After six months of living in their bold and beautiful new build in Queensland, Cait & Cam are answering 20 of the most asked (and awkward) questions about their home, relationship, and design choices.

Expect laughs, honest reflections, practical build advice, and a deep dive into why they chose everything…

From a black plunge pool to mid-century secondhand furniture - and how they stayed (or didn’t stay) on budget.

Tune in to hear about:

👉Why they chose a volume builder over a custom build

👉Sustainable design choices & secondhand furniture sourcing

👉Navigating build regrets (spoiler: there aren’t many!)

👉Their bold facade, Venetian plaster, and floor-to-ceiling tiles

👉Designing with dogs, future kids & real life in mind

👉The story behind that infamous neon bathroom sign

👉Cam’s journey into the Lawn Dad Era™

👉How to afford a big build without a handout

👉The real reason there’s so much pink in the house

Key moments:

00:02:00 The Black House Backstory
00:05:00 What We'd Change
00:07:40 Why Secondhand
00:10:00 Volume vs Custom Building
00:12:00 Big House, Small Family
00:15:20 Black Isn't Hot
00:17:40 Building Advice That Works
00:20:40 Style Without Rules
00:25:00 Biggest Build Splurges
00:29:00 Budget Blowout Confession
00:33:00 How We Pay For It

Whether you're planning a build, dreaming about design, or just want to peek inside a home that refuses to blend in, this episode delivers practical wisdom and funny insights.
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👉Find out more about how we can work together:

https://iconiccoaching.com.au/coaching/

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👉Here’s how to connect:

https://www.instagram.com/tellmeaboutit__podcast
https://iconiccoaching.com.au

What happens when a loyal, lovely client just stops showing up energetically… but keeps paying you anyway?

This week on Tell Me About It, I’m sharing the real story of why I fired a long-term coaching client.

Not because she did anything wrong - but because something vital was missing: energy, action, and alignment.

The crazy thing is, within DAYS of letting her go, two new, highly aligned clients signed up (with no marketing involved).

Coincidence? I think the f*ck not.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

✅ How to know when it’s time to fire a client
✅ Energetic alignment in business and why it matters
✅ Letting go of clients with love, clarity, and integrity
✅ Why holding onto the wrong people is blocking your growth
✅ How to have tough client break-up conversations
✅ The real cost of tolerating toxic or checked-out clients
✅ How to make space for your dream clients in 2026

Key moments:

00:01:00 The Four Year Breakup
00:04:40 Energy Shift After Letting Go
00:06:20 The Wardrobe Principle
00:09:00 Firing Toxic Clients
00:12:00 Having The Conversation
00:15:00 Overcoming Fear of Letting Go
00:17:00 Scarcity Mindset Trap
00:19:00 Audit Your Client Roster

Listen now and discover how clearing the old creates space for opportunities that actually light you up.

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👉Find out more about how we can work together:

https://iconiccoaching.com.au/coaching/

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👉Here’s how to connect:

https://www.instagram.com/tellmeaboutit__podcast
https://iconiccoaching.com.au

What happens when we stop following the “normal” script for relationships, sex, mental health, and motherhood?

In this powerful episode of The Tell Me About It Podcast, I’m joined by Jess Douglas-Monks (JDM Sexology) - a sexologist and mental health advocate based in rural Victoria, Australia.

This conversation dives deep into ethical non-monogamy (ENM), queer identity, consent education, sex positivity, and the realities of navigating bipolar disorder… while raising children and building a life that actually fits.

Jess shares her lived experience moving from florist to psychologist-in-training to sexologist.

We also explore breaking taboos around sex education in rural Australia, and why honest conversations about bodily autonomy, consent, and pleasure-based sex education are essential for protecting children and empowering adults.

Tune in to hear about:

✅Ethical non-monogamy and navigating a throuple

✅Monogamy vs non-monogamy and why “normal” isn’t working for everyone

✅Queer motherhood and raising kids with consent and bodily autonomy

✅Sex education, pleasure, and why abstinence-based teaching fails

✅Bipolar type 2, postnatal depression, and mental health stigma

✅Family violence awareness and why these conversations are still hidden

✅Parenting, privacy, and consent in the digital age

✅Why doing what’s right for you matters more than public opinion

If you care about consent culture, sex positivity, queer identity, women’s mental health, and honest conversations, this one is for you.

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👉Connect with Jess from JDM Sexology

https://www.instagram.com/jdmsexology/

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👉Find out more about how we can work together:

https://iconiccoaching.com.au/coaching/

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👉Here’s how to connect:

https://www.instagram.com/tellmeaboutit__podcast
https://iconiccoaching.com.au