On this insightful episode of The Elisha Show, Amb. Elisha sits down with Valerie Greene, relationship coach and intimacy expert, to unpack one of the biggest frustrations in modern dating — why we keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners and how to finally break the pattern.

Valerie shares her personal journey from constant conflict and unhealthy relationship cycles to building a thriving marriage rooted in emotional depth and connection. After years of doing the inner work herself, she now helps singles attract lasting love and teaches couples how to transform conflict into deeper intimacy.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why we attract people who treat us the way we treat ourselves

• How your nervous system — not your logic — chooses your partners

• The difference between having fun chemistry and having emotional compatibility

• Subtle “green flags” and “red flags” to look for when dating

• How to test emotional availability without oversharing

• Why shared values matter more than shared interests

• How to turn everyday conflict into connection instead of escalation

Valerie also draws from the work of leading relationship researchers like John Gottman and Sue Johnson, blending attachment science with practical communication tools.

One of the biggest takeaways?

Conflict is not the enemy. Disconnection is.

When we move from a “right vs. wrong” mindset into understanding feelings and unmet needs, arguments shift from power struggles into opportunities for intimacy.

If you’re tired of situationships…

If you keep meeting charming but emotionally distant partners…

Or if you’re in a relationship that feels stuck in recurring arguments…

This conversation will challenge you to do the deeper inner work that changes everything.

Because love isn’t just about attraction.

It’s about emotional availability — starting with yourself.

Reach Valerie: https://coachvaleriegreene.com/free-strategy-session/

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On this powerful episode of The Elisha Show, Amb. Elisha sits down with Chris Moore — author, contractor, and mindset mentor — for a deeply moving conversation about grief, aging, purpose, and the hidden gift inside suffering.

After losing his wife of 33 years to cancer, Chris found himself in a place many people never recover from — overwhelming grief and emotional darkness. But instead of melting into bitterness, he discovered something transformative: we may not choose what happens to us, but we can choose the frame we put around it.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why suffering can be a gift — if you allow it to shape you

• The powerful mindset shift that helped Chris survive devastating loss

• How brokenness can reveal deeper spiritual strength

• The difference between growing toward gravity and growing toward light

• Why gratitude reframes tragedy

• How perspective determines whether pain destroys you or develops you

Chris also shares the inspiration behind his book, Age Out Loud, and why so many people unconsciously accept decline as inevitable. Drawing from years of working with aging homeowners, he challenges the cultural lie that life peaks at 50 and fades afterward.

Instead, he presents a bold alternative:

Your later years can be your most purposeful years — if your mindset supports it.

This conversation is not about avoiding pain.

It’s about redeeming it.

It’s about reframing loss.

It’s about choosing gratitude over despair.

If you are navigating grief, questioning your purpose, or wondering whether your best days are behind you — this episode will challenge and uplift you.

Because strength is not born from comfort.

It is revealed through surrender.

Reach Chris: https://ageoutloudbook.com/

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On this inspiring episode of The Elisha Show, Amb. Elisha sits down with Tim Youkhana, pharmacist, entrepreneur, and faith-driven leader, for a powerful conversation about courage, conviction, and building a business rooted in values.

After spending over 15 years in corporate pharmacy, Tim made a bold decision. He walked away from comfort and security because he saw something he could not ignore — profit being valued over people. At a time when opioid misuse was devastating communities across the United States, Tim chose integrity over compliance.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• What pushed Tim to leave a secure corporate career

• The ethical tension he faced during the opioid crisis

• How faith guided him through unemployment, uncertainty, and fatherhood

• The six-year journey before finally opening his pharmacy

• Why waking up at 3 a.m. gives him a mental and spiritual advantage

• How discipline, gratitude, and solitude shape his leadership

• Why perseverance is more important than talent

• The entrepreneurial lessons he learned from his father

• Tim also shares how cutting off “Plan B” forced him to grow into the man his family and employees needed him to be.

This conversation is about more than pharmacy.

It’s about faith under pressure.

It’s about choosing purpose over profit.

It’s about building something that serves people, not just shareholders.

Because sometimes the biggest leap of faith becomes the foundation of your greatest impact.

Reach Tim: https://www.anicerx.com/blog

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