In this episode of the podcast, I meet with Holly, who speaks about her experience of losing both of her parents. Holly shares the impact of her father's death as a teenager in a pivotal moment in her life and the challenges of navigating her mother's early onset dementia whilst raising young children years later.

The conversation delves into the hugely emotional toll of caregiving a parent, the unpredictability of grief, and the importance of finding 'your people'. Holly reflects on the unique bond between a mother and a daughter and the profound struggle that comes with watching a parent deteriorate over years. The episode emphasises the personal nature of grief and the significance of finding meaning and connection in the midst of loss.

Holly shares her honest account of these two very different experiences and the impact they have left on her.

If you’ve lost a parent and are trying to figure out how to keep living without them, this conversation will help you feel less alone.

The facebook group mentioned in this episode as a recommendation is called 'Adult Children of Early Onset Dementia Parents'.

Key Takeaways:

• Grief is a deeply personal journey, unique to each individual.
• Support systems, like Facebook groups, can be invaluable during times of diagnosis and loss.
• Early onset dementia presents a unique set of challenges and grief.
• The loss of a parent can feel like losing a safety net.
• Grief can resurface unexpectedly, often triggered by small reminders.
• Maintaining connections with lost loved ones can provide comfort.
• Therapy can aid in processing complex emotions tied to grief.
• Physical spaces tied to memories can serve as grounding touchstones.
• Grief can sharpen one's focus as a parent, highlighting the importance of presence.
• Finding meaning and purpose in grief can aid in healing.

If you need a bit more support after listening, you’ll find my grief audios for difficult moments here: ⁠https://grievingdaughters.etsy.com⁠

If you are a grieving daughter and would like the chance to share your story on this podcast please email me on:

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Keywords

grief, loss, mourning, family, legacy, emotional conflict, coping strategies, cultural practices, support, love

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