In this episode, Lazarus talks about those who show up for us in every season, and explores the fact that they also carry silent burdens of their own.

He asks us to pause and consider:

Who supports the supporter?

Who listens to the listener?

Who hugs the hugger?

The episode is a gentle reminder to look beyond the surface and offer kindness, gratitude, and support to those who are always there for us - even when they don't ask for it.

Key Takeaways

• Everyone is fighting a battle you may not see.

• Emotional caregivers often neglect their own needs.

• A simple "thank you" can restore someone's sense of purpose.

Pay attention to the silent struggles of those who seem strong.

Be the person who does for them what they do for you.

Call to Action

Share this episode on social media, and with someone who has always been there for you.

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Emails: bandalazarus@outlook.com

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Background music

Just relax - Lesfm

Episode Summary

In this thought-provoking episode, Lazarus Banda explores the idea that life's challenges—often perceived as unfair or "rigged"—can actually be powerful opportunities for growth. Whether in politics, sports, or the workplace, setbacks are often seen as signs of a broken system. But what if they're actually part of a deeper lesson?

Through calm reflection and a shift in mindset, Lazarus reveals how being invited to compete is itself a form of validation, and how perseverance, preparation, and attitude can "rig" the game in your favor. This episode is a motivational reminder that failure isn't the end—it's a stepping stone.

Key Takeaways

• Perception vs. Reality: Not all systems are rigged and malicious—some are misunderstood.
• Validation in Participation: Being shortlisted means you were seen and deemed worthy.
• Respect the Winners: A clear mind helps you learn from those who succeed.
• The Power of Perseverance: The universe rewards those who stay in the game.
• Preparation is Everything: You hold the power to tilt the game through effort and mindset.
• Mindset Matters: Your response to failure determines your future success.

Memorable Quotes

"Just being allowed to compete is a form of validation."

"The universe is rigged—to reward those who persevere."

"That rigged game? It's not your enemy. It's your teacher."

Resources & Mentions

• Original blog post: The Beauty of a Rigged Game

https://izrus.wordpress.com/2022/03/05/the-beauty-of-a-rigged-game/

📲 Call to Action

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Episode Summary:

In this episode, we explore how phrases like "life is short," "miracle," and "witchcraft" can carry deep personal meaning. We discuss the importance of approaching differing beliefs with kindness and empathy, and how understanding the stories behind words can lead to compassion and connection.

Key Takeaways:

Words and phrases can have different meanings based on personal experience.

Approaching differing beliefs with kindness and empathy is crucial.

Understanding the stories behind words can lead to compassion and connection.

Reflection Questions:

What phrases or words have taken on new meaning for you in your life?

How can you approach differing beliefs with kindness and empathy?

What stories or experiences have shaped your worldview?

Connect with Us:

Follow us on social media: @Izrus_Isba

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