is unrealistic and unhealthy. Embrace your imperfections and give yourself grace. Lead with self-compassion.

2. Prioritize self-care and your own needs first. Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup.

3. Maintain your identity outside of motherhood. Your own self-identity , interests, and passions make you a better parent.

4. Trust your instincts and make parenting decisions that align with your values and priorities.

5. Seek out a supportive community of mothers who share your perspective and can offer guidance and encouragement.

What We Edited - Motherhood Myths and Misconceptions Debunked:

- The perfect mom myth

- The supermom myth

- The self-sacrificing myth

- The happiness myth

- The comparison myth

- The work-life balance myth

Actionable Steps: What To Do Next?

1. Reflect on your personal values, beliefs, and priorities to create a foundation for your motherhood philosophy.

2. Identify your strengths as a mother and focus on developing your unique parenting style.

3. Curate your social media feed to include motherhood role models who inspire and resonate with you.

4. Prioritize self-care and self-maintenance in your daily routine.

5. Journal your thoughts and experiences to help define your motherhood philosophy.

Our Favorite Motherhood Role Models:

- Emma Grede, co-founder and CMO of Good American

-Taraji P Henson - Black Leading Hollywood Actress

- Sarah Jakes Roberts - Preacher, Author, NYT Best-Seller, Businesswoman, Media Mogul

- Serena Williams - The GOAT

- Reshma Saujan - Founder of Girls Who Code, Author

- Chrissy Teigan- Model and TV Personality

-Michelle Obama - Flotus, Media Mogul, Author, NYT Bestseller

Remember, motherhood is a journey, not a destination. Embrace the ups and downs, trust your instincts, and don't be afraid to redefine motherhood on your own terms. Happy Mother's Day!

For more inspiring content and honest conversations about , be sure to subscribe to The Self Edit podcast. You can also connect with Jeneba on social media @jenebawint or email her at hi@jennatalkstech.com.

In this episode of The Self Edit Podcast, Jeneba dives into the complex topic of balance and why it's all an illusion for real life. As a busy creator, mom, wife, solopreneur, freelancer, and consultant, Jeneba shares her unique perspective on why she doesn't believe in the practice of balance and how we can redefine our expectations of it.

If you're struggling to find harmony in your daily life, this episode is for you. Join Jeneba as she explores the true meaning of balance and offers insights on how to prioritize your choices and decisions to create space for peace, fulfillment, and joy.

1. Defining Balance

2. Redefining the Expectation of Balance

3. Perspectives on Balance

- Emma Grede, co-founder of Skims,

- Earn Your Leisure podcast

- Opinions from wellness experts, life coaches, and psychologists (Brené Brown, Dr. Susan David, Deepak Chopra, Richard Branson, Michelle Obama, Warren Buffett, Elizabeth Gilbert)

4. Achieving a Balanced Life

1. Balance is not a perfect equilibrium but rather an ongoing process of making intentional choices and prioritizing what matters most to you.

2. Achieving balance requires self-awareness, adaptability, and the willingness to put yourself first on your to-do list.

3. Balance is a state of well-being, happiness, and living in your inner truth while prioritizing life satisfaction.

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I want to know what is your definition of balance is. What is a balanced life? What does it mean to you? How does balance show up in your life or not show up? Where are you unbalanced?

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