What actually drives your goals — shame or purpose?

In this episode of Back to the Breath, we explore the two most common motivators behind our actions and decisions. Many of us pursue fitness, success, relationships, or personal growth — but the why behind those pursuits matters more than we realize.

Is your motivation coming from fear, comparison, and feeling “not good enough”? Or from alignment, values, meaning, and a deep sense of purpose?

Using real-life examples (including fitness, career, and inner self-talk), this episode breaks down:

• Shame-based motivation vs purpose-based motivation
• Why shame can produce results — but often leads to burnout
• How your inner dialogue shapes fulfillment and self-worth
• Why purpose creates long-term motivation and peace
• Practical ways to shift from shame into purpose using breathwork, awareness, and self-compassion

If you’ve ever felt driven but exhausted… successful but unfulfilled… or motivated yet harsh with yourself — this conversation is for you.

Thanks for taking the time to listen. Feel free to reach out with any feedback, or if you'd like to collaborate in any way. Peace!

@daltonrdan on Instagram

In this episode, I break down how to overcome fear in the moment using practical tools for emotional regulation, confidence, and mental health. We explore what fear really is, why it exists, and how it shows up in the body—especially in social situations, vulnerability, relationships, and personal growth.

This episode is designed to help you move through fear, anxiety, and overwhelm, whether you’re struggling with self-confidence, social anxiety, avoidance, or feeling stuck. If you’re feeling afraid right now, you can skip directly to the tools section for grounding techniques, breathwork, and movement-based practices to calm the nervous system and take action.

In this episode, we cover:

• What fear and anxiety are and why the nervous system creates them
• Physical fear vs. emotional fear (social anxiety, rejection, vulnerability)
• How fear shows up in the body and causes freeze or avoidance
• Simple movement and grounding techniques to break fear states
• Breathwork tools for calming anxiety (Wim Hof Method, physiological sigh)
• Using connection, community, and support to regulate emotions
• Overcoming avoidance and taking action despite fear
• Letting go of shame and self-judgment around anxiety and fear

Who this episode is for:

• Anyone dealing with fear, anxiety, or overthinking
• People working on confidence, courage, and self-improvement
• Men navigating vulnerability, relationships, and personal growth
• Anyone wanting practical tools for mental health and emotional resilience

Resources mentioned:

• Wim Hof Method (breathwork for anxiety and stress)
• Physiological Sigh (popularized by Andrew Huberman)
• Support groups, men’s groups, and 12-step communities

Thanks for taking the time to listen. Feel free to reach out with any feedback, or if you'd like to collaborate in any way. Peace!

@daltonrdan on Instagram

In this episode, I dive into my personal relationship with video games and explore what it means to be a healthy gamer. I share how gaming went from a source of comfort and escape in my teenage years to something that sometimes held me back socially, physically, and emotionally.

We talk honestly about the negative side effects of over-gaming—including isolation, lack of exercise, dating struggles, and a false sense of accomplishment—and how video games can quietly replace real-world growth. I also break down practical ways to build structure and boundaries around gaming, so it can stay a fun part of life without taking over.

This episode is especially for anyone who feels gaming may be impacting their motivation, relationships, career, or overall fulfillment—and wants a healthier balance.

Gaming Addicts Anonymous (GAA) – A 12-step support group for people struggling with compulsive gaming
👉 https://www.gamingaddictsanonymous.org

(Online meetings available)

Thanks for taking the time to listen. Feel free to reach out with any feedback, or if you'd like to collaborate in any way. Peace!

@daltonrdan on Instagram