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  • No More Mr. Nice Guy

  • A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life (Updated)
  • Von: Dr Robert Glover
  • Gesprochen von: Dr Robert Glover
  • Spieldauer: 6 Std. und 49 Min.
  • 4,6 out of 5 stars (523 Bewertungen)

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    Inhaltsangabe

    “One of the best books I’ve ever read on men’s emotional health and development.” Mark Manson, author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Models.

    “I have read every self-help book out there, but this was the first that put everything together in a way that made perfect sense to me.”

    “Every page of my copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy is highlighted in yellow. How did you know me so well?

    A Nice Guy, according to Dr. Robert Glover, a pioneering expert on the Nice Guy Syndrome, is a man who believes he is not okay just as he is. He is convinced that he must become what he thinks others want him to be liked, loved, and get his needs met. He also believes that he must hide anything about himself that might trigger a negative response in others.

    The Nice Guy Syndrome typically begins in infancy and childhood when a young boy inaccurately internalizes emotional messages about himself and the world. It is fueled by toxic shame and anxiety. Rapid social change in the late 20th century and early 21st century has contributed to a worldwide explosion of men struggling to find happiness, love, and purpose.

    The paradigm of the Nice Guy Syndrome is driven by three faulty covert contracts. Nice Guys believe:  

    • If I am good, then I will be liked and loved.
    • If I meet other people’s needs without them having to ask, then they will meet my needs without me having to ask.
    • If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life.

    The inauthentic and chameleon-like approach to life causes Nice Guys to often feel frustrated, confused, and resentful. Subsequently, these men are often anything but nice. Common Nice Guy patterns include giving to get, difficulty setting boundaries, dishonesty, caretaking, fixing, codependency, people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, passive-aggressiveness, unsatisfying relationships, issues with sexuality, and compulsive masturbation and pornography use.   

    Since the publication of No More Mr. Nice Guy in 2003, hundreds of thousands of men worldwide have learned how to release toxic shame, soothe their anxiety, face their fears, connect with men, embrace their passion and purpose, and experience success in work and career. These men have also learned to set boundaries, handle conflict, make their needs a priority, develop satisfying relationships, and experience great sex.

    This process of recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome allows men to move through:  

    • Depression
    • Social anxiety and shyness
    • Codependency
    • Low self-esteem
    • Loneliness and hopelessness
    • Feelings of failure
    • Lack of confidence and purpose
    • Compulsive behaviors and addictions
    • Feeling stuck in life

    Contrary to what the title might seem to imply, No More Mr. Nice Guy does not teach men how to be not nice. Dr. Glover shows men how to become what he calls Integrated Males. Becoming integrated does not mean becoming different or better. It means being able to accept all aspects of oneself. An integrated male can embrace everything that makes him unique - his power, his assertiveness, his humor, his courage, and his mission, as well as his fears, his imperfections, his mistakes, his rough edges, and his dark side.

    If you are ready to get what you want in love, sex, and life, No More Mr. Nice Guy will show you how.  

    ©2000, 2003 Robert Glover (P)2017 Recorded Books

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    One of the best books on its topic

    I wäre of this book sometime ago and since then it's name did stick to my mind. Now I got it and listened to the complete audio book in almost no time. It was so good and on point. What I mean is the topic is probably deeper than one expects and Dr Glover doesn't beat around no bush and hits many targets straight and clear. This will be helpful for almost anybody in or off relationships, not just 'nice guys'. I would recommend this to anyone (men, straight or gray doesn't matter) looking for blind spots in their sex life, relationship or lack thereof.

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    vast simplification

    The author paints a cliché that we all may know without differentiating the root causes. It is sad to hear how certain behavior is declared as inevitable consequence of the character trait of enjoying to help people, e.g., the inevitability of addictions. Many claims and stories and handwaving, with risk of legitimizing such behavior to people who are actually good at heart, and do not simply suffer the same portfolio of expressions as the author himself. no thanks.

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    One of the best books I've ever read in my life! Read it! Take the time. It will be an incredible experience

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    I am a bad boy now

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    Shockingly fitting

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    perfect

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    highly recommended

    i loved the advices in the book. although dr glover takes a long time explaining the behaviours that constitute the persona of a nice guy, which can be sometimes too long, he finally comes around and gives you antidotes for all of those pussy types of behaviour. I am already starting to make some changes such as making a resolution not to use porn again. i also tried the masturbation technique he talks about and oh god! that felt better than my last sex experience. thank you Dr Glover for this book and a special thanks for Corey Wayne for recommending you in his book how to be a 3% man.