Who’s still dating for vibes in 2026?

In this finale of the Single in Love series, Natasha Elaine challenges Christian singles to shift from feelings to fruit. Because fruit reveals fit, and fit reveals purpose.

Using Matthew 7:16 and Galatians 5:22–23, this episode breaks down:

• What fruit actually looks like in dating• Why chemistry is not confirmation• The Four Rocks that distort discernment• The Four Lies that keep you stuck• The Four Types of Dating Connections• Why marriage is not the only faithful outcome

Fruit shows patterns.
Patterns reveal direction.
Direction clarifies fit.

This episode includes a guided prayer and introduces the Dating Activity Journal designed to help you practice discernment through action, not emotion.

Word of the Week: FruitSong of the Week: “My Bad Part II” – Levi C

Pray. Read. Listen. Obey.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction: Stop Dating for Vibes02:02 Assessing the Fruit in Relationships06:07 The Four Rocks in Dating09:47 The Four Lies That Distort Discernment14:11 The Four Types of Dating Connections17:00 Conclusion, Prayer & Journal Call to Action

Healing teaches you how to be alone.
Obedience teaches you how to move again.

In this episode of Singles in Love, I talk about pulling up to a church like it was a first date and what it means to date without waiting for guarantees. When God says go, are we moving… or are we stalling in spiritual language?

This conversation is about visibility. About showing up grounded. About letting experience become information instead of demanding certainty before participation. Healthy dating isn’t performance. It’s presence. It’s preparation. It’s obedience in motion.

If you’ve been healed but hesitant, discerning but inactive, listening but not moving, this episode will meet you right where you are.

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Timestamps:
00:00 When Healing Ends and Obedience Begins
02:50 Showing Up Without Performing
05:52 Rocks, Noise, and Mixed Signals
09:00 Waiting on God or Avoiding Movement?
12:09 How to Pull Up with Intention
14:56 Availability and Trusting God’s Timing

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Pull Up Outside: The Dating Activity Journal helps you turn listening into action.
Available for $26 at: https://payhip.com/b/3S4Un

Word of the Week: Availability
Responding when God speaks, even without the full picture.

Pray. Read. Listen. Obey.
Pull up where you are sent.

That’s God.

Healing teaches you how to be alone. Obedience teaches you how to reenter the world.

In Episode 3 of the Single in Love series, Natasha Elaine shares what it looks like to “pull up” in dating with discernment, not desperation. Using a real-life story of visiting a church with mixed signals, she breaks down how to move when God says go, without rushing meaning or forcing outcomes.

This episode covers:• How to assess interest without chasing guarantees• The difference between hesitation and wisdom• How spiritual language can mask inaction• What obedient visibility actually looks like in dating• A practical Pull Up framework you can apply this week

Scripture anchors:John 10:27Luke 14:28James 1:22Luke 11:28Galatians 5:25

If you’ve been healed but hesitant… ready but overthinking… this one is for you.

Pray. Read. Listen. Obey. Pull up where you’re sent.

Dating Activity Journal available at https://payhip.com/b/3S4Un