Who’s still dating for vibes in 2026?

In this finale of the Single in Love series, Natasha Elaine challenges Christian singles to shift from feelings to fruit. Because fruit reveals fit, and fit reveals purpose.

Using Matthew 7:16 and Galatians 5:22–23, this episode breaks down:

• What fruit actually looks like in dating• Why chemistry is not confirmation• The Four Rocks that distort discernment• The Four Lies that keep you stuck• The Four Types of Dating Connections• Why marriage is not the only faithful outcome

Fruit shows patterns.
Patterns reveal direction.
Direction clarifies fit.

This episode includes a guided prayer and introduces the Dating Activity Journal designed to help you practice discernment through action, not emotion.

Word of the Week: FruitSong of the Week: “My Bad Part II” – Levi C

Pray. Read. Listen. Obey.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction: Stop Dating for Vibes02:02 Assessing the Fruit in Relationships06:07 The Four Rocks in Dating09:47 The Four Lies That Distort Discernment14:11 The Four Types of Dating Connections17:00 Conclusion, Prayer & Journal Call to Action

Healing teaches you how to be alone.
Obedience teaches you how to move again.

In this episode of Singles in Love, I talk about pulling up to a church like it was a first date and what it means to date without waiting for guarantees. When God says go, are we moving… or are we stalling in spiritual language?

This conversation is about visibility. About showing up grounded. About letting experience become information instead of demanding certainty before participation. Healthy dating isn’t performance. It’s presence. It’s preparation. It’s obedience in motion.

If you’ve been healed but hesitant, discerning but inactive, listening but not moving, this episode will meet you right where you are.

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Timestamps:
00:00 When Healing Ends and Obedience Begins
02:50 Showing Up Without Performing
05:52 Rocks, Noise, and Mixed Signals
09:00 Waiting on God or Avoiding Movement?
12:09 How to Pull Up with Intention
14:56 Availability and Trusting God’s Timing

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Pull Up Outside: The Dating Activity Journal helps you turn listening into action.
Available for $26 at: https://payhip.com/b/3S4Un

Word of the Week: Availability
Responding when God speaks, even without the full picture.

Pray. Read. Listen. Obey.
Pull up where you are sent.

That’s God.

Healing teaches you how to be alone. Obedience teaches you how to reenter the world.

In Episode 3 of the Single in Love series, Natasha Elaine shares what it looks like to “pull up” in dating with discernment, not desperation. Using a real-life story of visiting a church with mixed signals, she breaks down how to move when God says go, without rushing meaning or forcing outcomes.

This episode covers:• How to assess interest without chasing guarantees• The difference between hesitation and wisdom• How spiritual language can mask inaction• What obedient visibility actually looks like in dating• A practical Pull Up framework you can apply this week

Scripture anchors:John 10:27Luke 14:28James 1:22Luke 11:28Galatians 5:25

If you’ve been healed but hesitant… ready but overthinking… this one is for you.

Pray. Read. Listen. Obey. Pull up where you’re sent.

Dating Activity Journal available at https://payhip.com/b/3S4Un

Before asking God for a spouse, have you asked Him to refine your standards?

In this episode of the Singles Love Series, we explore the relationship between faith, discernment, and stewardship. Natasha Elaine breaks down why your “list” is not shallow — it is wisdom rooted in Scripture.

Topics covered:• Biblical discernment in dating• Guarding your heart (Proverbs 4:23)• Screening for fruit (Matthew 7:16)• The difference between feelings and peace• How to date without lowering your standards

00:00 Navigating Standards and Safety

03:00 The Importance of Surrender

05:53 Understanding Urgency and Pressure

08:51 The Role of Discernment

12:10 Practicing Stewardship in Relationships

14:51 Aligning Standards with Personal Growth

This episode is for singles who want alignment, not just attraction.

What does healed love actually look like when someone shows interest?

In this episode of Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil, Natasha Elaine explores faith-based dating through the lens of standards, stewardship, and spiritual discernment. This conversation moves beyond chemistry and emotional momentum to examine alignment, fruit, and responsibility in modern dating.

With relationship conversations trending in pop culture, this episode reframes “relationship goals” through Scripture, wisdom, and practical clarity, helping listeners discern who gets access, why, and when.

🎧 Topics include:• Christian dating standards• Discernment and alignment• Dating without pressure or fear• Faith-based relationship wisdom• Emotional maturity and stewardship

🎵 Kingdom Artist of the Week: Lee Vasi

faith and relationships, dating with purpose, spiritual discernment, modern dating, Kingdom relationships, healing and love, emotional maturity

Healing was the beginning.
But what happens when desire shows up in a healed body?

In Episode 1 of Singles in Love, Natasha Elaine explores fire, passion, and attraction after healing. This conversation is for singles in Christ navigating desire without shame, without recklessness, and with wisdom rooted in faith.

We talk about desire as information, not failure. Fire as awareness, not urgency. And how healed love learns to sit with passion instead of being driven by it.

Featured Kingdom music:

Childlike CiCi, Pastor Mike, Jr. and Lee Vasi
Song of the Week: Water by Childlike CiCi

Resources:Faith After Fire JournalFrom Faith to Fruit Dating Activity Journalrrwspodcast.com/digital-resources

Coming next: EP2 – Faith & StandardsYour list as stewardship, not control.

00:00 Fire After Healing

00:23 Welcome to Singles in Love

02:47 When Desire Wakes Up

04:44 Desire Through Scripture

07:15 Healing Clarifies Desire

09:32 Shame vs Discernment

11:10 What Grown Desire Looks Like

12:31 Self-Control as Protection

13:11 Reflection & Resources

15:16 Faith Before Movement

If this episode resonates, follow the show on Spotify and share it with someone walking this season with intention.

Healing doesn’t erase desire. It clarifies it.

In Episode 1 of the February Love Series, Fire & Passion, Natasha Elaine explores what happens when attraction, chemistry, and desire resurface after healing.

This episode reframes desire as information, not guilt, and introduces discernment as responsibility rather than fear. Through Scripture, lived experience, and grounded wisdom, we talk about holding fire without shame and stewarding passion with peace.

If you’re single, healing, and feeling desire wake up again, this conversation will help you understand what that fire is saying and how to move forward without repression or impulsiveness.

Topics include:

• Desire after healing

• Temptation versus sin

• Fire governed by wisdom

• Shame, grace, and discernment

• Passion with peace

Part of the Singles in Love February Love Series from Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil.

Resources: rrwspodcast.com/digital-resources

Timestamps

00:00 Navigating Attraction After Healing

00:23 Fire, Faith, and Desire Explained

02:47 When Healing Wakes Desire Up

04:31 Self-Responsibility and Discernment

04:44 Desire Through Scripture

07:15 How Healing Transforms Desire

09:32 Shame, Grace, and Condemnation

10:55 Discernment and Toxic Attachments

11:10 What Grown Desire Looks Like

12:31 Self-Control and Spiritual Maturity

13:11 Reflection, Stability, and Peace1

5:16 Desire Directed by Discernment

17:09 Faith, Movement, and What’s Next

If you’ve been faithful but the growth feels quiet, you aren't being ignored—you're being germinated. In this 2025 finale of Roads, Rocks, Weeds, and Soil, we’re shifting from performance mode to distribution mode. Watch as Natasha Elaine pulls back the curtain on what it actually looks like to build a Kingdom ecosystem from rock bottom.

2025 wasn't about accumulation; it was about germination. We’re sharing the raw data behind our 130% completion rates and the "God-Math" that turned a specific prayer for 6 subscribers into a 13x multiplication miracle. From navigating a lawsuit while building this set to learning the difference between disruption and alignment, this is the blueprint for moving with meaning.

What’s Inside

• The Shift: Why you don't need an audience when you have an Advocate.

• The Data: What "Processing Behavior" tells us about real healing.

• The Rocks: Managing production and peace in the middle of a lawsuit.

• The Anthem: The story behind Phoenix Rae’s "View on the Climb".

The Birthday GiftIt’s Natasha’s birthday! As a thank you for riding with the family, we have a massive gift for you. Head over to Mixcloud.com/rrwspodcast to grab the Best of 2025 Kingdom Mix by Philly’s own DJ L Boogie.

2026 DevelopmentReady to stop performing and start building your table? Natasha is opening a quiet pilot group for aspiring podcasters in 2026. Visit RRWSPODCAST.COM and message the portal: "I am ready to build my table".

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