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The Scratch Golfer's Mindset

The Scratch Golfer's Mindset

Von: Paul Salter
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Paul Salter is a triple-digit golfer on a quest to become a scratch golfer. He's also a High-Performance Mindset Coach and Credentialed Hypnotherapist with 15 years of experience helping high performers from all walks of life get unstuck and unlock their full potential. Each week, Paul will share the emotional and mindset shifts you need to make to make mastering the mental game of golf simple, tangible, and relatable so that you can overcome the mental hazards keeping you stuck in the proverbial bunker of poor performance. He'll also routinely keep you updated on his progress toward par while sharing a raw and vulnerable look into his own collection of mental hazards he must overcome. Whether you're an occasional amateur, a weekend regular, or a competitor seeking a tournament trophy or your pro card, this podcast will help you play better golf.2024 Management & Leadership Persönliche Entwicklung Persönlicher Erfolg Ökonomie
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    169. 7-Figure Entrepreneur and Retired Marine Reveals the Family Systems Every Entrepreneur Needs to Avoid Divorce and Burnout
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    You can build a successful business…

    …and still quietly fail the people who matter most.

    In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Steve Eckert—a former Marine, 7-figure entrepreneur, father, and founder of the Freak Father Alliance—to unpack the hidden emotional cost that many men pay in the pursuit of success.

    We discuss why so many ambitious men tie their identity entirely to work, how childhood conditioning quietly shapes fatherhood and relationships, and the dangerous cycle of sacrificing your health, marriage, and family "for success."

    Steve shares the systems, standards, and routines he uses to lead his family intentionally, stay emotionally grounded under pressure, and raise strong, connected children without repeating the patterns he grew up with.

    If you're a husband, father, entrepreneur, or ambitious man trying to balance success with presence, fulfillment, and connection—this episode will hit hard.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • The most dangerous lie ambitious men keep believing about success
    • Why many entrepreneurs unknowingly repeat the same emotional patterns as their fathers
    • How success quietly destroys marriages and relationships
    • The family systems and routines Steve uses to stay connected with his wife and children
    • Why fitness is one of the greatest gateways to emotional resilience and discipline
    • How to stop bringing toxic work energy home
    • The "end of workday routine" every entrepreneur needs
    • Why children are constantly watching how men respond under pressure

    If you've ever wondered why success still feels empty, disconnected, or emotionally exhausting… this episode will challenge the way you think about work, fatherhood, leadership, and fulfillment.

    Time Stamps:

    • 00:00: The dangerous lie ambitious men keep believing about success
    • 2:13: Why most men don't realize they're repeating their fathers' patterns
    • 4:03: The deathbed truth every overworked entrepreneur needs to hear
    • 5:37: The calendar audit that exposes your real priorities
    • 15:05: The painful realization that changed Steve's entire approach to fatherhood
    • 21:29: How to reconnect with your kids after years of emotional disconnection
    • 24:35: Why fitness is the gateway to emotional resilience and leadership
    • 28:08: The "tactical pause" strategy every overwhelmed entrepreneur needs
    • 38:05: Why your marriage must remain the priority—even above your children
    • 50:01: The end-of-workday routine that protects your family from your stress

    I help high performers get unstuck and out of their own way to unlock their potential.

    Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me.

    Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter

    Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter

    Join me in the M19 Mastermind: Click here to apply. Tell them Paul sent you.

    More About Steve Eckert

    Steve Eckert is a United States Marine, entrepreneur, peak performance coach, husband, and father, best known for founding the Freak Father Alliance and Operate to Dominate Peak Performance Coaching.

    Steve's work blends military discipline, fitness, masculinity, leadership, fatherhood, and mindset coaching into a hard-hitting philosophy centered around personal responsibility, standards, and identity transformation.

    Over the past two decades, he's built multiple coaching and fitness businesses while helping thousands of men improve their mindset, physical health, leadership, marriage, business performance, and discipline.

    Connect with Steve on Instagram here (@steve.eckert1)

    P.S. This is where Steve and I first connected…check it out.

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    In this episode, I break down one of the most important mindset shifts Kobe ever made—from emotional avoidance and reactivity to emotional awareness and acceptance—and why this evolution made him more composed, resilient, free, and dangerous under pressure.

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    Time Stamps:

    • 00:00: The Kobe Bryant lesson that completely changed how I view emotions
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    • 24:15: The difference between young Kobe and older Kobe that changed everything
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    I help high performers get unstuck and out of their own way to unlock their potential.

    Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me.

    Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter

    Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter

    Join me in the M19 Mastermind: Click here to apply. Tell them Paul sent you.
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  • 167. Internationally-Recognized Mental Performance Coach Explains Why Confidence Becomes Dangerous for Top Performers

    167. Internationally-Recognized Mental Performance Coach Explains Why Confidence Becomes Dangerous for Top Performers
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