Dunke and Obafeyikemi are serving unfiltered truth about love after 40 with zero apologies. They've traded rose-coloured glasses for bifocals and peace—and they're not looking back. From navigating divorce to finding mature partnership, these two break down why butterflies are overrated (hello, settled nervous systems!), why younger men might actually get it (Dunke's not fully convinced though), and how trusting your gut becomes non-negotiable. They're done with emotional fixer-uppers and ready for kindness, safety, and someone who can handle their full complexity with their full chest.

This is the conversation for women who've walked through enough decades to know exactly what they don't want—and aren't afraid to choose themselves first. Authentic, bold, and refreshingly honest, with just the right dose of "I woke up high-energy today" chaos.

Perfect for: Women 40+ ready to stop making excuses and start demanding peace in their relationships—or perfectly content flying solo with good friends and zero drama

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In this return episode, Dunke and Obafeyikemi ease back into the podcast with honesty, humour and a clear intention for 2026: less performing, more living. They talk about giving themselves (and others) grace after a heavy season, and stepping into an that’s all about boundaries, self-trust, and moving with purpose—without guilt.

The conversation reframes January as a settling month, not a sprint: quiet the noise, reset your system, and listen for your own voice again. From completing long-delayed goals (including a poetry book) to reclaiming creativity and dreaming audaciously, they emphasise faith, possibility, and practical agency—focus on what you can control, let go of what you can’t, and take the next step even if you don’t yet know how it will all come together.

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