In this episode, hosts Julian and Gino engage with Dave Palmer, a Catholic educator and radio host, to explore the teachings of St. Thomas Aquinas. They discuss how Aquinas' philosophy can help families build virtue and moral clarity in today's complex world. Dave shares his journey of understanding Aquinas, the importance of simplicity in his teachings, and practical ways families can apply these lessons in their daily lives. The conversation also touches on the historical context of Aquinas, the role of technology in learning, and the unique nature of persons as made in the image of God.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to St. Thomas Aquinas

02:50 The Journey of Understanding Aquinas

05:30 Practical Applications of Aquinas' Teachings

08:26 The Nature of God and Simplicity

11:12 Aquinas and Moral Clarity in a Confusing World

14:14 The Historical Context of Aquinas

16:55 Personal Revelations from Studying Aquinas

19:51 The Role of Technology in Learning

22:31 Virtue and Its Importance

24:59 Understanding God Outside of Time

28:14 The Structure of Aquinas' Teachings

30:57 The Responsibility of Teaching Aquinas

33:25 The Impact of Aquinas on Family Conversations

36:20 Finding Goodness in All Things

38:56 The Unique Nature of Persons

41:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Have you ever felt like life is a maze that you can’t seem to navigate? 🤷‍♂️ Parenting, relationships, spirituality, health - it’s all overwhelming and there’s no clear map to guide you. 🗺️ But what if there was? 🤔

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In this episode of the Julia and Gino podcast, hosts Julia and Gino Barbero engage with Dr. Lee Baucom, a marriage coach and creator of the Save the Marriage System and the Unpause app. The conversation explores the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the importance of connection, the differences between therapy and coaching, and the common conflict points in marriages. Dr. Baucom shares insights on how to invite change in a partner, the significance of physical, emotional, and spiritual connections, and introduces the Unpause app as a tool to help couples reconnect and improve their relationships.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Marriage Coaching

02:27 Understanding Relationship Dynamics

06:02 The Role of Therapy vs. Coaching

11:27 The Importance of Money in Relationships

18:24 Defining a Healthy Marriage

21:10 Understanding Each Other Through Connection

23:00 Navigating Resistance in Relationships

27:54 The Three Levels of Connection

34:15 The Importance of Connection in Parenting

34:46 Utilizing Technology for Relationship Growth

38:41 Final Thoughts on Marriage and Connection

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Welcome to the ‘Family Coaching’ podcast, where Gino and Julia help you navigate the complexities of life with ease and grace.

🎙️ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. 💑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🙏💊 Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!

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Takeaways

Build psychologically resilient children.

Create a family culture based on love.

Criticism should be ethical and constructive.

Timing and permission are key in criticism.

Meet children where they are in their development.

Have you ever felt like life is a maze that you can’t seem to navigate? 🤷‍♂️ Parenting, relationships, spirituality, health - it’s all overwhelming and there’s no clear map to guide you. 🗺️ But what if there was? 🤔

Welcome to the ‘Family Coaching’ podcast, where Gino and Julia help you navigate the complexities of life with ease and grace.

🎙️ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. 💑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🙏💊 Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!

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Takeaways:

Jonathan Tuttle emphasizes the importance of challenging oneself in business.

Travel can be optimized for work and personal enjoyment.

Testing business ideas is crucial for success.

Persistence and iteration are key in marketing strategies.

Finding a niche can lead to greater success in podcasting.

Family offices require a long-term relationship-building approach.

Real estate offers tax benefits and passive income opportunities.

Effective podcast marketing requires a budget and strategic planning.

Networking and building trust are essential in high-net-worth circles.

The podcasting landscape is competitive, requiring innovative marketing techniques.

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Welcome to the ‘Family Coaching’ podcast, where Gino and Julia help you navigate the complexities of life with ease and grace.

🎙️ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. 💑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🙏💊 Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!

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On today's show, we sit down with Dennis Harhalakis, a Certified Money Coach and founder of Cambridge Money Coaching. After 30 years in corporate financial services, Dennis realized that while he knew everything about the math of money, he knew very little about the behavior behind it.

In this episode, we dive deep into why money is the #1 source of conflict for couples. Dennis explains that we aren't actually fighting about dollars and cents; we are fighting about values, safety, and childhood programming. We discuss how to move from judgment to curiosity, why "connection must come before solution," and the three specific pillars that make up your relationship with money.

If you have ever felt shame around your finances or struggle to communicate with your spouse about the budget, this episode will give you the compassion and tools you need to heal that relationship.

Key Takeaways-

✅ Money is a Story: A $100 bill is just paper; the value is a narrative. Similarly, your financial life is driven by the stories and beliefs you inherited from your parents.

✅ The Couples Trap: Arguments usually stem from one partner seeking Safety (Saving) and the other seeking Pleasure/Life (Spending). Both are valid psychological needs.

✅ Connection Before Solution: You cannot fix a budget problem until you understand the emotional need behind your partner's behavior.

✅ The 3 Parts of Money: Your relationship with money is actually: 1) What you believe about yourself, 2) What you believe about money, and 3) What you believe about money and yourself.

✅ The Tennis Analogy: If you want to get better at tennis, you hire a coach. Money is the one tool we use every day, yet we rarely seek coaching for the behavioral side of it.

Question for you: Be honest: When you think about your childhood, what is the main "money message" you received from your parents? (e.g., "Money is scarce," or "Don't talk about money"). Let us know in the comments!

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🎙️ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. 💑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🙏💊 Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!

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We dive deep into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely discuss: Apologies. Did you know that just like love languages, we all have specific "Apology Languages"? Dr. Chapman breaks down why simply saying "I'm sorry" often isn't enough and shares the 5 specific ways people need to hear an apology to truly forgive.

We also discuss the power of unconditional love, how to navigate conflict without destroying your marriage, and Dr. Chapman’s incredible new book, The Most Important Love Language. Whether you are newlyweds or have been married for decades, this conversation is packed with wisdom to help you build a deeper, lasting connection.

Key Takeaways:

✅ The "I'm Sorry" Trap: Why saying "I'm sorry" might actually annoy your spouse if it's not their apology language.

✅ The 5 Apology Languages: A breakdown of the five distinct ways to apologize effectively (Expressing Regret, Accepting Responsibility, Making Restitution, Genuinely Repenting, and Requesting Forgiveness).

✅ Influence vs. Control: How to positively influence a spouse who refuses to go to counseling or read relationship books.

✅ Healthy Conflict: Why arguing isn't bad for your marriage—if you do it the right way.

✅ Purpose Over Popularity: Dr. Chapman’s inspiring philosophy on serving the people right in front of you, regardless of the crowd size.

Let's Connect!

Question of the Day: Which of the 5 Apology Languages resonates most with you? Do you need to hear "I was wrong," or do you prefer to see a change in behavior? Let us know in the comments below! 👇

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🎙️ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. 💑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🙏💊 Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!

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We dive deep into the challenges parents face when finding quality books for their children and how to encourage a love for story—even if your child isn't a "natural" reader. Amanda shares her unique insights on writing the Tree Street Kids series, the nostalgia of the 90s, and why Christian fiction shouldn't feel like a "clown car" of forced lessons.

We also tackle the hot topic of Artificial Intelligence. Is AI killing creativity? How is it affecting our children's attention spans and ability to process deep stories? Amanda offers a thoughtful perspective on the importance of "souled" art versus soulless generation.

Key Takeaways:

✔️ Recognizing Different Readers: Why audiobooks and film analysis count as loving "story" just as much as reading text.

✔️ The "Clown Car" Analogy: How to write and find books that have Biblical values without shoving messages in forcefully.

✔️ Overcoming Blocks: Practical advice for writers and creatives on getting "unstuck" (including the science of napping!).

✔️ Navigating AI: The dangers of AI in the creative space and why the "suffering artist" is necessary for true art.

✔️ Resources for Parents: Specific websites and tips for finding safe, high-quality books for your family.

Question of the Day: How do you handle screen time vs. story time in your house? Do you have a reluctant reader you are trying to encourage? Let us know in the comments below! 👇

Have you ever felt like life is a maze that you can’t seem to navigate? 🤷‍♂️ Parenting, relationships, spirituality, health - it’s all overwhelming and there’s no clear map to guide you. 🗺️ But what if there was? 🤔

Welcome to the ‘Family Coaching’ podcast, where Gino and Julia help you navigate the complexities of life with ease and grace.

🎙️ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. 💑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🙏💊 Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!

💪 Tune into our podcast for a refreshing take on navigating life's most complex challenges. It's like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. 🎧🔑 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Join our free Skool community and connect with a fast-growing network of like-minded individuals: https://www.skool.com/barbaro360

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Jamie shares her transition from a traditional classroom teacher to a homeschooling mom, revealing why the system often fails "out-of-the-box" kids. We tackle the biggest fears parents face—from socialization myths to academic inadequacy—and offer practical advice on how to start, even if you feel overwhelmed. Whether you're a veteran homeschooler or just considering the leap, this conversation will empower you to trust your instincts, embrace the mess, and teach your children with confidence.

Key Takeaways-

✅ Unlearning "School": Homeschooling isn't about replicating the classroom at home. It's about integrating learning naturally into your life and letting go of rigid structures.

✅ The Myth of Socialization: The idea that homeschoolers lack social skills is outdated. With co-ops, field trips, and real-world interactions, homeschooled kids often have richer social lives than their peers.

✅ You Are Enough: You don't need to be an expert in every subject. As a parent, you facilitate education by finding the right resources and mentors for your child's unique needs.

✅ Modeling Over Perfection: It's okay for your kids to see you struggle. Modeling how to handle grief, failure, and overwhelm teaches them resilience—a life skill no textbook can provide.

What is the one fear holding you back from homeschooling or taking charge of your child's education?

Have you ever felt like life is a maze that you can’t seem to navigate? 🤷‍♂️ Parenting, relationships, spirituality, health - it’s all overwhelming and there’s no clear map to guide you. 🗺️ But what if there was? 🤔

Welcome to the ‘Family Coaching’ podcast, where Gino and Julia help you navigate the complexities of life with ease and grace.

🎙️ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. 💑👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🙏💊 Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!

💪 Tune into our podcast for a refreshing take on navigating life's most complex challenges. It's like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. 🎧🔑 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Join our free Skool community and connect with a fast-growing network of like-minded individuals: https://www.skool.com/barbaro360

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