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In this episode of Dads Against the Narrative, hosts Nate Feathers and Jack delve deep with special guest Matt Beaudreau. Matt is an educator, keynote speaker, and the co-founder of Apogee Strong, a mentorship program designed to help young men and fathers become leaders.

The conversation kicks off with Matt’s personal "red pill" moments—from a realization during the movie Braveheart at age 15 to questioning the official narrative of 9/11 while preparing for the Secret Service. The trio explores the power of identity over discipline, why Matt’s children have never eaten McDonald's, and the critical importance of being the "inner voice" for your children. They also discuss the freedom of living outside the US, the concept of "known slavery vs. unknown freedom," and how to design a life you don't need a vacation from.

In This Episode You Will Learn:
• [00:42] Matt’s Red Pill Moments: How watching Braveheart as a teenager and questioning the events of 9/11 shifted Matt's trajectory from the Secret Service to independent thinking.
• [04:00] The Soundtrack of Focus: Why Matt plays the Braveheart soundtrack on repeat to get into "deep work" mode.
• [10:14] Identity vs. Discipline: Matt explains why he doesn’t need discipline to stay sober or healthy—it’s simply his identity. "I don't have to discipline my kids; I've shown them how to be disciplined humans."
• [15:01] Normalizing Excellence: Why fast food isn’t a "treat" in the Beaudreau household and how parents get to set what is "normal" for their children.
• [20:01] Building a Foundation: The analogy of building a 10-story vs. a 100-story building and how early intentionality with kids pays off in their teenage years.
• [25:50] Designing Your Life: The importance of designing a life you don't need to escape from and the intentionality behind family meals.
• [35:04] Known Slavery vs. Unknown Freedom: A powerful discussion on why people choose comfortable unhappiness over the uncertainty of freedom.
• [46:44] Life in Mexico: Jack and Matt discuss the reality of living in Mexico, safety, and the benefits of raising children in a family-centric culture.

Memorable Quotes:
• "Your kids will do what you do before they do what you say."
• "I don't have to discipline my kids; I've just shown them how to be disciplined humans."
• "Birds born in a cage think flying is an illness."
• "Known slavery is better than unknown freedom... we want the known slavery because it's familiar."

Connect with Matt Beaudreau:
• Instagram: @mattbeaudreau
• Apogee Program: apogeestrong.com

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If you can’t laugh at the chaos, you’re letting it win. In this episode, we sit down with Austin von Letkemann, better known to the internet as Mandatory Fun Day. While he made his name roasting military absurdity and toxic leadership, today we’re peeling back the layers to see how those same lessons apply to the most important unit of all: the family.

We discuss the fine line between strict discipline and building a home filled with joy. Austin shares his perspective on why 'mandatory fun' shouldn't just be a cynical military trope, but a genuine strategy for connection. From raising resilient kids in a world that rewards fragility, to using humor as a tool for truth-telling, this conversation is a masterclass in leading your family with both authority and authenticity. Whether you're a veteran or just a dad in the trenches, this is your after-action report on building a legacy that lasts.

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Welcome to a special edition of the show: Moms Against the Narrative!

In this episode, we are flipping the script. Jack is joined by a very special guest—his wife, Simone Akasha Nofel—for a raw and honest conversation about the state of the world today.

Together, they cut through the noise to tackle one of the most pressing issues facing families in the United States: the mental health crisis affecting both children and adults. Simone brings her unique perspective to the table, diving deep into the challenges we face and offering real talk on life, family, and how we can navigate the world around us.

Tune in as we move beyond the mainstream narrative and get to the heart of what really matters for our families' well-being.

In this episode:

• Special Guest: Simone Akasha Nofel taking the lead for "Moms Against the Narrative."
• The Topic: A deep dive into the mental health issues plaguing the U.S. today.
• The Perspective: Real, unfiltered conversations about protecting our kids and ourselves.

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• Website: KundaliniKeys.com
• Instagram: ​⁠simone.akasha

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Do you feel a sense of emptiness on the weekends, even after a "successful" work week?

Many men fall into the trap of confusing their Identity (who they are on paper: a dad, a soldier, a boss) with their Purpose (their internal direction and "why"). When you rely solely on your job title or your role as a provider to give you value, you risk burnout and losing your sense of self.

In this episode of Dads Against the Narrative, Jack Nofel and co-host Alex Lange cut through the noise to discuss the difference between "Zone of Excellence" and "Zone of Genius." They dive deep into why being good at your job isn't the same as living a meaningful life, and how men can break generational cycles to build a true legacy for their children.

In this episode, we cover:
• Identity vs. Purpose: Why your rank, paycheck, or title is not your purpose.

• The "Zone of Excellence" Trap: Why being highly competent at work can actually leave you feeling drained and distant at home.

• Breaking the Cycle: How to parent differently than your father did and stop passing down trauma.

• Rights of Passage: Why modern society fails young men and the importance of "deschooling" your mind.

• Finding Meaning in Suffering: A raw look at how facing tragedy (and not running from it) can unlock your true potential.

Timestamps:
[00:00] Intro: The confusion between Identity and Purpose.
[03:18] The danger of "Conformism" and "Totalitarianism" in a man’s life.
[14:20] Zone of Excellence vs. Zone of Genius: Are you stuck?
[19:00] Breaking generational patterns and creating a new lineage.
[33:42] Why you need tension and stress to find meaning.
[41:00] The power of homeschooling and love-centered parenting.

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In this episode of Dads Against the Narrative, hosts Jack Nofel and Alex Lange sit down with special guest Greg Denning—a father of seven, world-schooler, and founder of the "Formidable Family Man" movement. Greg shares his powerful journey from a turbulent childhood filled with divorce and instability to crafting an extraordinary life on his own terms.

The trio dives deep into the philosophy of intentional fatherhood, discussing why "inviting" your children to grow is more effective than forcing them, and how to build lasting resilience in kids from toddlers to teenagers. Greg breaks down his "Triple Trifecta" framework for success and challenges fathers to stop playing the victim, embrace playfulness, and work harder on themselves than anything else.

In This Episode, We Cover:

• Pain vs. Suffering: Understanding that while pain is inevitable, suffering is optional—and how to step out of the "victim" mindset.
• The Triple Trifecta: Greg’s blueprint for the complete man, focusing on Fitness (Mind, Body, Spirit), Family (Marriage, Parenting, Legacy), and Finances.
• Raising Resilient Kids: Why letting your children fail and "get punched in the face" (literally and metaphorically) is crucial for their confidence.
• Modeling Over Mandating: How to inspire your kids to read, train, and succeed by setting the example rather than issuing demands.
• The Power of Play: Why fathers need to stop being so serious and reconnect with their childlike spirit to bond with their kids.
• World Schooling & Unconventional Living: Greg’s experience traveling the world with his family and questioning the status quo of education and lifestyle.

Memorable Quote:
"Nothing will get better in my life until I get better... If I work harder on myself, it's the best thing I can do for my wife, my children, and my community." — Greg Denning

Guest Info:
• Greg Denning: Founder of the Formidable Family Man, World Schooler, and Mentor.
• Instagram: @greg.denning

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It’s time to cut through the noise and the empty resolutions. In this episode of Dads Against the Narrative, Jack Nofel and Devin Linder strip away the clichés of "New Year, New Me" to talk about what actually drives growth: Wins, Losses, and Mastering the Mundane.

We reflect on the highs and lows of 2025—from major family moves and health scares to business struggles and fitness injuries—and how every "loss" was just a lesson in disguise. If you’re tired of starting over every January, this episode is your wake-up call to stop resolving and start evolving.

In this episode, we cover:

• Win or Learn: Why your losses in 2025 are the fuel for your 2026 success.
• Mastering the Mundane: Why real growth happens in the boring, daily habits (clean your room, drink your water!).
• Marriage & Emotional Intelligence: How to stop competing with your wife’s emotions, hold space as a leader, and bring intimacy back to the forefront.
• The "Keep It Simple, Stupid" Rule: Stripping away the complexity of self-care and fatherhood to focus on the basics that work.
• Setting a Motto, Not a Resolution: Why you need a code to live by, not just a list of wishes.

This isn't about becoming a different person; it's about showing up as the man, father, and husband you were always meant to be. Let’s get to work.

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In this episode of Dads Against the Narrative, hosts Jack Nofel and Alex Lange are joined by Steve Eckert to discuss what it truly means to step up as a father in the modern world. The conversation centers on the "Red Pill" moment in fatherhood—the realization that you must diverge from societal scripts to raise strong, independent children.

Key Takeaways:

• The "Red Pill" of Fatherhood: Steve shares his pivotal decision to sacrifice his own personal career ambitions (like becoming a pro fighter) to instead focus entirely on building a legacy through his children [02:28]. He argues that true legacy is built "in the living room, not in the bank account" [11:32].

• Homeschooling as a Lifestyle: The group discusses homeschooling not just as an educational choice, but as a "freedom lifestyle." They reject standard curriculums in favor of life skills, entrepreneurship, and critical thinking. Steve explains that he doesn't want his children to conform to a system that breeds mediocrity [13:56].

• Raising Savages: A major theme is the necessity of physical discipline and resilience. Steve describes how his family works out together daily and uses physical consequences (like burpees) to teach accountability. He shares a story about his son getting smashed by adults in Jiu-Jitsu for months to learn the value of losing and resilience [31:01].

• Questioning the Narrative: The hosts and Steve discuss the importance of teaching kids how to think, not what to think. This includes questioning everything from government narratives to scientific consensus, and even moving their families to Mexico to find more freedom and safety, contrary to popular belief [53:39].

• The Ultimate Purpose: The episode concludes with the powerful sentiment that a man's highest purpose is to be a father and leader, creating a home environment where order conquers chaos [59:02].

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In this festive yet unfiltered episode of Dads Against the Narrative, Jack and Nate cut through the holiday noise to explore the real history, biological rhythms, and spiritual significance of the Christmas season. While Jack rocks a Santa hat and Nate sports an ugly sweater, the conversation goes far deeper than festive attire.

The dads debate the origins of the holiday, comparing the Christian narrative of Jesus’ birth with the historical and pagan roots of the Winter Solstice, Saturnalia, and Sol Invictus. They discuss why they choose truth over myth regarding Santa Claus, ensuring trust remains the foundation of their parenting.

Beyond the history lesson, Jack and Nate challenge the modern hustle of "New Year, New You," arguing that winter is biologically designed for rest, not resolution-based burnout. They emphasize that the true magic of the season isn't found in consumerism or expensive gifts, but in slowing down, being present, and building lasting traditions that your children will remember for decades. Tune in for a raw conversation on how to reclaim the holidays, lead your family with intention, and embrace the season of giving.

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