The story begins with loss and lands in purpose. We sit down with world-traveled bucket drummer and MC Elec Simon to unpack how a best friend’s death pushed him to build work that preserves life—school assemblies turned “motivational musical,” community shows that reach kids where they are, and a personal code that values impact over applause. It’s a conversation that blends art, mental health, and mentorship with a clear message: authenticity isn’t a brand strategy, it’s a lifeline.

Alex gets real about the lure of clout, the habit of chasing celebrity attention, and the moment he chose to double down on his own voice. That pivot reshaped everything—from booking shows without begging gatekeepers to watching bigger stages open when the work spoke for itself. We explore the uncomfortable math of social media, why most people forget your wins in a week, and how posting what you genuinely love attracts a tribe that sticks. If you’re building a platform in music, education, or wellness, this is a field guide to staying human while you scale.

There’s also a powerful detour onto the jiu-jitsu mats: training through travel and injuries, facing fear under arena lights, and winning gold by leaning on pressure, patience, and discipline. Alex draws a direct line from competition to career—turn off distractions, flip the internal switch, and trust timing when a door isn’t your door. Along the way, we spotlight our shared mission to reduce loss from suicide, homicide, and domestic violence, and to replace shame with support through real conversations and consistent action.

If purpose, resilience, and honest growth matter to you, press play, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. Then tell us: what’s one place you’re choosing authenticity over approval today?

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If love keeps feeling like a storm, maybe the problem isn’t romance—it’s access. We sit down with Apostle Andre Dodson to talk about the kind of boundaries that change outcomes, the difference between truth and omission, and why respect means protecting someone’s heart when no one is watching. Andre brings the lived experience of a father, husband, and community leader to redefine what healthy partnership looks like when you finally choose maturity over chaos.

We walk through the early red flags we all rationalize—ghosting, mixed signals, financial leeching—and show how standards clarify who stays and who goes. Andre shares how divorce and single fatherhood forged discipline, from refusing a revolving door at home to modeling restraint and stability for his son. We explore men’s emotional safety, the right to be soft at home, and how shaming vulnerability turns a relationship into a hostile workplace. You’ll hear how “good women help cheaters cheat” by making it easy to hide, and how radical transparency kills suspicion before it grows.

This conversation also confronts toxic norms that mistake gentleness for weakness. We talk aligning intimacy with emotional connection, pressing pause on sex during conflict, and building a shared life that values planning, honesty, and spiritual grounding. If you’ve ever dated a “boy” in a man’s body—or felt pressured to perform while starving for real care—this will feel like a mirror and a map. Expect clear language, hard truths, and practical wisdom you can use today to set boundaries, spot red flags, and build a home where both people can rest and rise.

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What if love isn’t a feeling to chase but a responsibility you choose every day? We sit down with Apostle Andre Dotson—community leader, father, husband, and repeat guest—to explore how disciplined love outlasts mood swings, why honor dictates access, and how preparation turns heartbreak into wisdom. His candid reflections after divorce reveal a path many skip: the prep season where you assess patterns, rebuild standards, and develop the character to love well.

We dig into the Five Ps—proper preparation prevents poor performance—and apply them to relationships, from dating with intention to marriage under pressure. Andre explains how boundaries protect safety and respect, and why he withholds access where there’s no honor. We also tackle a hard reality: women often go silent after asking for change multiple times; by the time comfort is disrupted, it’s usually too late. That insight reframes listening as an urgent skill, not a romantic bonus.

The conversation shifts to service as the core of mature love. Andre challenges men to hear needs like prayers to answer, and he challenges women and men alike to stop playing parent-child dynamics in adult relationships. Instead, choose partners who build, not burden—because the wrong choice won’t just waste time; it can wreck your purpose, finances, and peace. We close with practical takeaways on prioritization, reciprocity, and daily habits that keep love steady when emotions wobble.

If this resonates, share it with someone who needs a reset, subscribe for more grounded conversations on healthy relationships, and leave a review to tell us the habit you’re choosing to practice this week.

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The story opens on a fast street where violence felt normal and kids learned to run before they could read the signs. Melvin Cantrell takes us through Edgewood’s split reality—games and laughter on one side, stabbings and speeding cars on the other—and shows how a simple, stubborn no to drugs became the first brick in a new life. He talks about father wounds, the rush of being an athlete with a secret, and the moment friends’ funerals made people say, “We thought you were dead,” forcing a shift from surviving to choosing to live.

We dig into the hard parts: learning to read and write after graduation with help from siblings, hiding cars and cash from a mother who knew more than she said, and serving time in a summer boot camp that taught discipline the painful way. Melvin shares how grief counseling and even being typecast as the bad guy in community theater gave him space to process loss, especially after his mom passed. That path, combined with a second-degree black belt, kickboxing, and Tai Chi, became the backbone for his work in behavioral health and the IMPACT program. Fitness isn’t just a career for him; it’s a mental health toolkit—breathing, movement, and structure that help kids pause before the street pulls them under.

We also get practical. Melvin lays out the red flags parents miss—sudden upgrades, hidden spending, secretive routines—and makes a case that kids need presence more than privacy. He explains his approach to hands-on parenting, how he stays reachable, and why he’ll leave work if a child calls. If you’re a parent, educator, or mentor trying to keep kids safe, this conversation gives you concrete strategies and a real-world playbook from someone who’s lived both sides. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the biggest red flag you’re watching for right now.

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What does it really take to unlearn a street-made identity and rebuild a life that lifts others? We sit down with Andre Dotson—once a teen hustler in East Cleveland, now an apostle, youth mentor, CCW instructor, and mayoral candidate—to trace the choices, influences, and turning points that shaped his transformation. The story is raw and unvarnished: early drinking at 11, hustling at 12, juvenile life by 14, and the gravitational pull of fast money even after release. Andre credits grace for keeping him out of prison—but he also names the daily discipline and the adults who finally modeled a better way.

We dig into the mechanics of influence: how so-called OGs can either funnel kids toward danger or shield them with real opportunity. Andre breaks down why kids crave structure, not chaos, and how consistent boundaries create safety where posturing and peer pressure once ruled. From late-night parties that spiral to violence, to small moments where a mentor shows a teen how to start an LLC instead of carrying a pack, the pattern is the same: environment teaches. We explore youth programs that carve out hours of safety, feed kids, and normalize accountability, and we share a practical framework for teaching consequences without shaming—so a flipped desk becomes a lesson in cause and effect, not a scarlet letter.

Parents get a straight answer too: raise your child, don’t be their friend. Love includes the courage to say no, enforce limits, and build habits that outlast the moment. Andre’s idea of being “powerfully broken” reframes pain as a doorway—something has to end for something stronger to rise. If you’re a parent, educator, mentor, or community leader searching for tools to keep kids safe and growing, you’ll find a blueprint here: consistent boundaries, safe spaces, real-world skills, and adults who mean what they say. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway—what boundary are you recommitting to today?

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What does it take to turn a twelve-year-old drug dealer into a community father who keeps kids safe and seen? Andre Dotson joins us to unpack the hard choices, small mercies, and steady mentorship that carried him from East Cleveland’s street economy to a life spent building structure, courage, and opportunity for the next generation. No gloss, no shortcuts—just the real mechanics of prevention: boundaries that hold, programs that protect, and adults who keep their word.

We open with Andre’s early exposure to alcohol, gangs, and fast money, and how juvenile time sharpened his focus without hardening his heart. He lays out a simple code for parents and mentors: say what you mean, mean what you say, and replace bad options with better ones. From teaching kids how to start an LLC to offering a safe room with food and accountability, Andre shows how “real OGs” redirect energy instead of exploiting it. Along the way, we talk about risky parties, late-night decisions, and how a consistent “no” can save a life when attention and affirmation are on the line.

If you care about youth violence prevention, fatherhood, mental health, and building safer neighborhoods, this conversation is a blueprint. You’ll hear practical steps for creating safe spaces, setting consequences that stick, and having honest talks about sex, money, relationships, and anger—starting in elementary school. Andre shares where to connect with him and how his work through Civilians Against Violence helps kids be themselves without the mask. Subscribe, share with a parent or mentor, and leave a review with the one boundary that changed your life—your story might become someone else’s turning point.

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In this powerful Season 2 episode of the Powerfully Broken Podcast, host Barbara L. Parker, MA, LPCC-S sits down with Ateira Ashley—mother, wife, cheer coach, and AKA—to unpack the real blueprint for long-term, healthy relationships.

Together, they discuss:

• Why friendship first matters more than chemistry
• How faith, family, and maturity sustain marriage through hard seasons
• Letting go of unrealistic expectations and embracing growth
• Why “80–90% love” beats chasing a mythical 100% partner
• The importance of dating your spouse, even with kids and busy schedules
• Keeping outsiders—family, friends, even children—out of marital conflict
• How to “divorce old mindsets” to become a better partner

This episode is for anyone who wants lasting love, whether you’re married, divorced, dating, or healing. Marriage isn’t about never wanting to leave—it’s about choosing to stay with wisdom, grace, and intention.

✨ You were not broken to be hurt.
✨ You were broken to unleash the power within.

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When comfort starts costing you more than change, it’s time to move. We sit down with Denia, a mentor to founders and a master connector, to unpack the real signals that tell you to quit the job, bet on yourself, and build a business that can breathe. From the first manual that launched her company to turning bottlenecks into revenue, she lays out a grounded path: generate cash, hire the right people, and let systems carry the weight you shouldn’t.

We trade hustle myths for practical mechanics. Denia explains how to fund a first hire without gambling the house, why follow-up quietly prints money, and how “get 100 nos” training rewires the fear that keeps owners stuck. We dig into boundaries with clients and friends, the three-strike rule for repeated complaints, and the difference between problem-solving and unpaid emotional labor. If you’ve felt like a therapist at the gym or the default fixer at work, this conversation offers language and lines that protect your time, money, and mind.

Mental health takes center stage too. Movement isn’t a side note; it’s a system. Gym sessions and line dancing become bilateral resets that lower cortisol, sharpen choices, and keep the business from absorbing every emotion. That steadiness fuels clearer hiring, braver outreach, and better leadership. We close with a strong definition of being powerfully broken: aware of what hurt you, no longer ruled by it, and focused on outcomes that honor your future.

If you’re overworked, underpaid, and ready to leap with intention, this one’s for you. Tap play, share it with a friend who needs courage, and leave a review with the one bottleneck you’re fixing this week.

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