• The Surprising Truth About Modern Relationships and Why They Fail Less Often:
    Feb 2 2026

    Unlock the secrets to modern relationships and discover how to navigate love, sex, and connection in an era of shifting norms. If you're tired of outdated stereotypes and want real insight into what thriving partnerships look like today, this episode is your ultimate guide.Gemma Hardell, a relationship therapist with a rich history and lived experience in diverse relationship styles, dives deep into how love has evolved over the decades. You'll learn why many long-term marriages face expiry dates, how midlife dating differs vastly from your 20s, and why understanding erotic blueprints can transform your intimacy. Plus, she reveals startling truths about open relationships, the impact of societal shifts on how we connect, and simple strategies to improve communication, reduce conflict, and stay emotionally aligned. Whether you're single, coupled, or contemplating a non-traditional path, her insights will challenge your assumptions and open new possibilities.We explore how societal expectations have shaped our view of love—from the pressures of monogamy to the rise of ethical non-monogamy—and why many couples find that splitting or redefining their relationship can actually bring greater happiness. Gemma discusses the importance of emotional intelligence, how to handle jealousy, and why honesty and vulnerability aren't just buzzwords but essential ingredients for modern love. She shares stories of her own vibrant relationship journey and offers practical advice on navigating complex dynamics like throuples, open marriages, and second relationships—plus the role that societal change and technology play in this new era of love.If you're ready to ditch the old scripts and embrace a more authentic, fulfilling approach to relationships, this episode is your must-listen. It’s perfect for anyone curious about how to thrive in love on their own terms—whether you're dating, committed, or exploring beyond traditional boundaries.Gemma Hardell is a seasoned relationship therapist and coach known for her candid insights and practical approach. Her own diverse relationship experiences allow her to connect deeply with clients seeking clarity and confidence in love.Tune in to challenge your perceptions, ignite your desire for a more conscious connection, and discover the tools to create relationships that truly serve your authentic self.

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    22 Min.
  • "Navigating Midlife Dating: Insights from Steve & Elliott"
    Jan 26 2026

    In this episode of "50 Shades and Grey," host Elliott Davidson welcomes his friend Steve, who shares his experiences as a single man in midlife navigating the complexities of dating. The conversation delves into the challenges of finding meaningful connections in a world dominated by dating apps, where options can lead to indecision and superficial interactions. Steve expresses his desire for a genuine relationship rather than casual encounters, highlighting the difficulties of engaging with potential partners who are often distracted by multiple options. The discussion also touches on the evolving landscape of dating, where both men and women face unique challenges and expectations, particularly as they age.

    As the conversation progresses, Steve shares insights on the importance of honesty and effort in dating, emphasizing that genuine connections require face-to-face interactions rather than prolonged texting. He reflects on his past relationships, the lessons learned, and the emotional toll of breakups in midlife. The episode concludes with a candid discussion about the realities of being single, the desire for companionship, and the acceptance of one's situation, whether that means finding a partner or embracing independence. Steve's optimistic outlook and practical advice provide listeners with valuableperspectives on dating in today's world.


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    29 Min.
  • Navigating Modern Love: Insights from a Relationship Therapist Part 1
    Jan 19 2026

    Join Elliott Davidson as he delves into the complexities of modern relationships with Gemma Hardell, a seasoned relationship therapist. From exploring ethical non-monogamy to understanding the dynamics of midlife dating, this episode offers a candid discussion on the evolving landscape of love and connection. Discover how societal shifts are influencing relationship styles and the importance of communication in maintaining healthy partnerships. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that challenges traditional norms and embraces the diversity of human connection.

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    23 Min.
  • "New Year, New Love: Navigating Resolutions and Relationships"
    Jan 12 2026

    In this episode of "50 Shades and Grey," Elliott Davidson explores the complexities of New Year's resolutions and their impact on our relationships. From the pressure of finding love to the challenges of maintaining happiness in midlife, Elliott delves into the emotional journey of dating and relationships. Tune in for heartfelt listener stories, insights on navigating dating apps, and advice on embracing fresh starts. Whether you're single, in a situationship, or reevaluating your current relationship, this episode offers guidance and encouragement for the year ahead.

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    22 Min.
  • The 2025 Recap
    Jan 5 2026

    In this reflective episode, Elliott Davidson wraps up Season Two of "50 Shades and Grey" by revisiting memorable moments and heartfelt conversations with guests. From exploring the dynamics of relationships and dating to sharing personal growth stories, Elliott expresses gratitude for the audience's support and engagement. As the podcast continues to grow, Elliott invites listeners to share their thoughts and feedback, promising more engaging content in the upcoming season. Tune in for a journey of reflection, gratitude, and anticipation for what's next!

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    12 Min.
  • "Christmas Expectations: The Reality vs. The Ideal"
    Dec 25 2025

    🎄 Dive into the festive spirit with our Christmas special episode of "50 Shades and Grave"! Join Elliott Davidson as he unpacks the pressures and expectations of the holiday season, from the perfect Instagram-worthy tree to the reality of family gatherings. Discover heartfelt reflections on the true meaning of Christmas, the importance of cherished moments, and why it's okay to embrace the chaos. Whether you're hosting a grand feast or enjoying a quiet day, this episode is your companion for a meaningful holiday. Tune in and let's celebrate the season together! 🎙️✨

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    15 Min.
  • Dating at Christmas...still relevant
    Dec 19 2025

    🎙️ Rereleased Episode Alert! Dive into the festive spirit with our special episode on dating during the holiday season. Originally recorded last year, we're bringing back this fan-favorite discussion where we explore the joys and challenges of finding love at Christmas. From navigating dating apps to the art of meeting someone new at holiday parties, join us as we share personal stories, answer listener questions, and offer heartfelt advice. Whether you're single or in a relationship, this episode is sure to resonate and entertain. Tune in and rediscover the magic of holiday romance! 🌟

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    35 Min.
  • The Power of Self-Understanding
    Dec 10 2025

    In this episode, Elliott Davidson discusses various themes including the implications of social media bans, the importance of self-knowledge, and the dynamics of parenting. He reflects on personal growth, the nature of mistakes, and the value of solitude in understanding oneself. The conversation emphasizes the significance of knowing oneself better than anyone else and how that knowledge shapes our actions and decisions.

    Takeaways

    • Australia's social media ban may lead to new opportunities.
    • Self-knowledge is crucial for personal growth.
    • Parenting involves showing up for your children.
    • Mistakes may be intentional actions in hindsight.
    • Being alone can strengthen your self-awareness.
    • Friends may not always know what's best for you.
    • You are the main character in your own life.
    • Overcoming challenges builds resilience.
    • It's important to reflect on your own thoughts.
    • Being content alone enhances relationships.

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    18 Min.