In this episode from 2023 Felicia and Karega explore why September holds profound significance as a "holy month of miracles and wonders" in their grief journey. As they approached the fourth birthday of their daughter Kamaiu SOL, they discuss the changing nature of grief, the courage required to acknowledge pain as self-love, and the transformative power of speaking their daughter's name every single day.
Felicia shares a powerful affirmation: "Acknowledging the pain in my grief is an act of self-love." She reflects on how grief changes even when you think you've mastered it, and the gratitude she feels for having had time and space to process her emotions after Kamaiu's death before welcoming their daughter Kamali.
Karega distinguishes between miracles and wonders. Miracles are good things that happen, while wonders are unexplained occurrences that serve as indicators to keep going. He shares two profound encounters from one week where speaking Kamaiu's name led to deep connections.
This episode addresses the rarely discussed experience of angel fatherhood. Karega explains why he declared September a holy month for himself, creating space for his experiences to have voice and remembrance.
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SOL Affirmations is hosted and Executive Produced by : Dr. Felicia Gangloff-Bailey & Karega Bailey
Executive Producer: Krystal Hill
Senior Producer: Michael Bryant
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Keep up with Karega and Felicia on Instagram: @karegabailey & @fefemonique or at their website.
Felicia's book SOL Affirmations: A Toolkit for Mothers Who Are Investigating Grief's Process is available now! A collection of affirmations for Mothers who are experiencing Motherhood differently than imagined. These affirmations are carefully written with the intention to support Mothers in centering their Love through different walks of pregnancy and neonatal loss.
Karega's book SOL Affirmations: A Toolkit for Reflection and Manifesting Light Within is a powerful collection of daily affirmations. Ideal for individuals, educators, and communities seeking tools for emotional wellness, SOL Affirmations provides a nurturing path toward healing, growth, and alignment with purpose.