What if money was never meant to control your life?

In this episode, we unpack the idea of "decentering money" and using it for what it truly is — a tool, not a master. So many of us were taught to chase income, grind endlessly, and tie our worth to productivity. But at what cost?

We explore how to shift the focus back to your peace, mental health, freedom, and lived experiences — because this life isn't a rehearsal. It's the only one you get.

This conversation is for anyone feeling stuck in hustle culture, burned out by survival mode, or questioning what "success" really means. Learn how to redefine wealth beyond numbers and build a life that actually feels good to live.

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Welcome! We are back to bless your eardrums. Happy new year, or whatever! In this episode we unpack a listener dilemma: her boyfriend keeps disappearing whenever he's out with the boys — then he comes back like nothing happened. Is he cheating or is she overreacting? Then we get into the reality of moving out of home in your 30s, including housing agent scams, expensive furniture regrets, learning to focus on essentials and not comparing your new space to social media or your parents' home.

We also discuss the cultural pressure African women face when living alone, and what it means when moving out doesn't go as planned and you have to go back home.

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This week we were in trouble.

We tackled some of the dilemmas you have sent to us.

Should a Christian give generously to relatives they know do not like them?

Should you stay in a relationship that is not meeting your financial needs?

Hear our thoughts on these issues and help us give advice to these listeners below and on our socials.

In this episode, we explore why there is a rising number of men not showing up on the day of lobola/roora celebrations.

Is it cold feet?

Is it the discovery of new information?

Is it purely disrespect?

What is the real issue and what must happen after?

We explore different scenarios where this could arise and give our 2 cents on how to end a relationship amicably.

We also give you our take on a juicy Dilemma submitted by one of you.

Tell us what you think in the comments and keep the conversation going on our social media.

It seems that more and more people over 25 are—whether by choice or circumstance—still living at home with their parents or guardians. Is it a financial life-hack to stay rent-free in a tough economy, or is it a slow descent into madness, complete with curfews, clashing routines, and unsolicited life advice?

In this episode, we unpack the emotional, cultural, and economic realities of adulting under your parents' roof. We talk about the trade-offs—saving money vs. losing independence—and ask whether living at home is a setback or simply the smart move right now. We also hear from guests who've lived it, left it, or are still navigating the sometimes comforting, sometimes claustrophobic experience of being a grown-up in your childhood bedroom.

If you've ever had to explain to someone why you still live at home—or questioned it yourself—this one's for you.

PLUS: Get ready for our brand-new segment — Your Story, Your Voice — where we feature anonymous voice notes from YOU, our listeners. 🎧 Send them to our Whatsapp number +263 77 810 3171

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Cheating: a scandal, a heartbreak… or just part of the game now?

In this explosive episode, we dive deep into why people cheat, how society responds — and why women always seem to get the shorter end of the judgment stick. From the Coldplay scandal that had the internet in flames to our own confessions, stories, and spicy opinions, no angle is off-limits.

We ask the real questions:

• Is emotional cheating worse than physical?
• Is cheating the new normal or still taboo?
• And… what even counts as cheating in the age of DMs and "soft" betrayal?

PLUS: Hear real-life experiences from our hosts, and get ready for our brand-new segment — Your Story, Your Voice — where we feature anonymous voice notes from YOU, our listeners. 🎧 Send them to our Whatsapp number +263 77 810 3171

Whether you've been cheated on, forgiven, left, or stayed — this episode is for you.

🎧 Tune in now. It's messy, it's honest, and it's got receipts.

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Join us for this heartfelt episode all about… friendship!

This week, we dive into a dilemma from one of our listeners who's feeling the very real strain of navigating adult friendships. What starts as one person's question quickly turns into a group therapy session, as we realize just how universal this struggle is.

Why does it feel harder to be vulnerable with our friends as we grow older? Why do we hesitate to reach out when we need support the most? In unpacking these questions, we get honest about emotional walls, shifting dynamics, and the quiet grief of fading connections.

Can you relate? We'd love to hear your story. Tune in, reflect with us, and maybe send this to that one friend you've been meaning to check in on. 💬💛

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Are you sending peeled banana emojis to your workmate? Stop it. Seriously.

In this episode, we dive headfirst into the tricky, controversial terrain of workplace romance, flirty texts, and the very real line between mutual attraction and sexual harassment. Sparked by one of your real-life dilemmas, we tackle it all—raw, honest, and unfiltered.

From our personal experiences to headline-making scandals, nothing is off-limits. Is workplace romance always wrong, or are there grey areas? We unpack everything from Judge President Mbenenge's case in South Africa to our own Mai Jeremiah in Zimbabwe. Are women overreacting—or is there something darker at play in professional spaces? As always, we spiral into some heavy existential debates and, yes, we preach the gospel of good old-fashioned ABSTINENCE. This one's not for the faint-hearted. Tune in, don't hold back, and let us know where you stand.

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