This week we’re diving into Insecure — and honestly? The range.

Morgan introduces Ariel (who has never seen the show 👀) to two wildly different intimacy moments from Season 4: one chaotic, jealousy-fueled nightmare fantasy and one slow-burn reunion that might be one of the most emotionally satisfying TV hookups ever.

We break down:

• How a comedic sex scene can be intentionally not realistic — and why that works
• “Pop the tags” and the audacity of imagining such a thing
• The crackling eye contact, breath work, and micro-choices that make the reunion scene explode
• Tender Black love on screen and why we don’t see enough of it
• The blink-and-you-miss-it position change that tells you exactly who’s in control

This episode is funny, nerdy, and unexpectedly emotional; it's a perfect example of how a show can pull off slapstick fantasy and deeply romantic intimacy in the same breath.

Listen to the episode of the Indie Film Podcast where we were interviewed behind the scenes HERE.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers Episode 4: Lowkey Feelin' Myself (Time Code: 11:53), Episode 8: Lowkey Happy (Time Code: 25:17). We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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CREDITS — Insecure (Season 4)

Creators: Issa Rae; Larry Wilmore/ Showrunner: Prentice Penny

Episode 4x01 “Lowkey Feelin’ Myself”
Director: Kevin Bray
Writer: Issa Rae
Intimacy Coordinator: Mia Schachter
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Issa Rae; Jay Ellis; Christina Elmore

Episode 4x08 “Lowkey Happy”
Director: Kevin Bray
Writer: Natasha Rothwell
Intimacy Coordinator: None
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Issa Rae; Jay Ellis
© 2016–2021 HBO Entertainment / Issa Rae Productions / 3 Arts Entertainment. All rights reserved.

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This one’s a BIG ONE.

Ariel and Morgan sit down with intimacy coordinator Chala Hunter, the creative force behind the intimacy work in Heated Rivalry, for a deep dive into how some of the most talked-about scenes on TV actually get made.

From the early days of learning the job during the #MeToo shift to stepping onto a set packed with hockey vibes, choreography, and high emotional stakes, Chala pulls back the curtain on what it actually takes to build intimacy that feels grounded, safe, and electric.

They get into it all:

• How she found her way into intimacy coordination when the field was still being defined
• Why she prioritizes trust, play, and actor agency over rigid choreography
• How Heated Rivalry balanced tenderness, heat, and authenticity without losing its heart
• Why representation doesn’t have to feel “authentic to everyone” to still be meaningful
• And what happens when three intimacy coordinators get together and the nerding starts before the mics are even warm

It’s insightful, funny, incredibly revealing, and a rare behind-the-scenes look at the craft from someone doing the work at the highest level.

This one feels like a milestone episode.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers Episode 4: Rose (Time Code: 21:07 - 24:29), Episode 6: The Cottage (Time Codes: 20:15 - 22:37 & 32:34-33:27). We cut around the clips, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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CREDITS — Heated Rivalry

Director: Jacob Tierney
Executive Producer: Brendan Brady
Source Material: Based on the novel Heated Rivalry by Rachel Reid
Intimacy Coordinator (Interview Guest): Chala Hunter
Actors (featured in discussed scenes): Hudson Williams; Connor Storrie
© Crave / Canadian Production Partners. All rights reserved.

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Some shows open quietly. Season 2 of "She’s Gotta Have It" opens with a bang — literally.

In this episode, Ariel and Morgan break down the iconic simulated sex montage from Season 2, Episode 1 of She’s Gotta Have It, focusing on how lighting, space, and who’s in control radically reshape how intimacy is experienced and understood onscreen.

They get into it all:

• How Spike Lee uses daylight vs candlelight to reflect different emotional states
• Why this scene feels devotional rather than voyeuristic
• How Nola’s relationship with Opal marks a shift from exploration to embodiment
• How choreography, hair, and stillness do as much storytelling as movement
• And why this scene quietly sets a new bar for how queer Black intimacy is filmed on television

They also discuss the evolution from the 1986 film to the Netflix series, what it means to reclaim Nola Darling’s story through a more expansive lens, and why sexually liberated queer Black women are still so rarely given this level of care onscreen.

It’s reverent, gorgeous, deeply nerdy, and a reminder that intimacy doesn’t have to escalate to be electric.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers 1:22:10–1:29:34 of the TV show episode and 39:27-40:27 of the movie. We cut around the clip, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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Credits — She’s Gotta Have It (Season 2, Episode 1: “#IMFEELINGMYFEELINGS”)

Director: Spike Lee
Writers: Cinqué Lee; Joie Lee; Spike Lee
Based on the film: She’s Gotta Have It (1986), written and directed by Spike Lee
Producers: Spike Lee; Win Rosenfeld; Charlie Corwin
Actors (featured): DeWanda Wise; Ilfenesh Hadera
© 2019 Netflix / 40 Acres and a Mule Filmworks. All rights reserved.

Credits — She’s Gotta Have It (1986)

Director: Spike Lee
Writer: Spike Lee
Producers: Spike Lee; Monty Ross
Actors (selected): Tracy Camilla Johns; Tommy Redmond Hicks; John Canada Terrell; Steve White; Spike Lee
© 1986 40 Acres and a Mule Filmworks. All rights reserved.

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