Most Christians would say prayer is the most important thing they do. Most of us also do it the least. This episode is about closing that gap.

I sat down with my best friend, Pastor Stanton Moore, for an honest conversation about prayer — what it actually is, what we get wrong about it, and how to start if you never have or stopped a long time ago.

Stanton's take is simpler than you'd expect: prayer doesn't begin with talking. It begins with listening. And a lot of us are praying to a God we don't really understand — he puts it bluntly: too many believers picture God as an angry dad with two billion kids grabbing at his coattails. We live in the front yard when Jesus is inviting us into the living room.

We get practical: how to actually build a prayer life when you're starting from zero (hint: not an hour a day — he'll tell you why that's setting yourself up to fail), what Stanton's own routine looks like on an ordinary Tuesday, whether the method matters, and what to do with the complaining, the dry seasons, and the prayers that sound nothing like a pastor's.

Then we go where most prayer conversations don't. Stanton shares the hardest season of his own life — and what he learned about God's goodness through a prayer that wasn't answered the way he begged for it. We talk about God's sovereignty, praying wrong, why God is patient with what Stanton calls our "immature sincerity," and why praying with your spouse and your kids might be the most powerful thing you do in your home.

And his one-sentence answer to "if you could only tell people one thing about prayer" is worth the whole episode.

If you've never really prayed, or you stopped a long time ago — this one's for you. Start tonight. Ten minutes. He's been waiting on the porch.

Everybody knows they should exercise and eat right. Almost nobody does it consistently. This episode is about closing that gap.

I sat down with Blue Norman — my personal trainer, my friend, and a man whose story starts with loading his whole life into a Camry at 18 and driving sixteen hours from Oklahoma to Valdosta because he'd fallen in love with CrossFit and believed the Lord had His hand in it.

Blue coaches people every day, which means he has a front-row seat to what actually separates the people who transform from the people who quit. His answer is simpler than you'd think — and it has almost nothing to do with motivation.

We get practical fast. The three things that drive almost all of your results (protein, steps, and working out — that's it). Why hitting your protein matters more than counting calories. What "training to failure" actually means for a normal person, and why 45 focused minutes beats 90 lazy ones. The biggest nutrition myth he busts over and over. And what a realistic week looks like for somebody with a job, kids, and a life — not an athlete.

Then we go deeper: fitness as stewardship. Your body is a temple for the Holy Spirit — so how are you taking care of it? Blue's honest about what he sees, and about why this isn't about vanity or being the fittest person in the room. It's about being able to serve your family, your calling, and the Lord with the body you've been given.

And we talk about something I've noticed about Blue for years — people tell him things. Clients open up way past sets and reps. What he's learned from being that guy might be the best part of the episode: even the experts need somebody. His coach tells him the exact same things he tells his clients — and he can't hear it any other way. Because we weren't made to do it alone.

Blue is actively taking new clients — nutrition, training, or both, all online. Find him on Instagram @blue_norman22. His info is in the show notes.

Stay on the journey.

Most people never do therapy. But honestly? Most people would probably benefit from taking better care of their mental health.

This month I sat down with Susan Bradshaw of EnSpire Counseling & Wellness — a faith-based counselor with nearly 30 years in the field, and someone I've worked with personally. We had an honest, easygoing conversation about why so few people ever walk through the door, and what they might be missing by staying away.

I open up a little about my own story and why I've leaned on counseling in certain seasons. And we get into the stuff most people wonder but never ask: the difference between a therapist, a psychologist, and a psychiatrist. Why "taking care of your mental health" doesn't always mean structured therapy — sometimes it's a friend, a group, a coach, or time with God. How to actually find the right fit, and what to do if you've had a bad experience before.

Susan also teaches. She walks through the practical stuff — self-care, retraining negative thought patterns ("stinking thinking"), the research on how prayer can rewire your brain, and the trauma work she does through EMDR and BLAST. And because she counsels from a Christian perspective, we talk about how faith and mental health fit together, and why going to a counselor doesn't mean you've stopped trusting God.

The heart of it: God didn't design us to carry everything on our own. Whether it's a therapist, a group, or a good friend — everybody needs someone to talk to.

If you've ever thought about it but never pulled the trigger, this one's for you.

America turns 250 this year — and in this episode, we're celebrating her.

Not a naive celebration that pretends we have no problems. A grateful, grounded one that says: 250 years in, this is still the greatest nation on earth, and the things that make it work aren't the monuments in Washington. They're the quiet institutions in places like Cook County, Georgia, run with integrity by people who serve their neighbors.

I sat down with Judge Chase Daughtrey — Probate Judge of Cook County, elected at just 26 as the youngest judge in the state of Georgia. Eighteen years later, he's still serving, and he gave us a rare look inside the machinery of self-governance that most people never think about.

We get into what a probate judge actually does (way more than you'd think), the quiet work of protecting vulnerable adults and seniors who have no one else, why local elections might matter more than national ones, what it means to swear an oath in a country founded on them, and the difference between being informed and being consumed by the 24-hour outrage cycle.

And we talk about the big thing: why — even with her challenges — America is still worth celebrating. From the folks risking everything on rafts to get here, to the visitors falling in love with the country during the World Cup, to the simple truth that nobody's trying to break out.

As Chase put it: she'll have her challenges, she'll have adversities to overcome, but he'll take her over any other country any day of the week.

Same here.

Happy 250th, America.

This month, Jess is back on the show.

We just celebrated 10 years of marriage — 18 years together since we were 13 and 12 years old. So this episode is exactly what it sounds like: 10ish tips for 10 years of marriage. No experts, no scripts. Just two people who've been doing this since middle school sharing what's kept us pointed in the same direction.

We get into the practical and the personal — what we've learned about staying connected when life gets loud, what a healthy marriage looks like behind closed doors, the disciplines that protect it, and the small habits that hold a house together.

Plus Emma Claire chimed in with her own marriage advice that made us both laugh out loud.

Whether you're newly married, ten years deep, or somewhere in between — this one's for you.

Everyone talks about culture. But most people think it's a mission statement on the wall or a ping pong table in the break room. It's not.

I sat down with Terry Moore — CEO of YOSS Platform and OneSource, and one of the most important people in my life — to talk about what culture actually is, how you build it on purpose, how you protect it when it gets hard, and what happens when you don't.

Terry has been building one of the most relationship-driven, culture-first organizations in South Georgia for 18 years. I've had a front row seat for a lot of it. This is that conversation finally on record.

But here's what I want you to hear: this one isn't just for CEOs. If you lead a team, a church, a nonprofit, or a household — you have a culture. The question is whether it's one you built intentionally or one that just happened to you.

In this episode we cover: What culture actually is and how you know when you have the one you intended; Why culture always starts at the top and nowhere else; The difference between values and behaviors — and why that distinction matters more than you think; How to hire for culture fit and what Terry actually looks for when someone walks in the door; What abundance mindset really means and why scarcity cultures eat themselves; The biggest threats to a healthy culture and which one leaders underestimate the most; How to protect your culture even when it costs you a client; Applying every one of these principles to your home — because your family has a culture too; And one of my favorite lines from this entire conversation: perfection is not the standard. Awareness is.

This one hit different. Hope it does the same for you.

E23 - Sabbath in a Culture That Never Stops

We live in a culture that celebrates the grind. Hustle is the badge of honor. But what if the constant go-go-go is actually working against us?

I sat down with my best friend Stanton Moore, Senior Pastor at Burn Culture Church, to talk about Sabbath - what it actually is, why it's so hard, and why God commanded rest in the first place.

This one got personal. We talked about feeling guilty when we're not productive, tying our identity to what we accomplish, and the slow poison of never slowing down. Stanton challenged me with a question I'm still thinking about: Do we really trust God enough to stop?

In this conversation, we cover:

• Why rest is so hard for driven people
• What Sabbath actually is - a day, a rhythm, or a mindset?
• The cost of ignoring rest - burnout, anger, and soul decay
• Why refusing to rest might be a trust issue
• What rest looks like practically with young kids and busy lives
• Why resting isn't passive - it's actually aggressive
• The difference between being busy and being productive

"People think that resting is passive, but resting is actually very aggressive - because what it says is Lord, I'm putting you in the driver's seat of my life."

If you've been running on empty and know something has to change, this one's for you.

#DoLifeWell #Sabbath #Rest #Faith #HustleCulture #BurnCultureChurch

E22 - Raising the Standard: You're Capable of More Than You Think

At 19, Gary Rowan knew he was going nowhere. He walked into a Marine Corps recruiting office and asked, "How soon can I go?" They said Friday. Same week.

Five years as a Marine K-9 handler taught him something that changed everything: anything the person to his left or right could do, he could do. And if he tried harder, he could do it better.

Now he runs Wild Boar Land Management, raises two kids with his wife Brittany, runs 60-80 miles a week training for the Boston Marathon, and gets up at 4am to do it all over again.

In this conversation, we talk about:

• Why he joined the Marines to change his circumstances
• What boot camp revealed about what he was capable of
• Building a business one "yes" at a time
• The cost of choosing comfort
• Why easy is poison
• Gratitude as the antidote to stress
• Raising kids to be tough but kind
• Why there are no secrets - just doing the work

"Planning without action is just procrastination with a notebook."

If you're a man who knows you're capable of more but keeps making excuses, this one's for you.