Who do you honor, and how, when you don't have a tradition handed to you?

With Día de los Muertos on November 1st and 2nd, Julia Carmen talks about honoring the ones who came before us, in our own way and with respect for where the tradition comes from. In her family it was never just one weekend. Her mother honored hers every day. Julia describes the holiday as a time of music, food and being together, not a sad day, and a doorway into something we can carry all year.

She shares the story of her grandmother coming through with a message for her own daughter, and what it taught her about remembering a death and a life together. Then she shares how anyone can honor their ancestors, with respect as the key: educate yourself before you borrow, learn where the practice comes from, and honor your own people and lineage too. An altar can be in your heart, or one photo, one candle, a favorite song. Say their names out loud.

Julia closes by pulling a card, Kissing/Lover Dragonfly, and reading it as our ancestors saying, "Look in the mirror and see me."

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Who is on your altar this year? And what if you've never made one?

Julia Carmen sits down with her granddaughter, Juliana Guerrero, as Día de los Muertos approaches. Juliana remembers what the season looked like growing up, what she carries from the line of women behind her, and what it's like to teach in a school that builds a huge ofrenda together every year. She names what she calls a teeny tiny silver lining of the overculture's version of the holiday: it has people asking questions.

They talk about doing this with respect, about asking permission, and about the fact that some altars are private. Juliana walks through her living altars, including the love altar she first built during a hard season. Julia talks about where to begin if you're new: start with yourself, start with the people who really saw you, and don't compare. They also talk about grief, and about the songs and films that help carry it.

Julia closes by reading the Fire Dragonfly card, and Juliana leaves us with three words for anyone sitting with their people this week: be still, be kind, be love.

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You may know their work long before you ever really meet them. The Artist is often seen, but not seen.

Julia Carmen returns to the Archetype series with the Artist, paired with Emerald Dragonfly. She describes them as the creators of their own universe, close kin to the Alchemist and the Wizard, and filled with more emotion in motion than most. They move like chameleons, changing their own colors and seeing the colors in other people, so they're very hard to fool. Julia's other image for them is an octopus: ranging in every direction, and ready to release its ink when it needs to.

An Artist doesn't have to paint. This archetype shows up through poetry, through parenting, through a person's work and word. Julia also names the caution for those who lead with the Artist: because emotion runs ahead, being near one can be intense.

The Artist is born with the knowing within, and their stories come from other worlds of being. This is an Archetype that can be cultivated, in the stillness of you.

Their companion is Emerald Dragonfly: "Know this. You can never be lost."

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