I’m going to tell the truth about 20-somethings. Society is lying to you.

Your 20s are NOT the best days of your life – this decade actually sucks a lot of the time. More importantly, you don’t need to have it all figured out by 30. Nobody does (despite what they might say on social media).

I’m living proof of that. At 29 I was broke, unmarried, lacking direction and drowning in invites to other people’s life events. I felt like I was failing, falling behind, running out of time… I was terrified to turn 30 because I hadn’t ticked any of the boxes on my list of life goals. My ’30-Phobia’ culminated in a failed marriage ultimatum which forced me to rethink my life plan.

So, at 30 I decided to throw away the rulebook and write a new one – with no deadlines attached. I changed my mindset and my life started to change too. By 39 I’d achieved more than I ever imagined – an exit entrepreneur, self-made millionaire and married, mother of one, living my dream of writing a book from sunny Spain. I’ll share my story and secrets with you in this book.

30 is not the deadline, it’s actually the start line and wherever you’re at right now, you are not failing or falling behind, you are right on time. In 30-Phobia we talk about:

30 Phobia is Real

So You Don’t Have a Partner

So You Don’t Have a Ring

So You Don’t Have Friends

So You Don’t Have Bank

So You Don’t Have a Place

So You Don’t Have Immortality

So You Don’t Have Kids

So You Don’t Have Calm

So You Don’t Have a Dream Job

Life Starts at 30