Most people think confidence comes after they get good at something, but the truth is the opposite: you only start getting good when you decide you’re allowed to try. This episode breaks down why belief is the first real skill, the quiet engine behind every visible achievement. We explore how every breakthrough starts as a delusion that you slowly grow into, why self-doubt is actually the default human setting, and how your mind learns to expand only after you give it permission.

Devotion over motivation. Be devoted to the person you want to be. This is not an inspirational poster, its your life, take it seriously.

This episode explores the tension between free will and environmental influence, questioning whether our choices are truly our own or shaped by what we’ve been exposed to.

There are many clowns and bozo's in the world who don't understand boundaries and do their best to drag your energy down to make themselves comfortable and safe, especially when you're focused on flying high. You have to create boundaries with these bozo's.

Be real, be authentic, and go after what you want.

It makes no sense to spend time thinking about whether you should take a chance or not. Take control or become a spectator. GO BIG or go home

They said your 20s would be the best years of your life.

But what they didn’t tell you... is that you’d question everything, your worth, your timing, your purpose.

In this episode of Stay Sonder, we dismantle the myth of the perfect 20s.

Through real stories, raw truths, and the voices of those who made it after the mess, you’ll see why confusion isn’t failure, it’s formation.

This one’s for anyone who feels behind.

You’re not late.

You’re just becoming.