If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your emotions — like they’re too much, or not welcome, or like they just… don’t come up the way you think they should — this episode is for you.

In this honest and messy (in a good way) conversation, I unpack how our childhood can impact our relationship to our emotions. I share my own story, the beliefs I picked up about what it meant to be “easy,” the classic oldest daughter narratives I picked up, and how that shaped the way I relate to feelings now.

You’ll hear:

✨ What emotional disconnection actually looks like (and how it hides in plain sight)

🧠 Why awareness isn’t enough — and how to actually rewire the deeper patterns

💬 The moment I realized being helped made me uncomfortable (and why that mattered)

😶‍🌫️ How perfectionism, emotional suppression, and “being the easy one” are all connected

💡 The surprising beliefs that sit beneath your resistance to feeling

If you’ve ever felt numb, tense, overly responsible, or like feeling might make you a burden — you’re not alone. And you’re not broken.

🎧 Listen in — and start to reconnect with a part of you that’s been waiting to be heard.

✨ Ready to go deeper?

If you’re ready to stop looping in the same patterns and finally create change that lasts — The Subconscious Edit is your next step.

A personalized 1:1 container to identify and rewire the beliefs holding you back — with tools and support designed around you.

🎁 Now open for booking — special holiday pricing through 12/31.

👉 Learn more + book your spot

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💫 New to Human Design? Start Here:

Pull your free Human Design chart and start receiving the Human Design Quick Start Email Series to help you understand your energy and decision-making style.

Explore the Quick Start Guide on the blog - You'll start with your Energy Type and follow along through Authority, Profile, and Centers — all broken down clearly and practically.

🎧 Listen to the Chart Basics episodes:

• Ep 2: The 5 Energy Types That Could Transform Your Life (And How to Find Yours)
• Ep 7: Stop Second-Guessing: Your Practical Roadmap to Confident Decisions Using Human Design
• Ep 6: The Shortcut to Your Purpose: Embody Your Personality Profile
• Ep 8: Human Design Centers & How to Work with Your Definition

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You’ve spotted the pattern. You know the belief. You’ve done the journaling.

So… why hasn’t anything changed?

In Part 4 of this series, we’re talking about the often-overlooked phase of transformation: the messy, uncertain, in-between. That space where your old beliefs don’t quite fit anymore — but the new ones don’t feel fully safe yet.

Inside this episode:

• Why awareness isn’t the finish line (and what comes next)
• What makes change feel scary — even when your current reality sucks
• The difference between insight and embodiment
• 6 tools that actually help rewire your subconscious
• How to start building safety around a new belief (without faking it)

You’ll also hear some of my favorite personal examples — like the $70 comforter meltdown that revealed a massive scarcity story... and how I handled it differently the second time around.

🌀 This episode is your bridge from knowing → becoming.

✨ Ready to go deeper?

If you’re ready to stop looping in the same patterns and finally create change that lasts — The Subconscious Edit is your next step.

A personalized 1:1 container to identify and rewire the beliefs holding you back — with tools and support designed around you.

🎁 Now open for booking — special holiday pricing through 12/31.

👉 Learn more + book your spot

_

💫 New to Human Design? Start Here:

Pull your free Human Design chart and start receiving the Human Design Quick Start Email Series to help you understand your energy and decision-making style.

Explore the Quick Start Guide on the blog - You'll start with your Energy Type and follow along through Authority, Profile, and Centers — all broken down clearly and practically.

🎧 Listen to the Chart Basics episodes:

• Ep 2: The 5 Energy Types That Could Transform Your Life (And How to Find Yours)
• Ep 7: Stop Second-Guessing: Your Practical Roadmap to Confident Decisions Using Human Design
• Ep 6: The Shortcut to Your Purpose: Embody Your Personality Profile
• Ep 8: Human Design Centers & How to Work with Your Definition

Want 20% off any single session reading?? Leave us a 5 start rating and review to receive a special thank you 20% off! Just send a screenshot of your rating and review to nicole@nicoleguenaconsulting.com and I'll respond back with your discount code

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Your subconscious beliefs shape your entire reality — but most of them are invisible to your conscious mind.

In this episode, we’re diving into the tools you can use to uncover what’s really been driving your stuck patterns… and the surprising places those clues might be hiding.

Because once you can name the belief, you can rewire it — and finally shift the results you’re seeing in your life, work, and relationships.

✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to use tools like journaling, meditation, tarot, dreams, and voice-to-text to identify your subconscious blocks
• The key reason you can’t just mindset your way into change — and why awareness alone isn’t enough
• Why understanding your Human Design gives you a “true north” for your authentic self
• Why it’s important to revisit childhood memories through a child’s lens — not the logical adult version
• How seemingly harmless triggers (like your partner helping out) can reveal deeply buried beliefs
• Why your biggest patterns often come from survival strategies you learned before age 7
• How the pattern of hyper-independence may be keeping you stuck, even when you want support

👁‍🗨 This episode also includes:

• Two of Nicole’s real-life examples:
• → “I have to work hard to deserve success”
• → “It’s all on me to keep it together”
• The many angles she used to uncover them — including dream symbolism, tarot, coaching, journaling, and energetic discomfort

🎧 If you’ve ever felt like you know what you want but still can’t make it happen… this episode will show you why — and what to do next.

✨ Ready to go deeper?

If you’re ready to stop looping in the same patterns and finally create change that lasts — The Subconscious Edit is your next step.

A personalized 1:1 container to identify and rewire the beliefs holding you back — with tools and support designed around you.

🎁 Now open for booking — special holiday pricing through 12/31.

👉 Learn more + book your spot

_

💫 New to Human Design? Start Here:

Pull your free Human Design chart and start receiving the Human Design Quick Start Email Series to help you understand your energy and decision-making style.

Explore the Quick Start Guide on the blog - You'll start with your Energy Type and follow along through Authority, Profile, and Centers — all broken down clearly and practically.

🎧 Listen to the Chart Basics episodes:

• Ep 2: The 5 Energy Types That Could Transform Your Life (And How to Find Yours)
• Ep 7: Stop Second-Guessing: Your Practical Roadmap to Confident Decisions Using Human Design
• Ep 6: The Shortcut to Your Purpose: Embody Your Personality Profile