Coming out didn’t give me instant clarity.
It gave me alignment, safety, and a deeper trust in my body. This episode is about the shame of not knowing sooner, letting go of labels, and why being with women finally feels right.

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Healthy relationships are hard as f — not because they’re wrong, but because they don’t let you avoid yourself anymore.
In this episode, I share my experience about being in a genuinely healthy relationship and how it’s forced me to unpack old trauma, confront my patterns, and recalibrate my nervous system in real time.

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I used to think exhaustion meant I needed more sleep. Turns out, I was resting in the wrong ways.
This episode explores the 7 types of rest: physical, mental, emotional, social, sensory, creative and spiritual, and why sleep alone isn’t enough to recover in a world that constantly overstimulates and over-demands us.

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In this episode, therapist Nikki Roy and I get into the real truth about self-esteem, identity, women stepping into their power, and unlearning everything we were taught about who we had to be.
This episode impacted so many people when it first launched, so I’m bringing it back the way it always should have been released with the never-before-seen video version. If you’re new here or you missed it the first time, this one is a must hear.

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Guest: Nikki Roy | Licensed Therapist
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Living with Borderline Personality Disorder means existing in emotional extremes, craving connection and fearing it at the same time. It’s trying to explain a kind of pain that never fully fits into words.

In this episode, I unpack what it actually feels like to live with BPD and how I’m learning to heal through it.

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I dated someone who never wanted sex and it made me question everything about myself. In this raw and honest episode, I open up about the loneliness, confusion, and self-doubt that come with being in a sexless relationship and what it taught me about desire, worth, and healing.

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In this episode I am joined by my best friend and licensed therapist, Nikki Roy, for a brutally honest conversation about sobriety. From the awkward reality of fitting in, to the shocking shifts in sex and intimacy, to the way it completely rewires how you see yourself and the world around you.

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GUEST: Nikki Roy | Licensed Therapist
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This episode was recorded when I was at my lowest point. Alone in Bali, battling depression, heartbreak, imposter syndrome, and a near relapse. No plan. No notes. Just me, raw without curation, talking about BPD, loneliness, and how isolating it feels when your mind becomes your heaviest weight.

If you’ve ever felt like you were barely holding it together, this one’s for you.

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