If your motivation is low right now, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re unmotivated and it definitely doesn’t mean you’re lazy.

In this episode, we unpack a powerful reframe. Sometimes what we call “lack of motivation” is actually a lack of capacity. When your system is overloaded, your energy reserves are low, or external demands are misaligned with your values, forcing yourself to push harder only creates more depletion.

Together we explore how to tell the difference between motivation and capacity, why January often makes this more obvious, and how to begin moving things forward in a way that doesn’t cost you your future energy. This isn’t about hype or willpower. It’s about timing, alignment, and setting up conditions where action becomes easier to sustain.

If you’ve been asking “What’s wrong with me?” this episode offers a more honest question: “What’s happening in my system? And what needs to change so this can become easier?”

You can read the full transcript of this episode here.

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You don’t need to force motivation into existence. When your system is supported, energy returns and action gets easier to sustain.

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January often arrives with a strange pressure: to want something, decide something, improve something, even when your body and mind are still recovering.

In this episode, we talk about what it means to be in January as it actually is, not as productivity culture says it should be. If you don’t feel motivated, inspired, or ambitious yet, there may be nothing wrong with you at all.

We explore January as a liminal space between demands. A time for recovery, capacity-building, and genuine dreaming rather than forced goals. Instead of pushing yourself to figure out the year ahead, this episode invites you to listen to your body, honor your rhythms, and let desire emerge naturally, in its own time.

If your resolutions feel hollow, your energy feels low, or you’re craving rest more than ambition, this conversation is for you.

You can read the full transcript of this episode here.

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You don’t need to want more yet. You’re allowed to rest, recover, and trust that clarity and motivation will return when the season changes.

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What if the best way to begin a new year isn’t with goals or resolutions but with reflection?

In this episode, Blaze invites you to look back on your year as if it were a landscape or a weather system you lived inside of. Instead of asking What should I do next? we explore a gentler, more honest question: What did it actually feel like to inhabit my life this year?

Using emotional weather as a metaphor, Blaze reflects on grief, recovery, energy, capacity, and the systems we live within and how understanding those patterns can help us make kinder, more sustainable choices moving forward.

This episode is for anyone who feels tired of being told to optimize, fix themselves, or rush into change before they’re ready. You don’t need to become a different person to feel better. You may just need to understand the environment you’re in.

Take a breath, slow down, and let January be what it is.

You can read the full transcript of this episode here.

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You don’t need to force clarity or rush into action. You’re allowed to reflect, gather information, and trust that direction will emerge when the conditions are right.

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January can feel heavy, slow, and strangely hard. Especially when the world is telling you to sprint into a “new year, new you.”

In this episode, Blaze talks about wintering: the essential season of life where you’re meant to slow down, expect less of yourself, and quietly rebuild your energy. If you’ve been feeling tired, unmotivated, emotionally raw, or resistant to hustle culture right now, there may be nothing wrong with you at all — you may simply be wintering.

This conversation explores:

• Why motivation and productivity often drop in deep winter

• How “New Year sprint” culture ignores natural human rhythms

• What wintering looks like in real life (simpler plans, smaller circles, more rest)

• Why rest now creates momentum later

• How to stop forcing yourself when your body and nervous system need quiet

This episode is for you if:

• You feel behind or unmotivated at the start of the year

• Hustle culture feels exhausting or wrong right now

• You want permission to slow down without guilt

• You’re craving nourishment, quiet, and ease

You can read the full transcript of this episode here.

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You don’t need to push harder. You’re allowed to rest, gather energy, and trust that momentum will come when the season changes.

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The space between Christmas and New Year can feel strangely heavy. There’s pressure to look back, pressure to move forward, and often a quiet voice asking, “Did I do enough?”

In this episode, we explore a shame-free way to reflect on the year: one that doesn’t rely on productivity, comparison, or harsh self-judgment. Instead of asking what you accomplished, we gently ask what nourished you, what supported you, and what you’re proud of simply for surviving.

You’ll hear reflections on:

• Why year-end reflection often turns into shame and self-comparison

• How to separate your worth from accomplishments and timelines

• A gentle “garden” metaphor for reviewing your year with compassion

• Questions that help you reflect without guilt or pressure

• How to honor small wins, resilience, and quiet nourishment

• Why survival itself is something worth celebrating

This episode is for you if:

• You feel behind as the year ends

• Traditional New Year reviews make you anxious or discouraged

• You want a softer, kinder way to look back before looking ahead

✨ Takeaway: You are not broken, behind, or failing. You are allowed to reflect with kindness, move at your own pace, and carry forward what truly matters to you.

If you want more tools for emotional clarity, self-trust, and grounded self-care, you’re always welcome at anchoredandalive.com and right back here each week.

Wishing you a peaceful, nourishing close to the year and a gentle beginning to the next.

📝 Prefer to read or revisit this episode later?
Read the full transcript here:
👉https://anchoredandalive.com/blog/115773-reflecting-without-shame-a-year-end

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The holidays can bring up a lot. Joy, nostalgia, overwhelm, grief, loneliness, mixed memories, and moments where you’re not even sure what you’re feeling. If you're riding emotional waves this week, you are so deeply not alone.

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In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to be with big feelings during the holiday season without needing to fix them, justify them, or explain them to anyone. You’ll hear:

• Why it feels so hard to answer “How are you?” when you’re overwhelmed

• How to give simple, safe answers that honor your energy

• What to do when grief, loss, or memories surface unexpectedly

• The normalcy of moving between high and low emotions during this season

• How to support yourself gently when you feel unseen, misunderstood, or alone

• How to let moments be moments instead of carrying the emotional pressure of years

• Why giving yourself kindness (even a few minutes of it) changes everything

This episode is a soft landing place if you're navigating complicated family dynamics, missing someone you love, or just trying to stay centered in a very full week.

✨ Holiday takeaway: You don’t have to explain your feelings to deserve care. You don’t have to be cheerful to belong. You are allowed to show up exactly as you are.

If you want more support, tools, and grounded emotional guidance as we move into the new year, keep tuning in, and explore the resources waiting for you at anchoredandalive.com.

Sending you warmth, permission, and gentleness this holiday week. 💛

You can read the transcript of this episode here: https://anchoredandalive.com/blog/115652-how-to-be-with-big-feelings-during-the

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December was never meant to be an obstacle course. Yet for so many of us, holiday gatherings now feel like another job: decorating, cleaning, cooking, wrapping, hosting, performing. In this episode, Blaze offers a gentle reframe: what if the original purpose of these holidays was to give us permission to pause: to gather, rest, and be together, not to prove anything?

We explore how productivity culture, busy work schedules, and “do it all” expectations have turned built-in breaks into more pressure and holiday stress. Blaze reflects on how kids and elders often get to experience the season as it was intended: restful, cozy, playful... while those in the middle carry the load. You’ll be invited to see your own traditions with fresh eyes, treating rituals as things you get to do, not things you have to complete perfectly.

Blaze also shares a playful idea: a personal “pause card” or flag that your loved ones can use when they notice you getting overwhelmed or overworked. Instead of pushing through burnout, you can use this as a reminder to slow down, regulate your nervous system, and come back to presence even in the middle of cooking, cleaning, or last-minute wrapping.

If you’ve been feeling resentful, rushed, or secretly dreading parts of the season, this conversation gives you grounded, compassionate permission to take a break, receive support, and let your holidays be a little softer this year.

Read the full transcript of this episode here.

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It’s the beginning of December, and every feed is telling you to end the year strong, set your New Year’s resolutions, and start “crushing” next year’s goals right now. If that makes you feel behind, pressured, or secretly irritated, this episode is for you.

Blaze gently calls out the myth of the New Year sprint: the idea that you should be sprinting toward self-improvement, comparing your life to everyone else’s, and fixing everything by January 1st. Together, we unpack how this constant push to achieve more fuels burnout, comparisonitis, and overspending… and why it’s especially misaligned with the natural energy of winter.

Instead of forcing yourself into a high-pressure “fresh start,” Blaze invites you to experiment with a slow start to the new year. You’ll explore how to use December as a season of calm, reflection, and gentle dreaming: gathering ideas, noticing how you actually want to feel next year, and preparing your energy rather than draining it. We’ll talk about minimal-effort holidays, low-pressure intentions, and how to build goals around your true nature, not around marketing.

If you’ve ever felt like resolutions set you up to fail, this episode gives you permission to do it differently: softer, wiser, and more in tune with your own rhythm.

Read the full transcript here.

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