In this episode of the Grieving Daughters Club podcast, I meet with Heidi to talk about her complex journey through grief after the loss of her father, Mark.

Heidi shares details about her father's life, their relationship, and the complexities of navigating grief amidst difficult family dynamics and a global pandemic.

She discusses the challenges she faced during her father's illness, the emotional turmoil of planning his funeral, and the strained relationships with her siblings.

Throughout the conversation, Heidi emphasizes the importance of finding ways to connect with loved ones after they have passed and shares how she has honoured her father's memory through meaningful actions and reflections and has sought to learnt so much about her father since his death which helps her to continue to feel close to him.
It's a honest, relatable conversation that demonstrates we can continue learning about our parents long after they have gone.
As ever I am deeply grateful for Heidi’s honest reflections about navigating her fathers death and the impact it has had on her life and I know it will be so helpful for those listening.

If you've lost a parent and you're trying to figure out how to keep living without them, this conversation will help you to feel less alone.

If you need a bit more support after listening, you’ll find my grief audios for difficult moments here: ⁠⁠⁠https://grievingdaughters.etsy.com⁠⁠⁠

If you are a grieving daughter and would like the chance to share your story on this podcast please email me on:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠elle@grievingdaughtersclub.co.uk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or come and find me over on instagram.

Key Takeaways:

• Heidi took care of her father during his illness.
• The relationship with her siblings was strained during her father's illness.
• Heidi arranged her father's funeral and honored his wishes.
• She felt a strong connection to her father even after his passing.
• Heidi found comfort in visiting places significant to her father's life.
• The loss of her father felt like losing her umbrella.
• Heidi's siblings projected their anger onto her after their father's death.
• She coped with grief through counseling and support from friends.
• Heidi carries her father's ashes to meaningful places.
• She encourages others to find ways to connect with their loved ones after loss.

Keywords

grief, loss, family dynamics, personal stories, coping mechanisms, healing, relationships, death, emotional support, remembrance, death of a father, covid

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In this episode of the podcast, I meet with Louise to talk about one of the most disorientating overlaps grief can bring, becoming a first time mother while simultaneously losing your own.

Louise was nine months pregnant when her mum, fit, well, and full of life was given a terminal diagnosis. There was no time to adjust, no space to prepare. Just the shock of impending birth alongside impending loss, and the heartbreak of realising the person she expected to guide her through motherhood wouldn’t be there.

With warmth, sharp humour, and real honesty, Louise shares memories of her mum, the trauma of her death, and the emotional whiplash of early motherhood lived alongside fresh grief. We talk about identity shifts, the loneliness of those early months, the importance of being supported, and how humour can become a lifeline when everything feels too heavy.

It’s a poignant, deeply relatable conversation about love, loss, and what it means to mother without the person who mothered you, an episode I know many grieving daughters will relate too.

If you've lost a parent and you're trying to figure out how to keep living without them, this conversation will help you to feel less alone.

Key Takeaways:

• Grief often begins before the loss, especially with a terminal diagnosis.

• The clash of life events, such as childbirth and loss, can be overwhelming.

• Early grief can be complicated by the responsibilities of new motherhood.

• Support from friends can be invaluable during times of grief.

• Acknowledging the pain of loss is crucial for healing.

• Humour can serve as a coping mechanism in the face of tragedy.

• Losing a parent changes one's sense of identity and confidence.

• Grief is a deeply individual experience that can be hard to comprehend without experiencing it.

• The importance of rituals and memories in keeping a loved one's spirit alive.

• Acknowledgment of grief by others can be incredibly validating.

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If you need a bit more support after listening, you’ll find my grief audios for difficult moments here: ⁠https://grievingdaughters.etsy.com⁠

If you are a grieving daughter and would like the chance to share your story on this podcast please email me on:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠elle@grievingdaughtersclub.co.uk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or come and find me over on instagram.

Keywords

grief, loss, parental loss, support, coping mechanisms, identity, motherhood, emotional journey, personal stories, mental health.

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In this episode of the podcast, I meet with Holly, who speaks about her experience of losing both of her parents. Holly shares the impact of her father's death as a teenager in a pivotal moment in her life and the challenges of navigating her mother's early onset dementia whilst raising young children years later.

The conversation delves into the hugely emotional toll of caregiving a parent, the unpredictability of grief, and the importance of finding 'your people'. Holly reflects on the unique bond between a mother and a daughter and the profound struggle that comes with watching a parent deteriorate over years. The episode emphasises the personal nature of grief and the significance of finding meaning and connection in the midst of loss.

Holly shares her honest account of these two very different experiences and the impact they have left on her.

If you’ve lost a parent and are trying to figure out how to keep living without them, this conversation will help you feel less alone.

The facebook group mentioned in this episode as a recommendation is called 'Adult Children of Early Onset Dementia Parents'.

Key Takeaways:

• Grief is a deeply personal journey, unique to each individual.
• Support systems, like Facebook groups, can be invaluable during times of diagnosis and loss.
• Early onset dementia presents a unique set of challenges and grief.
• The loss of a parent can feel like losing a safety net.
• Grief can resurface unexpectedly, often triggered by small reminders.
• Maintaining connections with lost loved ones can provide comfort.
• Therapy can aid in processing complex emotions tied to grief.
• Physical spaces tied to memories can serve as grounding touchstones.
• Grief can sharpen one's focus as a parent, highlighting the importance of presence.
• Finding meaning and purpose in grief can aid in healing.

If you need a bit more support after listening, you’ll find my grief audios for difficult moments here: ⁠https://grievingdaughters.etsy.com⁠

If you are a grieving daughter and would like the chance to share your story on this podcast please email me on:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠elle@grievingdaughtersclub.co.uk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or come and find me over on instagram.

Keywords

grief, loss, mourning, family, legacy, emotional conflict, coping strategies, cultural practices, support, love

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