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  • Are You Concerned About The Needs Of Your Husband Or Wife?

    Are You Concerned About The Needs Of Your Husband Or Wife?
    Jan 7 2026
    I will be sharing with you today a message called, “Are You Concerned About The Needs Of Your Husband Or Wife?” Let’s define necessity in most obvious meaning and term - the fact of being required or indispensable The problem with so many marriages that are miserable and intolerable instead of enduring and delightful is the missing component of selflessness. When both spouses are willing to make it about each other instead of about themselves then the marriage can be what God meant for it to be. Wives should learn to embrace the the godly and foundational needs of their husbands and husbands should learn to embrace the godly and foundational needs of their wives. See necessities of selflessness transcends and put to shame the selfish wanting of me, myself, and I in the relationship. Furthermore when you neglect the necessities of each other the want is considered selfish, self-centered, and repulsive. Necessities should consist of kindness, gentleness, respect, marital faithfulness, accountability unto each other, plus the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual without sexual deprivation and guilt shaming. This will conclude my podcast and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow. God bless and take care everyone #husbandsandwives #maritaladvice #lovemarriagenotdivorce #godlymarriages #marriage #lovelanguageorgodlanguage
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    4 Min.
  • How To Stop Being Toxic And Avoid Becoming Toxic?

    How To Stop Being Toxic And Avoid Becoming Toxic?
    Jan 6 2026
    1. Take ownership of your mindset, behavior, and attitude when it doesn’t line up with appropriate engagement and interaction with other. 2. Think about how you want to be treated and respected by others to motivate you to not behave in a non toxic manner. 3. Get honest, constructive, and impartial feedback from others that know you personally. 4. Don’t take offense or get upset with others that hold you respectfully accountable if they see you drifting into a bout of toxicity. 5. Stay away alcohol, drugs, and other harmful substances that could influence or sway you or your mind into becoming toxic or display toxicity. 6. Learn your triggers, plus learn and utilize coping skills that can keep you from becoming toxic or hostile to yourself, loved ones, family members, and others. 7. Make sure to find conventional activities, hobbies, and so forth to help you avoid toxicity 8. Try to maintain a healthy diet, exercise, and find time to pray, reflect, and meditate on your choices, decisions, and behaviors that could enhance toxicity. 9. Make sure to take ownership and avoid deflecting, ignoring, or denying that there is always room for improvement in your relationships and interactions with other and how you take care of yourself. 10. Lastly but most importantly, if you are a believer in God, prayer unto the Father, imitate the Son, and be led by The Holy Spirit to help you avoid be toxic or embracing toxicity. This will conclude my post today on How To Avoid Becoming Toxic? And Remember To Live Listen Learn And Grow God bless and take care everyone #toxicity #howtoavoidbecomingtoxic #livelistenlearnandgrow
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    4 Min.
  • How To Achieve True Happiness In Your Relationship?

    How To Achieve True Happiness In Your Relationship?
    Jan 6 2026

    HOW TO ACHIEVE TRUE HAPPINESS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP (List 1-10)?1. Stay true, committed, and devoted eachother.2. Keep close to eachother.3. Achieve, love, support, and grow together.4. Build up eachother instead of tearing eachother down.5. Don’t take each other for granted.6. Avoid Drama, Toxicity, and so forth.7. Avoid outside negative influences.8. Seek positive, healthy, and Godly counsel.9. Spend quality times together.10. Be willing to an open and not closed book to each other.Before concluding my podcast I just want to make it perfectly clear that I believe in God design for marriage home and family but both individuals must have a biblical and traditional mindset in order to have a Godly, good, blessed marriage.#healthyrelationships #marriageadvice #relationshipadvice#happyrealtionships#contentment #takenaccountability
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    3 Min.
  • How To Avoid Broken Relationships And Find True Love?

    How To Avoid Broken Relationships And Find True Love?
    Jan 5 2026
    I believe there is no such thing as the gift of loneliness, but I do believe there can be peace in loneliness until we find our true destined love unto the realm of Godly matrimony instead of allowing ourselves to end up in one broken relationship unto another one, this can also apply to broken marriages as well. I believe there is a longing hunger in all of us to be loved and to give love but we have to get know the reality of ourselves first and foremost before pursuing it. Our childhood, how we engage others, our mindsets, views on life, our belief system, morals, values, our limits, expectations, and so forth will be underlying factors that will either cause us to find ourselves back on the hamster wheel of disappointment. Or we can become embellished like the loving couple portrayed in the Song of Solomon with matrimony, endurance, dependability, communication, loyalty, empathy, and so forth like God originally intended for every man and woman before the fall of Adam and Eve. Moreover, some people hide behind the shadows of loneliness or being alone not because they are truly comfortable or accepting of it, many do it because of brokenness and disappointment of being hurt in a past relationships or relationships. My advice to them, make peace with your hurt, forgive the other person, or persons so that you can truly be set free to love again. Nonetheless, set your expectations realistically and appropriately unto the Godly elements of love and make sure you are both on the same page. I love what 1 Corinthians 13:4–8 says about Love but it has to be with a person that is mutual to wanting that same kind of love. I believe this kind of love is possible in godly marital relationship if applied. 1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (ESV) 1. **Love is patient and kind**; 2. Love does not envy or boast; 3. it is not arrogant or rude. 4. It does not insist on its own way; 5. it is not irritable or resentful; 6. it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, 7. but rejoices with the truth.
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    5 Min.
  • 5 Ways On How To Deal With A Gaslighting Narcissist

    5 Ways On How To Deal With A Gaslighting Narcissist
    Jan 4 2026
    5 Ways On How To Deal With A Gaslighting Narcissist 1. Don’t allow he or she to deflect their narsasism by accusing you of being a Narcissist. 2. Evidently, present factual incidents, examples, and situations to the narcissist that will challenge their narcissism. Don’t doubt yourself by allowing the narcissist to manipulate or deter you on how you are being treated, gaslighted, etc. 3. Keep a journal of your thoughts, feelings, and actions that will refute the Narcissist false accusations, manipulation, and so forth. 4. Don’t allow he or she to gaslight you by accusing you of being a Narcissist by refusing to accept your factual incidents and examples, plus situations that confirms him or her narcissism, 5. Lastly, don’t engage the Narcissist toxicity, mood swings, intimidation, or any other manipulative tactics to disrupt your sanity, peace, joy, and mindset. In closing, remember you cannot fix a Narcissist if a Narcissist is not willing to fix him or herself but you can deter them from gaslighting, manipulating, or trying to make you into what he or she already is. This will conclude my podcast. And Remember to Live, Listen, Learn, and Grow God bless and take care everyone. #narcissist #narcissim #memyselfandimindset #nemyselfandisyndrome #livelistenlearnandgrow
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    4 Min.
  • Tips On How To Stop Being A Procrastinator?

    Tips On How To Stop Being A Procrastinator?
    Jan 4 2026
    Tips On How To Stop Being A Procrastinator? Tip Number One Prepare a daily planner and schedule for yourself Tip Number Two: Organize and prioritize your time. Tip Number Three: Come to the realization you can wait for time but time won’t wait for you as a reinforcer to plan your day wisely and accordingly. Tip Number Four: Value Your Time and don’t take it for granted. Tip Number Five: Be open to get tips and advice from others who are better at not procrastinating their time. Tip Number Six: Discipline your time on social media platforms, plus tv and movie binging Tip Number Seven: Also Make A Task To Do List Tip Number Eight: Also plan and prioritize your days off and upcoming vacations, holidays, etc. Tip Number Nine: Don’t be over spontaneous or organized instead be balanced. Tip Number Ten Structure your time with realistic expectations, goals, progress, and so forth. #procrastination #timewaitsfornoone #livelistenlearnandgrow
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    3 Min.
  • Are You Getting Cheated On By A Player Cheater Manipulator And Liar?

    Are You Getting Cheated On By A Player Cheater Manipulator And Liar?
    Jan 2 2026
    This podcast is based on a conversation that I had with a young lady on a social media platform. This young lady asked me to give her my opinion on her current situation with a man she was dealing with after finding out that he was Player, Cheater, Manipulator, and Liar. I responded by saying Players, Cheaters, Manipulators, and Liars will utilize the very standards you set for the relationship in order to take advantage of you. What if you set the standard of just dating him for 3 to 6 months and get to know more about him? What if you set the standard to remain celibate and tell him, no sex until you put a ring on my finger and marry me? See players or men that want the best of two worlds will run game on you. Because you don’t set the necessary standards for the relationship that will prevent him from doing it. I am not excusing what he did, but you young ladies need to stop following the culture and go old 🏫. If you do, you will avoid a lot ❤️ break, being taken advantage of, and wounded emotionally. No sex, 💍, and making marriage your standard will expose the guys that are not serious about you and give you the potential to find the ones who are. As well, your relationship with him was built on lies. Why trust and still want to be with someone who is willing to lie, cheat, and deceive you while already being married to a wife with kids. Furthermore, he ghosted you because he knows he can no longer have his cake and eat it too after his wife found out about the affair. It is going to hurt, but you need to value your self-worth and not hold your heart, soul, body, mind, and spirit in bondage to someone who was only taking you for a ride. Not to mention, he was fulfilling his narcissistic ego to be cheating on his wife and playing with your fragile heart, feelings, and emotions. So set godly standards for yourself and stop choosing men based on outward appearance, swag, material, and monetary appeal. The type of man that you should be looking for is one who is traditional, godly, respectful, responsible, faithful, employed, hardworking, dependable, reliable, transparent, empathetic, caring, trustworthy, and so forth. So in closing I am praying the young lady took heed to my advice to stop choosing Players Cheaters Manipulators And Liars. Because there are some good men out there even though they might not have that bad boy, suspenseful, and stud muffin appeal that so many women fall prey to instead of 👀ing for the inner qualities of a man that will represent their character and true, genuine, and heartfelt intentions. This will conclude my podcast for today and remember to Live Listen Learn And Grow. God bless and take care everyone. #cheaters #liars #affairs #manipulators #setgodlystandards #putaringonit #takingownership
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    6 Min.
  • How To Change Toxic Behavior?

    How To Change Toxic Behavior?
    Jan 2 2026
    How To Change Toxic Behavior? First and foremost what is definition of toxicity, The extent to which something is poisonous or harmful, as well it can be defined as the quality of an individual or individuals of being harmful or unpleasant plus pervasive or insidious If you are struggling or displaying toxic behavior, here are some steps you can take to change your toxicity. 1. You must be willing take ownership of your toxic behavior, attitude, and interactions with others. 2. Don’t play the blame game or try to manipulate others into enabling or condoning your toxicity. 3. Take out time to self-evaluate and find out the root causes of why you are choosing to be toxic. 4. Also, make sure to think about how you want to be treated and respected by others as a reinforcer to not treat others in a toxic manner. 5. Understand the potential dire effect your toxicity is having on your loved ones, spouse, children, etc. 6. Be willing to get honest, constructive, and impartial feedback from others that know you personally but will not sugarcoat or downplay your toxic behavior. 7. Stay away from drugs and other harmful substances that could influence or sway your mind to become or display toxic behavior. 8. Don’t get frustrated, angry, or upset with individuals that hold you respectfully accountable if they see you are drifting into toxicity. 9. Learn your triggers, plus learn and utilize coping skills that keep you from becoming toxic or hostile to yourself or others. 10. Also take out the time to find appropriate and community activities, hobbies, and so forth to help you avoid toxicity 11. Try to eat healthy, exercise, and find time to reflect on your choices, decisions, and behavior that you need to change. 12. Make sure to avoid deflecting, gaslighting, ignoring, or denying that there is always room for improvement in your relationships and interactions with other and how you take care of yourself. 13. Be willing to continue to live, listen, learn, and grow in a more positive and non toxic manner by refusing to remain stagnant to your toxicity. 14. Most importantly, if you are a believer in God, prayer unto the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit to help you not to become toxic. 15. Lastly, remember it is a choice to be toxic or not, so embrace the potential to avoid being toxic by being kind, patient, respectful, setting appropriate limits with others and not harbor bitterness nor resentment. This will conclude my podcast today How To Change Toxic Behavior? And Remember To Live Listen Learn And Grow God bless and take care everyone #toxicity #howtoavoidbecomingtoxic #livelistenlearnandgrow
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    7 Min.