• 114: Is Your Generosity Truly Cheerful? Here's What Jesus Meant
    Jan 7 2026

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    In this Love How Deep episode, hosts Heather and Brian explore the biblical scripture from 2 Corinthians 9:6-7, traditionally associated with financial generosity, and reinterpret its application within the context of marriage.

    They emphasize 'sowing seeds' of spiritual fruit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—into marital relationships.

    The discussion highlights the reciprocal nature of giving generously to one's spouse and the significance of doing so cheerfully. They also touch on the importance of communication and prayer in nurturing a healthy marriage, offering additional resources like their communication workbook for couples seeking to enhance their relationship.

    00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes

    00:17 Reinterpreting the Verse for Marriage

    00:45 Sowing Seeds in Marriage

    02:11 The Fruits of the Spirit

    04:24 Challenges and Deeper Issues

    05:35 Deciding to Give Cheerfully

    11:10 Communication and Final Thoughts

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    13 Min.
  • 113: Past Issues Are Killing Your Marriage—Here's What Jesus Says
    Dec 31 2025

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    Letting Go of Past Mistakes in Marriage | Lessons from John 8

    In this episode of 'Love How Deep,' hosts Brian and Heather delve into the challenges of bringing up past mistakes in marriage conflicts. They reference the biblical passage from John chapter 8, where Jesus addresses the woman caught in adultery.

    Through this story, Brian and Heather draw parallels to marital relationships, emphasizing the importance of avoiding holding past mistakes over one's partner and instead practicing forgiveness and understanding. They discuss three key lessons from the passage: redirecting condemnation both inwardly and towards one's partner, the power of de-escalation during an argument, and establishing a constructive path forward to prevent future conflicts. The episode concludes with recommendations for practical strategies to de-escalate arguments and maintain a healthy relationship.

    They also introduce their online course on forgiveness, featuring six modules, 14 videos, and several worksheets designed to help couples deepen their understanding and practice of forgiveness within their marriage. The course is currently available at a discounted price, and they encourage viewers to invest in it for the benefit of their relationships.

    00:00 Introduction and Today's Topic

    00:31 The Story of the Woman Caught in Adultery

    02:08 Relating the Story to Marriage

    03:46 Redirecting Condemnation in Relationships

    06:42 The Power of De-escalation

    09:56 Creating an Action Plan for Change

    11:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    13 Min.
  • 112: The Scripture Every Struggling Marriage Needs to Hear - Phillipians 3:12-14
    Dec 25 2025

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    In this episode, Heather and Brian from Love How Deep address a common struggle many couples face: feeling that their marriage isn't what they hoped it would be. They dive into an unconventional scripture from Philippians 3:12-14, exploring how its teachings can be applied to strengthen marriages.

    Heather and Brian analyze the scriptures phrase by phrase, encouraging couples to adopt a growth mindset and continuously strive for improvement. They emphasize the importance of a Christ-centered foundation, understanding that marriage requires effort, resilience, and forgiveness.

    Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful insights, they offer practical advice on prioritizing one's spouse, letting go of past mistakes, and pressing forward together. This episode aims to provide viewers with a fresh perspective on their marriage, inspiring them to build stronger, more loving relationships rooted in faith.

    00:00 Introduction: Questioning Your Marriage

    00:42 Scripture Insight: Philippians 3:12-14

    01:29 Phrase by Phrase Breakdown

    04:06 The Importance of a Christ-Centered Foundation

    06:27 Pressing On and Overcoming Challenges

    09:03 Focusing on the Future, Not the Past

    13:31 Striving Towards Your Goals

    14:37 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    16 Min.
  • 111: Marriage on the Brink? Here's What's Missing
    Dec 18 2025

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    In this episode, Brian and Heather from Love How Deep discuss the importance of taking online courses to improve communication and connection in marriage. They share their personal experiences with online courses and highlight the benefits such as gaining wisdom, understanding, and knowledge about each other.

    They emphasize that online courses offer the flexibility to be done on your own time and provide valuable insights into each spouse's background and behavior. The couple delves into their latest online course on forgiveness, explaining that forgiveness is a choice and a process. They outline the steps involved in forgiveness, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and the various benefits of forgiveness, including physical, mental, relational, and spiritual.

    They encourage viewers to take advantage of their discounted forgiveness course available at lovehowdeep.com/forgive and hint at more upcoming courses on topics like communication, personality, and finances.

    00:00 Introduction: Struggles in Marriage Communication

    00:14 The Convenience of Online Courses

    01:34 Benefits of Online Courses: Wisdom and Understanding

    04:32 Deepening Connection Through Courses

    05:38 Tools for Forgiveness

    10:05 Conclusion and Course Promotion

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    11 Min.
  • 110: Why Every Couple Needs a Marriage Webinar Now
    Dec 10 2025

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    Is a Marriage Webinar Right for You? | Love How Deep Podcast Episode 110

    In this episode of the Love How Deep Podcast, hosts Heather and Brian explore the benefits and relevance of marriage webinars for couples at any stage of their relationship. Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode delves into why attending a marriage webinar can be a valuable investment in your relationship.

    Heather and Brian share insights from their personal and professional experience, explaining who can benefit from these webinars, what participants can expect, and why online settings are advantageous, especially in today's busy world. They highlight the biblical foundation of their teachings and the importance of tackling deeper issues such as communication, finances, and personal history.

    The episode also covers practical aspects of the webinars, including the structure, duration, and interactive elements designed for couples to work privately on their issues. Heather and Brian emphasize the goal of fostering closer connections between spouses and with God. Throughout the episode, the hosts inject humor and real-life anecdotes, making the discussion both informative and engaging.

    They encourage viewers to consider the potential for growth and renewal that these webinars offer, reinforcing the importance of regular 'maintenance' in a marriage, much like caring for a car. This comprehensive discussion aims to help couples decide whether a marriage webinar is the right step for strengthening their bond, providing practical advice and encouragement along the way.

    00:00 Introduction: Is a Marriage Webinar Right for You?

    00:09 Meet Your Hosts: Heather and Brian 00:32

    The Benefits of Marriage Webinars

    01:00 Who Should Attend a Marriage Webinar?

    01:54 Where Do Marriage Webinars Take Place?

    03:43 What to Expect from a Love How Deep Webinar

    06:20 Why Attend a Marriage Webinar?

    07:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    10:39 Conclusion: Join Us for a Webinar

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    11 Min.
  • 109: Why Men Must Step Up as Spiritual Leaders in Their Families Now
    Nov 26 2025

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    In this episode of Love How Deep, solo host Brian Mayer addresses husbands who aspire to be the spiritual head of their households but struggle with knowing how to do so. Brian shares personal experiences and offers practical advice on how to lead your family spiritually, emphasizing the importance of prayer, unity with your spouse, and proactive engagement with your children.

    He underscores that being the spiritual head involves serving, being present, and showing genuine care and love. Brian also suggests concrete steps to improve communication and prayer life within the family, encouraging men to actively participate and grow in their faith.

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    27 Min.
  • 108: Why Your Marriage Isn't Thriving - The Missing Factor
    Nov 12 2025

    Welcome Back to the Love How Deep Podcast!

    In this episode of the Love How Deep podcast, host Brian Mayer sits down with special guest Christopher Falconer, an author and expert on cultivating enduring love in marriages. They delve into the essence of lasting love, drawing from real-life experiences and biblical principles, particularly from 1 Corinthians 13.

    Christopher shares personal anecdotes from his 30-year marriage, discussing challenges like career pressures and health issues, and how essential elements like patience, kindness, and forgiveness have played critical roles. The conversation also touches on practical advice for singles, the importance of forgiveness, and how to prepare for a future marriage. Whether you're married, engaged, or single, this podcast offers valuable insights on building a love that lasts a lifetime.

    Check out more here:

    Email Chris: christopher@christopherfalconer.com

    Website: www.christopherfalconer.com 

    Enduring Love Book: https://www.amazon.com/Enduring-Love-Principles-Nurturing-Relationships/dp/B0FRWSB5BQ

    Also don't forget to Like, Subscribe and Share this Episode with others who would like to hear it!

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    34 Min.
  • 107: How Couples Can Handle Money Without Fighting
    Oct 29 2025

    Managing Money as a Couple: Balancing Finances and Family Values with Gino and Julia Barbaro

    In this episode of The Love How Deep Podcast, hosts Brian and Heather Mayer dive into the important topic of managing money as a couple without compromising family values.

    Joined by special guests Gino and Julia Barbaro, the conversation covers their personal journey of overcoming financial challenges and harmonizing money management with core family values. The Barbaros share insights from their 27 years of marriage, including how they have successfully raised six children, homeschooled them, and fostered their entrepreneurial spirits. The discussion touches on different attitudes towards money, shaped by upbringing, and the importance of communication in resolving financial conflicts within a marriage.

    Gino and Julia also explore the concept of money archetypes, which helps individuals understand their relationship with money and develop healthier financial habits. They delve into the significance of aligning financial decisions with personal values and the impact that can have on family dynamics. They also discuss the importance of involving children in financial conversations and teaching them the value of money from a young age.

    More Information and Resources:

    For more resources and to take a money archetype quiz, visit the Barbaros' website at www.barbaro360.com.

    Additionally, check out Gino and his son's Happy Money Show podcast for more insights on creating a positive relationship with money.

    Thanks so much for joining us and remember to check out all Love How Deep has to offer your marriage.

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    40 Min.