What if money was never meant to control your life?

In this episode, we unpack the idea of "decentering money" and using it for what it truly is — a tool, not a master. So many of us were taught to chase income, grind endlessly, and tie our worth to productivity. But at what cost?

We explore how to shift the focus back to your peace, mental health, freedom, and lived experiences — because this life isn't a rehearsal. It's the only one you get.

This conversation is for anyone feeling stuck in hustle culture, burned out by survival mode, or questioning what "success" really means. Learn how to redefine wealth beyond numbers and build a life that actually feels good to live.

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Welcome! We are back to bless your eardrums. Happy new year, or whatever! In this episode we unpack a listener dilemma: her boyfriend keeps disappearing whenever he's out with the boys — then he comes back like nothing happened. Is he cheating or is she overreacting? Then we get into the reality of moving out of home in your 30s, including housing agent scams, expensive furniture regrets, learning to focus on essentials and not comparing your new space to social media or your parents' home.

We also discuss the cultural pressure African women face when living alone, and what it means when moving out doesn't go as planned and you have to go back home.

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This week we were in trouble.

We tackled some of the dilemmas you have sent to us.

Should a Christian give generously to relatives they know do not like them?

Should you stay in a relationship that is not meeting your financial needs?

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