• Knowing … our arousal template
    Dec 3 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined by therapist, Chris Collins, to get a better understanding of our arousal template.

    Chris, who has extensive experience in psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and relationship counseling, works collaboratively with his clients to foster self-awareness, strengthen coping skills, and promote emotional well-being. Together, Trent and Chris discuss:

    • Chris’s journey to sobriety and how it informs the work he does,
    • What our arousal template is, what influences it and how,
    • The relationship between our attachment style and our arousal template,
    • How pornography and trauma can impact our arousal template, as well as
    • How our arousal template can impact our ability to get aroused.

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    If you like this episode on our arousal template, you might like to also check out:

    Knowing… tantric healing pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Knowing … our relationship to chemsex pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.
  • Knowing … Psychosexual therapy
    Nov 12 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined by neurodivergent psychosexual therapist and relationship counsellor, Maxi Xie, to get a better understanding of what psychosexual therapy is.

    Maxi’s lived experience as a culturally diverse practitioner shapes his work supporting individuals and couples around intimacy, pleasure, and communication, who he sees across several private clinics. Maxi’s practice is sex-positive, poly-friendly, kink and fetish friendly, neuro-affirming, and culturally aware, and he provides safe, inclusive spaces where people can embrace all parts of themselves — including their identities, desires, and vulnerabilities — free from shame. Together, Trent and Maxi discuss:

    • What sparked Maxi’s interest for working in psychosexual therapy, including his studies,
    • What psychosexual therapy is and why someone might seek out this type of support,
    • The role of desire, shame and our emotions related to our sexual selves,
    • The difference between intimacy and sexual intimacy, as well as
    • Why is it important to discuss our desires and boundaries with our partner.

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    If you like this episode on psychosexual therapy, you might like to also check out:

    Knowing … ourselves through Shadow Work pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Knowing… tantric healing pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.
  • Knowing … Music Therapy
    Nov 5 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined by music therapist, Luke Thorne, to get a better understanding of what music therapy is.

    Luke works in private practice with his business Crescendo Music Therapy, which sees him work within the NDIS and supporting people with disabilities to improve their wellbeing. Luke has also worked as a disability support worker for over 10 years, has his Masters of Music Therapy, a Bachelors degree in Music Performance, as well as extensive experience writing and recording his own music. Together, Trent and Luke discuss:

    • What sparked Luke’s interest as an artist, and as a music therapist,
    • What music therapy is, how it can help and who it can help,
    • The benefits of music therapy for pain management, as well as
    • The different life domains in which music therapy can focus support.

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    If you like this episode on music therapy, you might like to also check out:

    Knowing … creative arts therapy and healing: Spotify | Apple Music

    Knowing… client-led therapy pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.
  • Knowing … our Chakra System
    Oct 29 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined by Ange Monitto from Sound of Soma to help us better understand our Chakra System.

    Ange is a qualified sound therapist with a range of holistic healing qualifications, including a Diploma in Sound Therapy, as well as qualifications related to Tibetan singing bowl sound healing, reiki and meditation and mindset. Together, Trent and Ange discuss:

    • How Ange got into working with chakra energy,
    • The integrated role our chakras play in communicating messages to ourselves,
    • How our chakras funnel information into our body,
    • The importance of understanding our energy body,
    • An overview of the seven main chakras,
    • The difference between our main chakras and transpersonal chakras,
    • How our chakras can be overactive and underactive, misaligned or reversed,
    • Our energy fields and how they hold memories and remember physical pain,
    • How aligning our energy and our chakras can help us be more coherent, as well as
    • Whether our chakra system can interact and engage with others.

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    If you like this episode on our Chakra System, you might like to also check out:

    Knowing … Sound Healing: Spotify | Apple Music

    Knowing… Heart Brain Harmony pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.
  • Knowing … Borderline Personality Disorder pt. 2
    Oct 22 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined once again by clinical psychologist, Julian Nolan, to discuss Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Trent and Julian unpack:

    • How Borderline Personality Disorder can affect our closest relationships,
    • The role ‘fear of abandonment’ plays for someone with BPD,
    • How ‘connection’ and ‘trauma’ impacts and informs people with BPD,
    • What some of the common co-morbid diagnoses are for people with BPD,
    • What getting a diagnosis for BPD involves, as well as
    • The intersection of BPD and sexuality.

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    If you like this episode on Borderline Personality Disorder, you might like to also check out:

    Knowing … Borderline Personality Disorder pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Knowing… our resilience through our neurodivergence: Spotify | Apple Music

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.
  • Knowing … Borderline Personality Disorder pt. 1
    Oct 22 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined by clinical psychologist, Julian Nolan, to get a better understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Together, they discuss:

    • The inspiration behind Julian specialising in Borderline Personality Disorder,
    • What Borderline Personality Disorder is,
    • What BPD can look like for someone in their day-to-day life,
    • The role ‘emotional sensitivity’ plays in people living with BPD,
    • What it can look like to a loved one who knows someone with BPD, as well as
    • The role of attachment styles and how it relates to BPD.

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    If you like this episode on Borderline Personality Disorder, you might like to also check out:

    Knowing … our ADHD: Spotify | Apple Music

    Knowing… our resilience through our neurodivergence: Spotify | Apple Music

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.
  • Knowing … our Authentic Selves pt. 2
    Oct 8 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined once again by life coach, Sam Henderson, to continue unpacking what it means to be our authentic selves.

    Sam, a Master Practitioner of Life Coaching, Conscious Hypnosis, Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Matrix Therapies, continues to share with Trent:

    • How our values and uniqueness relate to us being our authentic selves,
    • Whether we are being our most authentic selves or life is getting in the way,
    • Why finding times for ourselves is important,
    • The role that trauma plays in limiting our ability to live authentically,
    • The different modalities that can help with us in living more authentically,
    • What letting go of negative relationships has to do with being our authentic selves, as well as
    • How curiosity and reflection about our lived experience helps inform our authentic selves.

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    If you enjoy listening to what it means to be our authentic selves, you might also want to check out:

    Knowing … our Authentic Selves pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Knowing… our Attachment Styles pt. 1: Spotify | Apple Music

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.
  • Knowing … our Authentic Selves pt. 1
    Oct 1 2025

    On this episode of Knowing Me, Knowing You, Trent is joined by life coach, Sam Henderson, to unpack what it means to be our authentic selves.

    Sam, a Master Practitioner of Life Coaching, Conscious Hypnosis, Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Matrix Therapies, shares about his own lived experience, including a period of his life that he reframed from being a “break down” to being his “breakthrough”.

    Together, they also discuss:

    • What life coaching and Matrix Therapy are,
    • What it means for us to be our most authentic selves,
    • What can stop us from being our authentic selves,
    • How our younger selves can impact us being our authentic selves,
    • What the role of trusting ourselves plays in being our authentic selves, as well as
    • How boundaries inform our ability to spend times with ourselves.

    You can check out the previous shows mentioned in this episode via:

    Hypnotherapy: Spotify | Apple Music

    NLP: Spotify | Apple Music

    Please keep in mind, the discussions, topics, and advice provided as part of this podcast are general in nature. They should not replace specific and individualised mental health support that might be needed. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, you can visit the Joy Radio support page for assistance and guidance at: https://www.joy.org.au/support

    Get in contact with the show:

    We highly value your thoughts, opinions and feedback. Get in contact with them via:

    Instagram: @kmkypodcast

    Email: kmky@joy.org.au

    About the show:

    Knowing Me, Knowing You – hosted by Trent McWhinney and Dave Demmer.

    Trent and Dave are mates, therapists, and all-round queer guys on a new journey of personal discovery. Get to know them, and yourself, as they dive into topics on mental health and self-development. Filled with vulnerability and laughter, the boys chat to professionals, experts, and those with lived experience to unpack what it means to truly know yourself.

    Don’t forget to tune into JOY 94.9 Wednesday’s at 9pm to hear Knowing Me, Knowing You live.

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    53 Min.