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Spots are limited and this retreat is designed for LGBTQIA+ individuals who are navigating life alcohol free and craving real connection, community, and growth.

In this episode of Out and About AF, I sit down with Jordan Hurt, real estate professional and founder of the upcoming sober dating app Queeredy, to talk about what it really looks like to build connection without alcohol in the LGBTQIA+ community.

Jordan shares his story growing up in Ohio in a conservative religious household where alcohol was normalized but his identity was not. From grabbing beers for his grandfather at three years old to drinking under the bleachers as a teenager, he walks us through how substance use became tied to belonging, confidence, and survival.

We talk about:

• Family rejection after coming out
• Being sent to live in a highly conservative environment
• Moving to New York City for freedom and self-discovery
• Getting a DUI and still believing drinking was not a problem
• The reality of dating sober
• Why he created Queerity

Queerity officially launches February 19th and is designed to help LGBTQIA+ individuals build meaningful sober connections without the pressure of alcohol culture.

This episode is honest, layered, and deeply relatable for anyone navigating sobriety, identity, and dating.

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In this episode of Out and About AF, I sit down with Megan to talk about the transformative power of sobriety retreats and what really happens when you step away from your daily life to focus on your healing.

We share parts of our sobriety journeys, the anxiety that can surface in recovery, and how powerful it is to be in community with people who truly understand you. Megan talks about founding Sobah Sistahs and leading women through incredible retreats in Bali, and we dive into why investing in yourself is one of the most important decisions you can make in sobriety.

Retreats have a way of collapsing time. A weekend can feel like months of growth. The connections, the identity shifts, the clarity. It can be life changing.

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In this episode of Out and About AF, I sit down with Sally Magee, a CliftonStrengths certified coach, to talk about how understanding your strengths can support an alcohol-free life.

Sally shares her journey from heavy drinking to becoming alcohol-free and how discovering her strengths helped her move through sobriety with more clarity, confidence, and self-trust. We talk about how the CliftonStrengths assessment can be a powerful tool for navigating challenges, setting realistic goals, and building a life that actually feels aligned.

We also get into the importance of community, connection, and knowledge in sobriety. If you’re sober curious, newly alcohol-free, or looking for practical tools to support sustainable change, this episode is for you.

Sobriety isn’t just about giving up alcohol — it’s about discovering who you are without it.

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✨ Upcoming Event:I’m hosting a one-day men’s alcohol-free retreat in the DFW area focused on identifying triggers, body awareness, and designing a life without alcohol. The day will also include gentle movement, breathwork, and meditation.

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In today’s episode, I sit down with Lauren for one of those conversations that just flows. We talk openly about addiction, personal growth, and what it really looks like to create a fun, meaningful, and purposeful life—without relying on substances. This episode is full of real talk, connection, and the kind of energy that leaves you feeling inspired (and maybe dancing a little afterward).

Lauren shares her journey, insights, and what’s helped her build a life that feels aligned, grounded, and genuinely joyful. If you’re questioning your relationship with alcohol or looking for a new way to live fully, this conversation is for you.

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In this episode of Out and About AF, I sit down with therapist and author Chris Tompkins for a really honest conversation about sobriety, spirituality, and what recovery can look like within the LGBTQIA+ community.

Chris shares his personal journey to getting sober and we talk about how shame shows up for so many gay men — and how it can impact our relationship with alcohol and other substances. We also get into the importance of community, the need for truly safe spaces, and the reality that there’s no one “right” way to do sobriety. Chris also shares more about his upcoming book and the work he’s doing to help gay men heal shame and build self-love.

This episode is for anyone who’s sober, sober-curious, or just starting to question their relationship with alcohol and wanting something that feels more intentional — without the pressure of being perfect.

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I offer a 12-week alcohol-free coaching program that’s focused on progress, not perfection. We move through four phases — awareness, regulation, identity, and integration — so you can build an alcohol-free life that actually feels good and sustainable.

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In this episode, I sit down with Jon aka Coach Cub for an honest and grounded conversation about body positivity, mental health, and the role alcohol often plays in the gay community.

We talk openly about our personal journeys with sobriety, emotional growth, and self-acceptance, and unpack the pressure so many gay men experience around body image. Jon shares a refreshing perspective on body positivity not as something you have to feel perfectly all the time, but as an ongoing relationship built on compassion, patience, and realism.

We also explore how coaching, inclusive spaces, and supportive communities can help foster resilience, connection, and joy, especially for those navigating life without alcohol.

This episode is a reminder that healing doesn’t require perfection, just honesty, support, and the willingness to grow.

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In this episode, I’m sharing Part 2 of my sobriety story, the part that doesn’t always get talked about.

I open up about my slip after 110 days alcohol free, the emotions that came with it, and what it was really like to face myself and my community afterward. We talk about relapse not from a place of shame but from a place of learning honesty and growth.

That first year of sobriety stretched me in ways I didn’t expect. It forced me to get real about vulnerability, ask for support, and stop pretending I had everything figured out. Community played a huge role in helping me get back on track and I share why being honest even when it’s uncomfortable changed everything.

If you’re navigating your own sobriety journey whether you’re curious starting over or somewhere in between this episode is a reminder that progress isn’t always perfect and that every step forward is worth celebrating.

Sobriety didn’t take my life away.
It gave me a better one.

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In this episode, I’m finally sharing my own story. I talk about how alcohol became such a big part of my life, how my upbringing shaped the way I coped, and what it was like trying to figure all of this out as someone in the LGBTQIA+ community.

I walk through the moments that pulled me deeper into drinking, the consequences that followed — including multiple DUIs — and what it looked like to keep trying to get sober without really committing to it. I also talk about the support I got from family, friends, and community, and how much that actually mattered.

And since there’s no way to fit all of it into one episode, I end with a cliffhanger. Part 2 is coming next, where I’ll get into what my first year alcohol-free was really like.