Stop being the thermometer that reads the room and start being the thermostat that sets the temperature. In this deep dive, emotional regulation expert Alyssa Blask Campbell (New York Times Bestselling Author and CEO of Seed & Coach) reveals why our reactions are often "learned habits" and how we can regain self-control in high-stress moments. Whether you are navigating a toddler's meltdown, a workplace panic attack, or a heated argument with a partner, understanding your nervous system is the key to changing the outcome.

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Alyssa explains the science of the Vagus Nerve—the "muscle" of your parasympathetic nervous system—and why TikTok is obsessed with it. You’ll learn why "hiding" your feelings actually fuels anxiety and how "cold exposure" or "humming" can physically reset your body's fight-or-flight response in seconds. We also explore the revolutionary idea that behavior is never the problem; it is merely a symptom of an unmet need.

By the end of this episode, you will have a toolkit of grounding techniques that actually work and the insight to stop "shutting down" when things get hard. Alyssa Blask Campbell, M.Ed., is the author of Tiny Humans, Big Emotions and Bigger Kids, Bigger Feelings.

Stop reacting and start responding. Emotional development expert Alyssa Blask Campbell, M.Ed., explains how to understand and fix your unique nervous system today. Feeling overwhelmed, snappy, or like you're constantly "treading water" just to stay afloat? You’re likely living in a state of nervous system dysregulation. In this episode, New York Times bestselling author Alyssa Blask Campbell, M.Ed., breaks down the science of emotion regulation and why most of us never learned these essential adulting skills in our youth.

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Learn more about Alyssa’s work at Seed & Sew: https://www.seedandsew.org/

We dive deep into the crucial difference between "coping mechanisms" that provide temporary dopamine hits—like substance use or impulsive shopping—and "coping strategies" that produce lasting serotonin and oxytocin to truly calm the body. Alyssa introduces the Collaborative Emotion Processing (CEP) method, explaining how our unique sensory systems—including proprioceptive and vestibular senses—dictate how we experience stress and how we must recharge.

Whether you are navigating "sensory mismatches" in your marriage, trying to handle a child’s grocery store meltdown, or recovering from trauma, this conversation provides a roadmap to self-awareness and self-control. Discover insights from her New York Times bestseller, Tiny Humans, Big Emotions , and learn why "microdosing" self-regulation throughout the day is the key to lasting peace.

⏱️ Chapters:

00:00 – Intro: The "Only Way Out is Through"

10:33 – What is emotion regulation?

28:09 – How do I know if I'm dysregulated?

40:19 – Does nervous system reset actually work?

41:41 – What is the fastest way to calm myself down?

❓ Questions the Video Answers:

1. What is the difference between emotion regulation and self-control?
2. How do I know if my nervous system is dysregulated?
3. Why do I use online shopping or social media to cope with stress?
4. Does a nervous system reset really work or is it just buzzword hype?
5. How does childhood trauma affect my adult stress reactions?
6. What is the fastest way to calm down during a moment of rage?
7. Why am I so sensitive to small sounds like clicking or chewing?
8. How can I stop being sarcastic and snippy when I'm stressed?
9. What are "legacy blessings" and "legacy burdens" in parenting?
10. How do I handle a sensory mismatch with my partner or child?
11. Is deep breathing actually effective for regulating emotions?
12. What is the proprioceptive sense and how does it help with anxiety?
13. How do I stop "treading water" and start actually healing?
14. Why can't a dysregulated adult calm a dysregulated child?
15. What are the best tools for "microdosing" self-regulation?

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Relapse isn’t failure — it’s feedback. This conversation explores why relapse is a normal part of addiction recovery and how to use it as data to build a powerful relapse‑prevention plan.

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Dr. Jasleen Chhatwal, a board‑certified psychiatrist and addiction medicine physician, explains that addiction relapse prevention strategies hinge on self‑awareness and preparation. You’ll learn why relapse in addiction recovery often reveals hidden triggers, how to identify stressors and cravings early, and why shame‑free support from loved ones matters. We unpack the difference between sobriety and holistic recovery, showing that addressing trauma and mental health is vital to staying well. The video also highlights the signs of addiction and what it means to be a functional addict so you can recognize subtle warning signs before they spiral.

Beyond personal insight, you’ll get compassionate tips on how to talk to someone with addiction without confrontation and how to build a relapse‑prevention plan that works. We cover the stages of addiction recovery, treatment options like medications and 12‑step programs, harm‑reduction approaches, and how to integrate community support. You’ll hear why willpower alone isn’t enough and why hope and intentionality are key. We also tackle co‑occurring mental health issues, signs of trauma and addiction, and what to do when you’re worried about your drinking. Whether you’re struggling yourself or supporting a loved one, this video offers practical tools to avoid relapse, cultivate self‑compassion, and seek help without stigma.

⏱️ Chapters:

00:00 – Introduction & why relapse is part of recovery
02:30 – Learning from relapse & building prevention strategies
05:45 – Hope, harm reduction & staying sober long‑term
08:20 – Recovery vs sobriety & trauma triggers
11:55 – What is a functional addict? Subtle signs you might miss
15:50 – Treatment options: medication, 12‑step & personalized care
18:45 – Compassionate conversations: how to talk to someone with addiction
24:30 – Signs of addiction & when to seek help
30:00 – Co‑occurring mental health & holistic recovery
34:50 – Final takeaway: love, support & hope in healing

❓ Questions the Video Answers:

1. Why do addiction relapses happen and what can we learn from them?
2. What are the best addiction relapse‑prevention strategies?
3. How do you build a relapse‑prevention plan that actually works?
4. What’s the difference between recovery and sobriety?
5. What are the signs of addiction and how can you spot a functional addict?
6. How do you talk to someone with a drug or alcohol addiction without making them defensive?
7. What are the stages of addiction recovery and why do they matter?
8. How can you avoid relapse and maintain long‑term sobriety?
9. Can a recovering alcoholic ever drink again — and why is it a slippery slope?
10. Are 12‑step programs like Alcoholics Anonymous mandatory for sobriety?
11. What treatments exist for opioid or alcohol addiction, from medications to support groups?
12. How does trauma drive addiction and why must it be addressed?
13. What are the signs that your coping strategies are becoming unhealthy or addictive?
14. How do co‑occurring mental‑health disorders impact addiction recovery?
15. What’s the first step when you’re worried about your drinking or drug use?

#addictionrecovery #relapseprevention #mentalhealth