In Episode 4 of Drag & Burlesque Diaries, we’re doing things a little differently. Flame is checking in and recording straight from the hospital—because the show must go on and we truly mean it when we say no performer left backstage! Joining us in the sheet fort tonight is the incredible Sativa Shakespeare! We’re diving deep into what it’s like for per to navigate the stage after entering parenthood and how pers artistry has evolved. But it’s not all "renny and me"—things get spooky when Sativa shares a bone-chilling NOLA ghost story that’ll have you pulling the covers up to your chin. 👻🏰

We also play a high-stakes round of DRAG (our specialized version of MASH) to see what the future holds for per! 🔮

In this episode:

• Parenthood & Performance: How Sativa balances the diaper bag with the drag bag.

• Haunted NOLA: A ghost story from the heart of the Bayou.

• DRAG Fortune: Predicting Sativa’s future venues and malfunctions.

Credits & Links:

• Intro/Closing Music: The vibes are provided by the talented Mel Diyer.

• Follow our Guest: Find Sativa Shakespeare on Instagram @sativashakespeare and show pers some love!

• Follow the Pod: Keep up with our shenanigans online at @dnbdiariespod.

Want to join the party?

We want to hear from you! Email us at dnbdiariespod@gmail.com if you want to appear on the pod or if you have a wild story you want our artists to react to!

Grab your snacks and settle in—it’s time for a heart-to-heart. 💖🎙️

Before you ever step on stage, there’s something every performer should know: where this art form comes from.

In this episode of Tips for Tips, Flame Foxxe takes you on a gentle, honest, slumber-party-style chat about why knowing your drag and burlesque history matters — and how research, respect, and showing up before you perform can make you a stronger artist and a better community member.

We talk about going to shows before debuting, learning from performers who came before you, taking classes, studying online, and why history isn’t gatekeeping — it’s grounding. Whether you’re a king, queen, thing, creature, or still figuring it out, this episode is about entering the space with care, curiosity, and confidence.

Flame also highlights essential resources for learning more, including DragKingHistory.com, founded by drag king historian and performer Mo B. Dick, as well as burlesque history and education through the Burlesque Hall of Fame. Additional burlesque learning resources mentioned include Unhelpful Tips with Matt Finish and Judith Stein.

Drag is community art. Knowing your history helps you honor it — and helps you shine.

Resources Mentioned

• Drag King History: https://www.dragkinghistory.com
• Mo B. Dick: https://mrmobdick.com/about/
• Burlesque Hall of Fame: https://burlesquehall.com

Follow the Podcast

🎙 Drag & Burlesque Diaries

Instagram & TikTok: @dnbdiariespod

✨ Host: Flame Foxxe

Instagram: @flamefoxxe

Flame is joined by Riot Dee Binary from Denton, Texas. They discuss everything from their stage name to selective activism, racism and transphobia within the queer community, drag etiquette and the appreciation and appropriation of ballroom culture.

Find them on Ig at https://www.instagram.com/riotdbinary?igsh=MWtwZzc2M2N0eDI3Zg==

Follow the podcast @dnbdiariespod

Follow the host, Flame @flamefoxxe

Email your questions, suggestions and requests to appear on the pod to dnbdiariespod@gmail.com

We are now on the PodMatch network and booking guests via their website.

Huge thank you to Mel Diyer, the artist on our intro and outtro music!

In this first Tips 4 Tip$ episode, Flame discusses how to pick your stage name and planning your drag around your expectations.

Follow the pod on social media @dnbdiariespod
Follow Flame online @flamefoxxe

Email the pod your questions and suggestions to dnbdiariespod@gmail.com

The artist on our intro and outro music is: ​⁠Mel Diyer ‪@meldiyer3904‬

For a downloadable name mapping worksheet:
https://ko-fi.com/s/6127038ddb

To register your king name: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdhaWSCzmcUTC-8SD36ZKqJYq9AylFiwr5R2MwP_DLI4LX6-g/viewform?pli=1

The burlesque name registry: https://www.burlesqueregistry.com/