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In this Love How Deep episode, hosts Heather and Brian explore the biblical scripture from 2 Corinthians 9:6-7, traditionally associated with financial generosity, and reinterpret its application within the context of marriage.

They emphasize 'sowing seeds' of spiritual fruit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—into marital relationships.

The discussion highlights the reciprocal nature of giving generously to one's spouse and the significance of doing so cheerfully. They also touch on the importance of communication and prayer in nurturing a healthy marriage, offering additional resources like their communication workbook for couples seeking to enhance their relationship.

00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes

00:17 Reinterpreting the Verse for Marriage

00:45 Sowing Seeds in Marriage

02:11 The Fruits of the Spirit

04:24 Challenges and Deeper Issues

05:35 Deciding to Give Cheerfully

11:10 Communication and Final Thoughts

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Letting Go of Past Mistakes in Marriage | Lessons from John 8

In this episode of 'Love How Deep,' hosts Brian and Heather delve into the challenges of bringing up past mistakes in marriage conflicts. They reference the biblical passage from John chapter 8, where Jesus addresses the woman caught in adultery.

Through this story, Brian and Heather draw parallels to marital relationships, emphasizing the importance of avoiding holding past mistakes over one's partner and instead practicing forgiveness and understanding. They discuss three key lessons from the passage: redirecting condemnation both inwardly and towards one's partner, the power of de-escalation during an argument, and establishing a constructive path forward to prevent future conflicts. The episode concludes with recommendations for practical strategies to de-escalate arguments and maintain a healthy relationship.

They also introduce their online course on forgiveness, featuring six modules, 14 videos, and several worksheets designed to help couples deepen their understanding and practice of forgiveness within their marriage. The course is currently available at a discounted price, and they encourage viewers to invest in it for the benefit of their relationships.

00:00 Introduction and Today's Topic

00:31 The Story of the Woman Caught in Adultery

02:08 Relating the Story to Marriage

03:46 Redirecting Condemnation in Relationships

06:42 The Power of De-escalation

09:56 Creating an Action Plan for Change

11:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, Heather and Brian from Love How Deep address a common struggle many couples face: feeling that their marriage isn't what they hoped it would be. They dive into an unconventional scripture from Philippians 3:12-14, exploring how its teachings can be applied to strengthen marriages.

Heather and Brian analyze the scriptures phrase by phrase, encouraging couples to adopt a growth mindset and continuously strive for improvement. They emphasize the importance of a Christ-centered foundation, understanding that marriage requires effort, resilience, and forgiveness.

Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful insights, they offer practical advice on prioritizing one's spouse, letting go of past mistakes, and pressing forward together. This episode aims to provide viewers with a fresh perspective on their marriage, inspiring them to build stronger, more loving relationships rooted in faith.

00:00 Introduction: Questioning Your Marriage

00:42 Scripture Insight: Philippians 3:12-14

01:29 Phrase by Phrase Breakdown

04:06 The Importance of a Christ-Centered Foundation

06:27 Pressing On and Overcoming Challenges

09:03 Focusing on the Future, Not the Past

13:31 Striving Towards Your Goals

14:37 Conclusion and Final Thoughts