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  • 65: Being Married to an Abusive Serial Cheater (Kyleigh Part 2)
    Jan 21 2026

    Kyleigh shares the continuation of her story, detailing the escalation of domestic violence, coercive control, emotional abuse, and psychological manipulation within her marriage. The pattern includes physical assault, sexual boundary violations, gaslighting, intimidation, and explicit threats tied to military careers and reputation. Alongside the violence, Kyleigh describes repeated infidelity, secret relationships, deleted messages, inappropriate emotional and sexual boundaries with other women, and chronic deception. Betrayal by trusted friends, minimization of harm, blame shifting, and isolation compound the abuse and reinforce forced silence.


    As the relationship continues, Kyleigh explains how ongoing cheating, emotional neglect, body shaming, and intimidation severely impacted her mental health. Following a catastrophic knee injury, dependence and vulnerability intensified the power imbalance, leading to abandonment, control, and further psychological harm. Even during periods of academic achievement, military advancement, and professional growth, manipulation and instability persisted. Kyleigh’s account highlights trauma bonding, intermittent reinforcement, and the progressive erosion of identity that can occur in abusive relationships marked by both violence and infidelity.


    Kyleigh’s Links:

    https://www.instagram.com/kyleighraexo

    https://www.tiktok.com/@kyleighraexo

    https://www.facebook.com/kyleighrae19


    Kyleigh’s Outfit:

    https://www.instagram.com/urbanecollectivellc


    Resources:

    National Domestic Violence Hotline

    800-799-7233

    Text BEGIN to 88788


    Crisis Text Line

    741741



    Beyond the Monsters’ Socials:

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: Domestic violence, Coercive control, Emotional abuse, Infidelity/Cheating, Trauma bonding

    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    2 Std. und 39 Min.
  • 64: A Life Shaped by Foster Care, Failed Adoption, and DV (Kyleigh Part 1)
    Jan 14 2026

    Kyleigh’s story begins in Eastern Iowa, moving through foster care in early childhood before being adopted at a young age. Inside that adoptive home, she describes years of SA, physical abuse, neglect, and adults who prioritized image over child safety. As a teenager, after a report was finally taken seriously, Kyleigh was removed by authorities and placed back into the system, moving through temporary placements before transitioning into independent living.


    Adulthood did not bring immediate stability. Kyleigh describes marrying young while trying to escape having no family foundation, only to find herself in a relationship that escalated to domestic violence. The military later became a turning point, first through the National Guard and then active duty service, including Hurricane Harvey response and deployment to Afghanistan. Her story traces how childhood trauma, domestic violence, housing insecurity at different points in life, and military service intersect without a simple cause-and-effect narrative.


    Kyleigh’s Links:

    https://www.instagram.com/kyleighraexo

    https://www.tiktok.com/@kyleighraexo

    https://www.facebook.com/kyleighrae19


    Kyleigh’s Outfit:

    https://www.instagram.com/urbanecollectivellc


    Resources:

    National Domestic Violence Hotline

    800-799-7233

    Text BEGIN to 88788


    Crisis Text Line

    741741


    RAINN

    1-800-656-HOPE


    Beyond the Monsters’ Socials:

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: foster care, failed adoption, domestic violence, military service, childhood trauma

    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    1 Std. und 51 Min.
  • 63: Custody Battle With a Sexual Predator and a Pattern of Coercive Control
    Jan 7 2026

    What began as a marriage marked by love bombing, manipulation, and emotional volatility escalated into a custody battle rooted in coercive control, deception, and credible allegations of sexual harm. Indee describes years of psychological abuse, isolation, and intimidation, including being physically restrained, gaslit, and threatened into silence. As she attempted to leave, the abuse intensified, evolving into legal retaliation, false narratives, and a calculated effort to maintain power through the family court system. The unraveling of her ex-husband’s lies revealed a disturbing pattern of predatory behavior that family members had long concealed, leaving Indee to fight alone to protect her child.


    This episode exposes how coercive control does not end when a relationship does, but often resurfaces through custody disputes, institutional failures, and court-sanctioned access to children. Indee shares the psychological toll of trauma bonding, suicidal crisis, and complex PTSD, alongside the exhausting reality of self-representation in court while facing a manipulative abuser. Her story underscores the dangers of dismissing survivor testimony, the consequences of silence within families, and the urgent need for trauma-informed custody decisions.


    Indee’s Links:

    https://www.instagram.com/simplyindee

    https://www.tiktok.com/@indeefields


    Resources:

    National Domestic Violence Hotline

    800-799-7233

    Text BEGIN to 88788


    SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)

    1-800-662-HELP (4357)


    Crisis Text Line

    741741


    Beyond the Monsters’ Socials:

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: Coercive control, Custody abuse, Narcissistic abuse, Parental alienation, Family court trauma

    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    1 Std. und 22 Min.
  • 62: Kidnapped by Somali Pirates for 93 Days, Rescued by SEAL Team Six
    Jan 3 2026

    Jessica Buchanan never imagined that a career rooted in service would lead her into one of the most extreme survival situations imaginable. A former schoolteacher turned humanitarian aid worker, she was kidnapped while working in Somalia and held captive for 93 days in the desert. What began as a mission driven by responsibility, purpose, and service became a fight for survival involving armed captors, ransom negotiations, physical illness, psychological terror, and the constant uncertainty of whether she would live to see another day. Her story exposes the hidden risks faced by humanitarian workers, the failures of institutional duty of care, and the devastating consequences of ignoring intuition.


    What ultimately carried Jessica through captivity was not blind optimism or belief alone, but a disciplined inner survival strategy. Drawing from spirituality, memory, ritual, and mental control, she created structure where none existed and meaning where despair could have taken over. Her rescue by U.S. special operations forces marked the end of captivity but not the end of the trauma. Returning home meant rebuilding identity, navigating PTSD, motherhood after survival, betrayal by systems meant to protect her, and the long process of surviving survival.


    Jessica’s Links:

    https://www.instagram.com/jessicacbuchanan

    https://linktr.ee/jessbuchanan

    https://www.jessbuchanan.com

    Her Book “Impossible Odds: The Kidnapping of Jessica Buchanan and Her Dramatic Rescue by SEAL Team Six”:

    https://a.co/d/2oFjqwH



    Beyond the Monsters’ Socials:

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: Humanitarian worker kidnapping, Surviving captivity and hostage trauma, PTSD after extreme trauma, Intuition and survival psychology, Life after survival trauma

    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    1 Std. und 16 Min.
  • 61: SAed by Best Friend at 5 Years Old
    Dec 31 2025

    Nick experienced childhood sexual abuse that began when he was around five years old by his first best friend. This was a case of peer-on-peer sexual abuse, a form of childhood sexual assault that is often misunderstood, minimized, or overlooked despite its long-term psychological impact. At that age, he did not have the developmental ability to consent, understand, or stop what was happening, while fear, confusion, and secrecy became his primary survival responses. What occurred was not experimentation, but abuse, shaped by power, confusion, and trust violations that a child cannot navigate.


    As he grew older, the unresolved effects of childhood sexual abuse surfaced through anger, addiction, and struggles with trust and identity. Living with a lifelong degenerative hearing loss and tinnitus added another layer of isolation and difference during critical developmental years. Healing did not begin until adulthood, when sobriety, therapy, and accountability allowed him to accurately name what happened and confront its impact without allowing it to define him. By speaking openly, he helps illuminate how early sexual trauma and unaddressed disability can shape a life, and how breaking secrecy can be a meaningful step toward reclaiming agency.


    Nick’s Links:

    https://linktr.ee/nickmiddaugh

    www.nickmiddaugh.com

    Character Is Destiny

    nickmiddaugh.substack.com

    Nick’s essay he read an excerpt from:

    https://open.substack.com/pub/nickmiddaugh/p/005-violation-the-forge-opens?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web


    Beyond the Monsters’ Socials:

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: childhood sexual abuse (CSA), addiction & alcoholism, mental health, degenerative hearing loss & tinnitus

    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    1 Std. und 25 Min.
  • 60: A Car Crash Took His Leg and Fueled a Long Battle With Addiction
    Dec 27 2025

    John Mabry was 21 years old when a catastrophic car crash during his senior year of college killed a close friend and ultimately led to the amputation of his leg. What followed were years of surgeries, chronic pain, phantom limb pain, and the psychological impact of limb loss that no one prepared him for. On the outside, his life appeared extraordinary, including Hollywood film and television appearances, major network shows, and access to elite spaces like the Playboy Mansion. Beneath that surface, unresolved trauma, grief, and physical pain quietly fueled a growing struggle with addiction and substance use disorder.


    His unraveling came through relapse, loss, and the moment his own child recognized what he could no longer deny. Recovery required accountability, trauma therapy, and long term sobriety rather than image or success. Today, John speaks openly about addiction recovery, amputation, grief, and rebuilding life after trauma.


    John’s Links:

    https://www.instagram.com/johnmabryconnects

    https://www.youtube.com/@johnmabry_speaker

    https://www.johnmabryconnects.com

    https://linktr.ee/johnmabry


    Resources:

    SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)

    1-800-662-HELP (4357)

    Celebrate Recovery

    https://celebraterecovery.com

    Amputee Coalition

    https://amputee-coalition.org



    Beyond the Monsters’ Socials

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: medical trauma, leg amputation survivor, addiction, car crash, chronic pain

    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    1 Std. und 15 Min.
  • 59: Her Ex Falsely Called CPS When She Left Him and They Took Her Child
    Dec 24 2025

    Scarlet McKenzie shares the moment her attempt to leave a controlling relationship escalated into something far more devastating. After enduring coercive control, surveillance, isolation, and retaliation, her child was taken without a warrant or court order following false allegations. What followed was a fight against a system that ignored due process, dismissed evidence, and repeatedly failed to protect families while prioritizing procedure over truth. Her story exposes how power, control, and retaliation can extend beyond relationships and into institutions meant to protect children.


    Rather than staying silent, Scarlet turned survival into advocacy. As a mother and child welfare reform advocate, she speaks openly about family court trauma, CPS overreach, generational harm, and the long psychological impact of forced separation. Her experience sheds light on how survivors are often punished for leaving, how children are caught in the middle, and why accountability and reform are urgently needed.


    Scarlet McKenzie’s Links:

    https://www.instagram.com/scarletmckenzie

    https://www.tiktok.com/@scarlet_mckenzie

    https://linktr.ee/professionalbrat

    https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/scarletmckenzie/run-this-back

    https://music.apple.com/us/album/run-this-back/1835128990?i=1835128991


    Resources:

    National Domestic Violence Hotline

    800-799-7233

    Text BEGIN to 88788


    National Coalition for Child Protection Reform (NCCPR)

    https://nccpr.org



    Beyond the Monsters’ Socials:

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: Child custody removal, False CPS reports, Domestic violence retaliation, Family court trauma, Coercive control


    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    1 Std. und 51 Min.
  • 58: Suddenly Losing Her 15 Year Old Son to a Baseball Sized Brain Tumor
    Dec 20 2025

    Jes lost her fifteen-year-old son, Rayce, to a baseball-sized brain tumor that no one knew was there, a loss that unfolded in a matter of hours and changed the course of her life forever. She grew up in a small town in Utah and lost her mother to cancer at thirteen, an early grief that quietly shaped how she learned to survive, adapt, and care for others long before she became a parent. As an adult, Jes built her life around her three children, immersing herself in the demanding world of competitive youth sports, where teams became extended families and weekends revolved around tournaments, travel, and shared routines. That sense of closeness would later become both a lifeline and a source of unimaginable heartbreak.


    In the hours leading up to Rayce’s death, normal life unraveled: emergency rooms, unanswered questions, organ donation decisions, and the impossible task of telling his younger siblings their brother wasn’t coming home. Jes speaks openly about the shock, anger, and disorientation that followed, and the long road of learning how to survive grief without letting it define her entire identity. Her story is not about finding neat explanations, but about continuing to show up for her children, honoring Rayce’s life, and choosing to keep moving forward even when nothing makes sense.


    Jes’ Links:

    https://www.instagram.com/jes.marie18

    https://linktr.ee/jes.marie18


    Resources:

    Bereaved Parents of the USA (BPUSA)

    https://bereavedparentsusa.org


    MISS Foundation

    https://www.missfoundation.org


    GriefShare

    https://www.griefshare.org



    Beyond the Monsters Socials:

    https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/

    https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters


    Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal experiences and educational discussion. It is not medical or mental health advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your own care.


    Topics: child loss, grief, bereaved parent, healing, parenting after loss

    If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out a form here:

    https://form.jotform.com/243366933402153


    Please contact beyondthemonsters@gmail.com for any business inquiries!

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    1 Std. und 1 Min.