🎙️ Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast"! Hosted by David, this podcast is dedicated to helping men over 40 heal, rebuild, and thrive after divorce. In this powerful episode, we are joined by the inspiring Zulma Williams, a true warrior who overcame incredible challenges to live her best life. 🌟

Zulma’s story is one of resilience, courage, and transformation. Born in Buenos Aires, Argentina, she immigrated to the U.S. at 31, pursued her dreams against all odds, and overcame cancer, abusive relationships, and cultural stigmas. At 42, she earned her Bachelor’s degree, and by 50, she completed her Master’s in Social Work—all while battling life’s toughest obstacles.

Today, Zulma is the founder of Dragonfly Therapy Services, specializing in helping others conquer trauma, anxiety, and depression. In this episode, she shares:

✅ How to discover your inner warrior and rebuild after life's setbacks.

✅ Breaking free from toxic relationships and the power of self-love.

✅ Why vulnerability is strength, not weakness, especially for men over 40.

✅ Self-forgiveness and letting go of the past to embrace a brighter future.

✅ Practical tips to navigate co-parenting, emotional healing, and more.

Zulma’s mantra? 💬 "It’s never too late to become the person you were meant to be."

💡 Whether you're a divorced dad trying to connect with your kids, a man struggling with feelings of failure, or just someone looking for inspiration to take the next step in life—this episode is for YOU.

⚡ Key Takeaways for Men Over 40:

🔑 It’s okay to ask for help—therapy isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom.

🔑 Stop personalizing other people’s actions. You are not your ex’s reflection.

🔑 Embrace change, rediscover your passions, and reclaim your happiness.

🔥 Are you ready to start your journey of healing and growth? Drop your thoughts in the comments below! What resonated with you in this episode? Share your story—your voice could inspire another man to take that first step.

👋 Find Zulma Williams Online:

🌐 Website: dragonflytherapyservices.net

📸 Instagram: @TheSwearingTherapist

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"Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast' with your host, David! 🎙️ This episode is a must-watch for divorced fathers over 40 who are navigating the rocky road of recovery, co-parenting, and spiritual growth. 💔👨‍👧‍👦

In this episode, I’m joined by special guest Allen Brokken, a Christian storyteller, author, and technology strategist. Together, we dive into:

✅ How to rebuild your life after divorce with purpose, strength, and hope 🙌

✅ The importance of reconnecting with your children and being a leader in their lives 👨‍👦

✅ Balancing technology use in the home while fostering deep, faith-based connections 📱✝️

✅ Using biblical wisdom to guide your parenting journey and help your kids thrive 📖💡

✅ The dangers of over-reliance on screens and how to build healthier family habits 🛑📱

Allen shares powerful insights from his experience as a father, author, and tech professional, offering practical advice for dads struggling to connect with their kids while staying true to their faith. 🙏💪 Whether you’re dealing with co-parenting challenges, trying to establish boundaries with technology, or simply seeking encouragement, this episode is packed with actionable wisdom.

Highlights Include:

• The role of biblical storytelling in building stronger relationships with your children 📖

• Why boredom is a GOOD thing for your kids and how to foster curiosity naturally 🎯

• How to balance being a father vs. being a friend to your child (and why it matters!) 👨‍👧‍👦

• Tips for divorced dads to set higher standards and lead by example 💡

If you’re a dad over 40 feeling stuck or overwhelmed, this podcast is your guide to starting fresh, reconnecting with your kids, and finding hope through faith and intentional action.

👉 Ready to rebuild your life with purpose? Start here!

💬 Let us know in the comments: What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced as a divorced dad, and how have you worked through it? Let’s support each other on this journey! 🙌

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💔 Struggling to rebuild your life after divorce? This episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast is for YOU. Join your host, David Marcus Webb, as he sits down with Olivier Bessaignet, a relationship coach and divorced father who’s mastered the art of rebuilding after heartbreak. Together, they break down 5 transformative intimacy skills that are essential for men over 40 navigating life after divorce.

🧠 What You’ll Learn:

• The Circle of Safety: Why boundaries, ownership, and integrity protect love and respect.

• Emotional Intimacy: How to connect deeply with your partner (or co-parent) and foster understanding.

• Polarity: Mastering the balance of masculine and feminine energy to create lasting attraction.

• Playful Banter: The art of flirting and keeping the spark alive—even in long-term relationships.

• Tantric Lovemaking: Building deep physical and emotional connection through presence.

Olivier shares his personal journey from years of therapy and relationship challenges to creating a tactical system that helps men like you thrive in co-parenting, relationships, and beyond. Whether you're facing co-parenting struggles, boundary issues, or feeling stuck post-divorce, this episode is packed with actionable advice!

👨‍👦 For Co-Parenting Dads:

You’ll also hear strategies to maintain resilience, communicate effectively, and become the role model your children need—even when your ex isn’t on the same page.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Being a “better person” isn’t enough—it’s about mastering specific skills that lead to healthier relationships.

• Respect starts with YOU. Learn how to embody and demand respect in your relationships.

• The importance of playfulness and how to reignite connection, even after years together.

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🌟 About Olivier Bessaignet:

Olivier’s unique system is rooted in his hard-earned lessons as a divorced father with full custody of his son. He’s the author of Back to Love and Respect and offers a powerful assessment tool to help men identify their strengths and areas for growth.

📣 👉 Ready to take the first step? Visit BackToLoveAndRespect.com to try Olivier’s FREE 3-minute assessment and discover your relationship strengths and challenges.

💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION:

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced after divorce? Let us know in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with a friend who needs it. 🙌

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