Ever wondered what happens when a restaurant chef leaves the safety of their own kitchen… and walks into a stranger's house to cook?

In this episode, we break down the chaos of in-home private catering vs. in-house restaurant catering—and spoiler: one involves predictable ovens, actual counter space, and fewer toddlers playing Frogger behind you.

You'll hear about:

• the horror of mystery ovens that cook like they're powered by vibes

• why rich people somehow own gorgeous homes and criminally dull knives

• guests who "just want to chat" while you're sweating over 10 plates and a sauce

• the universal truth that everyone is late, always

• the moment you almost accidentally baptized a child with hot food

• and why people think private chefs show up with a magic wand and cook filet mignon from scratch in 12 minutes

It's networking, it's nerve-wracking, it's weirdly wholesome… and yes—there is a brief but important discussion about dipping your nuts (walnuts, relax).

If you've ever hired a private chef, thought about it, or simply enjoy listening to professionals spiral politely in someone else's kitchen—press play.

We're back from hiatus, we disappearred for a month and came back with war stories.

December nearly killed us—but at least we got content.

In this comeback episode, we break down the hidden labor behind catering chaos:
why appetizers are harder than full dinners, how small teams quietly carry massive events, and what really happens when people treat food service like a magic trick instead of a job.

Along the way:
– a sous chef gets fired for speedrunning career suicide
– rich members complain from their third homes
– weddings go off the rails (featuring gator tacos)
– and everyone is one bad request away from snapping

This episode is a masterclass in restaurant survival, entitlement psychology, and why no one understands how much work goes into feeding people—until it's too late.

In this episode, we unpack the absolute madness of December in food service:
13+ caterings, 130-hour weeks, a sous chef who tried to overthrow the executive chef and invite the owner to smoke weed (in Idaho), and a wedding featuring alligator tacos, chicken strips for adults, and a bride bullied into tears.

We talk about why appetizer-only parties are a logistical nightmare, why rich members never come into town, how you end up grilling 200 chicken breasts at 2am on your birthday, and why buffet math is fake and made to hurt chefs.

If you've ever worked in restaurants, catered an event, or wondered why food people look permanently tired—this one's for you.

Spoiler: nobody is special, but everyone is exhausted.

Welcome back to You're Not Special, where the only thing scarier than Halloween… is the dinner rush. In this Part 2 of Stories From the Server Grave, Erin Loman Jeck and Dr. Sizzle drag you through the restaurant underworld: the ghosts of terrible tippers, the cursed brides, the salt-allergic liars, and the guy who thinks "mid-rare enough" is a temperature.

This episode serves up: 🔥 A capitalist philosopher who leaves a 25¢ tip like he's Benjamin Franklin 🔥 The woman allergic to salt, garlic, onions, soy, joy, and flavor 🔥 A Bridezilla who wants "emotional support skills" with her mimosa 🔥 Grandma eating Costco ice cream straight from the tub like a feral queen 🔥 A steak-sending sociopath who flips his plate AND his brain 🔥 The Ansel-system fire disaster that baptized the whole kitchen 🔥 The diaper-changing table monster that should be banned from society 🔥 Friends who "forgot their wallets" (and their dignity) 🔥 Ice bucket baptisms, wine snobs who don't know wine, and servers plotting revenge

PLUS: Comfort-food confessions, garden flexing, trout-and-pancake nightmares, and Erin and Aaron going FULL therapy session on childhood casseroles.

It's unhinged. It's disgusting. It's heartwarming. It's why servers drink. Pull up a chair, tip at least 20%, and remember: You're not special. But these stories? Legendary.