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  • Sensual Abundance #026: Haggling Is Not My Thing

    Sensual Abundance #026: Haggling Is Not My Thing
    Jan 23 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-six of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari talks about probably one of the boundaries in her work as a spicy creator: her firm stance against haggling over prices. She shares her experiences across various platforms - NiteFlirt, OnlyFans, and her own website - and explains how clear pricing and holding boundaries not only preserve her energy but also help weed out time-wasters and freebie seekers. Highlights:
    • [00:03:12] – “Haggling is not my thing.”
    • [00:06:02] – Not uncommon for a few men to try and haggle my prices.
    • [00:08:35] – Isn’t NOT haggling leaving money on the table?
    • [00:09:43] – Payment timing and customer choices.
    • [00:15:13] – Boundaries on time and negotiation.
    • [00:34:41] – Gratitude over resentment – an invitation for you!

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    20 Min.
  • Sensual Abundance #025: Whining About Costs Is Not Abundant Thinking

    Sensual Abundance #025: Whining About Costs Is Not Abundant Thinking
    Jan 23 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-five of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. In today’s episode, Mari brings an important topic to the table – the cost of doing business as a spicy creator. From the not-so-glamorous side of self-employment (like paying taxes and managing platform fees) they get candid about the financial side of content creation. Highlights:
    • [00:04:02] – NiteFlirt and their fee for using their platform.
    • [00:08:33] –Fees: cost of doing business.
    • [00:10:58] – Reddit thread about one platform that takes 70%.
    • [00:14:08] – Pricing and abundance mindset.
    • [00:27:05] – Value of platform costs.
    • [00:34:41] – Gratitude over resentment – an invitation for you!

    If you've gotten caught up in whining about costs, may this be an invitation to change your mindset around them! Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    38 Min.
  • Sensual Abundance #024: What Are You Getting Paid For?

    Sensual Abundance #024: What Are You Getting Paid For?
    Nov 18 2025
    Welcome to episode twenty-four of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. This episode is a juicy one! Listen in as Mari and Mia chat about a big myth in the world of spicy work: is it really your job as a phone sex operator or performer to “get someone off”? Or is the real value your attentive, curious, and engaging presence? This episode picks up where Mari and Mia left off on episode 23. If you haven’t listened to that episode, you’ll find it here. Highlights:
    • [00:04:03] – Curiosity sparks connection.
    • [00:05:11] – Not here to get anyone off.
    • [00:09:06] – The ‘promise’ of attention.
    • [00:10:56] – The customer that told Mari it was her job to get him off… and why he’s no longer a customer.

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    17 Min.
  • Sensual Abundance #023: We Have To Show Up

    Sensual Abundance #023: We Have To Show Up
    Nov 4 2025
    Welcome to episode twenty-three of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. Listen in as Mari and Mia talk about the art of attracting abundance in the spicy world. This episode is packed with reflections and inspiring anecdotes, including Mari’s story of manifesting a thousand dollars from a new customer because she decided to show up and just go for it. Highlights:
    • [00:06:25] – Showing up, going for it & bam! $1,000 from a new customer.
    • [00:09:12] – Showed up, got paid!
    • [00:11:05] – Showing up attracts connection.
    • [00:14:59] – Struggle of showing up when not feeling good in your body.

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    26 Min.
  • Sensual Abundance #022: Is This Work Right For You?

    Sensual Abundance #022: Is This Work Right For You?
    Sep 19 2025
    Welcome to episode twenty-two of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. In this episode, Mari and Mia go deep. Mari shares her journey of embracing spicy work wholeheartedly, tapping into new facets of her dominant personality, and finding not just financial abundance, but personal empowerment. Mia opens up about her own “wishy-washy” relationship with the world of spicy work, candidly discussing the rollercoaster of confidence, intimidation, and body changes that have shaped her experience. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering “is this work for me?” then this episode is for you! Highlights:
    • [00:04:18] – Balancing boundaries and engagement.
    • [00:06:31] – Mia has a ‘light bulb’ moment as she’s talking.
    • [00:13:20] – How body changes affect Mia and her spicy work.
    • [00:17:56] – Mari shares about an experience that was an invitation to have a moment of insecurity (about her body) but she doesn’t let it.
    • [00:30:52] – Is this work right for you?
    • [00:35:51] – Are you willing for abundance to flow?

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    51 Min.
  • Sensual Abundance #021: Well That Ended Badly

    Sensual Abundance #021: Well That Ended Badly
    Jul 16 2025
    Welcome to episode twenty-one of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. In this episode, Mari and Mia chat about a part of spicy creator life that you don’t hear talked about a whole lot: when calls and sessions just don’t go as planned. From awkward hang-ups and miscommunications to feeling like you’ve missed the mark, Mari and Mia chat about it and more importantly – how to handle the aftermath with grace and self-compassion. Highlights:
    • [00:01:52] – Mari shares about a recent call she thought she understood his vibe, but it ended badly.
    • [00:03:38] – Mia shares about a Niteflirt chat conversation gone wrong.
    • [00:06:48] – Blocked by a customer? Don’t look at it as a bad thing, but a gift!
    • [00:12:14] – If a man is going to get frustrated with Mari, it’s almost always about this.
    • [00:24:58] – An important reminder for us spicy creators!

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    27 Min.
  • Sensual Abundance #020: When You Really Need The Money

    Sensual Abundance #020: When You Really Need The Money
    Jun 10 2025
    This week I'm pinched for privacy and have very limited windows of time to do my spicy work. This coincides with a month where my cash flow is more important than usual. (Moving at the end of the month!) There is a certain old familiar pressure rising up in my body. It's Money Worry 😈 Listen, my finances have been good for years but I have a large chunk of experience with being broke and never having enough. My body seems to know exactly how to tap into that fearful space. So, today as I sit down to focus for the four hours I have free to work - I am starting with a bit of Abundance Meditation. The point of the practice for me is to turn my attention to what is amazingly true:
    • I am sexy AF 💕
    • There are hundreds of thousands of men out there feeling horny and craving connection.
    • I am the PERFECT fit for many of them!
    • They can't find me if I'm not showing up.
    • So I SHOW UP with the best energy I can provide.

    I'm logged in to my Niteflirt account. I'm boosted on my Tryst profile. I'm posting on socials. Now, there isn't always something I can DO to force cash to flow in my available windows, but I do what I can and focus on the good feelings that arise in me when I am proactive and expectant of good things. Conversely, other than mentioning it here for the podcast, I am NOT giving any time or attention to worries. It doesn't serve me or anyone else to fret.
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    12 Min.
  • Sensual Abundance #019: Your Age & Weight Are A Feature Not A Flaw

    Sensual Abundance #019: Your Age & Weight Are A Feature Not A Flaw
    Jun 4 2025
    Welcome to episode nineteen of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. In this episode, Mari and Mia get real about body changes, self-image, and how sensual energy doesn’t just survive with age, it thrives, in the spicy world. Highlights:
    • [00:04:22] – Discussing a Reddit post about a young woman thinking she ‘just doesn’t have it anymore’ because of her age & gaining weight.
    • [00:05:01] – Mindset and the stories we make up about these things.
    • [00:05:52] – Mia’s internal struggle with losing weight and wondering if this will make her audience lose interest in her.
    • [00:10:02] – Embrace aging. Flaunt your confidence!

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    14 Min.