Wedding planning is meant to be exciting… but it’s so easy for it to become overwhelming without the right guidance. In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby breaks down the most common wedding planning mistakes she sees time and time again - and how you can avoid them with confidence.

From budgeting and timelines to communication and trends, this episode is all about helping you plan a wedding that feels calm, intentional, and truly you.

✨ In this episode, Abby covers:

💍 Why avoiding a budget almost always leads to stress (and how to set a realistic one early)

💍 The risks of rushing into booking suppliers without proper research

💍 Why a clear wedding planning timeline is essential for a smooth day

💍 The problem with blindly following trends that don’t reflect your relationship

💍 How better communication with suppliers and loved ones can save time, money, and energy

💍 Why wedding planning should be enjoyed - not just treated like a checklist

✨ Free wedding traditions checklist:

If this episode resonated with you, you’ll love my free wedding planning resource designed to help you make confident, intentional decisions (without the overwhelm):

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch shares calm, practical advice for navigating the first 30 days after getting engaged. Rather than rushing into wedding planning, Abby encourages couples to enjoy the engagement bubble, focus on communication, and set positive foundations for the planning journey ahead.

• Why you don’t need to rush into wedding planning
• How to enjoy the engagement bubble without pressure
• Starting gentle conversations about your wedding vision
• Creating a wedding hub to stay organised
• Setting priorities as a couple
• Avoiding comparison and staying focused on your own journey

• Take time to celebrate and soak in being engaged
• Go at your own pace - there is no rush
• Focus on connection and communication before logistics
• Organisation early on helps reduce stress later
• Your wedding will be amazing if you allow it to be

Download the free wedding traditions checklist:

https://eleganceunlimited.co.uk/download-your-checklist/

How to Plan for Your Wedding Planning: https://open.spotify.com/episode/18L6XYfPric4jRhfc3UOFY?si=19a5d71ad43a46a0

Reinventing Tradition - Making Your Wedding Day Your Own: https://open.spotify.com/episode/06CvcdadwSMuK6iTSP4oFq?si=bd6c723d825c42de

Planning Pep Talk - When Planning Feels Overwhelming, Do This First: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2phjxKO9Rd4VJeAGyw7g9J?si=094a59e8e4964396

Planning Without Pressure - Avoiding the Comparison Trap: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0tjbVAIe8aqKFRez0vAmow?si=c64a9e5881924a1a

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Wedding planning doesn’t have to feel stressful or all-consuming. In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch shares her top 10 tips for planning your wedding with more confidence, clarity, and calm.

From mindset and budgeting to timelines and communication, this episode is designed to help you enjoy the planning process and create a wedding day that truly reflects you and your love story.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Mindset and avoiding comparison
• Choosing clear priorities
• Budgeting to reduce stress
• Taking breaks and asking for help
• Silencing unwanted opinions
• Choosing your own traditions
• Adding buffer time to your timeline
• Communicating clearly throughout planning

Download the free traditions checklist!

https://eleganceunlimited.co.uk/free-wedding-checklist/

What to listen to next:

Wedding drama: Navigating Family Expectations and Tricky Family Members - https://open.spotify.com/episode/5AUkN5ATuo0JhQeWTtK8lD?si=5bda0caf6acc47c8

Can a Village Hall Really be a Luxury Wedding Venue? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1RB53Kqq3ytcQk1a1Fm7UK?si=97a4b6cd40114fb3

What if Your Dream Wedding is Out of Budget? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1D8P0w1ovJ3VDnxjJRTHds?si=86cda5cdda7d4735

Planning Without Pressure: Avoiding the Comparison Trap - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0tjbVAIe8aqKFRez0vAmow?si=8162b294ca9d46d6

The Perfect Wedding Timeline - How to Plan a Smooth Wedding Day - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QzsQw8cSqY1Gcnm3nlS2d?si=9e48d59b0edb488f

How to Set Your Wedding Budget - and Stick to it! - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0bKCK4dg3Jk9QwIZGCW2ok?si=84bff91128f34a3c

Reinventing Tradition: Making Your Wedding Day Your Own - https://open.spotify.com/episode/06CvcdadwSMuK6iTSP4oFq?si=0fac508c6e834047

Stay in touch until the next episode:

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Email your questions and stories - yourweddingunlimitedpodcast@gmail.com

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In this special 1st anniversary episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby celebrates one year of the podcast by answering real wedding planning questions submitted by listeners. From creating a clear and stress-free day plan, to navigating anxiety in the final countdown, budgeting realities, guest gifting etiquette, inclusivity in wedding inspiration, and the personal story behind Abby’s love for weddings - this episode is honest, reassuring, and packed with practical advice for couples at every stage of planning.

• How to create a wedding day plan that actually works, including what timings to include, who needs to be involved, and how detailed is too detailed
• Practical tips for managing anxiety in the two-month countdown and trusting that everything will come together
• The etiquette around gifting cash at weddings and what’s considered appropriate if a couple has requested money
• Why so much wedding inspiration is still aimed at brides, and how same-sex couples can find (and create) inclusive, meaningful inspiration
• Why wedding meals are often served at “strange” times and how timings are structured around logistics, not just hunger
• Honest thoughts on budgeting when money feels tight and costs seem to double as soon as the word “wedding” is added
• The personal story behind what made Abby fall in love with weddings and why she still feels passionate about them today

Creating the perfect wedding timeline: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QzsQw8cSqY1Gcnm3nlS2d?si=df9276d786c74bb6

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby Lynch explores how couples can embrace the beauty of a winter wedding without leaning into overly Christmas-themed styling. She shares how to create a warm, elegant atmosphere using thoughtful colour palettes, texture, lighting, and seasonal details, while keeping the day personal and timeless.

This episode is perfect for couples planning a winter wedding who want it to feel festive, cosy, and luxurious - without the tinsel.

• Why winter weddings are often overlooked but can be incredibly special
• What “festive” really means when it comes to wedding styling
• Choosing winter colour palettes that feel seasonal, not Christmassy
• Using texture and lighting to create warmth and atmosphere
• Elegant winter florals and foliage ideas
• Festive food and drink ideas without a Christmas theme
• How to prioritise guest comfort during colder months
• Making your wedding personal rather than seasonal

Listen to more:

Listen to this if your wedding is in 2026: https://open.spotify.com/episode/47KO6H2TiQfs73j6uk7O2V?si=b10ff180487a41ac

The perfect wedding timeline: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1QzsQw8cSqY1Gcnm3nlS2d?si=bcaac723d871424d

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Until next time, happy planning! 💕

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If you’ve found yourself thinking “Oh my god… we’re getting married THIS year”, this episode is for you.

As we head into the end of 2025, many 2026 couples are feeling that emotional shift — excitement, nerves, pressure, and a sudden sense that everything needs to be done right now. In this episode, I’m walking you through what actually matters at this stage, what you should be prioritising as the year turns, and what can absolutely wait.

This episode is designed to calm your nerves, give you clarity, and help you step into your wedding year feeling prepared rather than overwhelmed.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• Why this moment feels so emotional - and why that’s completely normal
• What you ideally should have done already (and reassurance if you haven’t)
• What to prioritise in the first few months of 2026
• Key January and February wedding planning tasks
• The admin and logistics couples often forget about at this stage
• What does not need to be decided yet
• How to manage overwhelm, comparison, and family pressure
• How to mentally shift into “our wedding year” mode
• What future-you will be grateful you sorted early

Whether you’re feeling calm, excited, nervous, or all three at once - this episode will help you focus on the right things and head into 2026 with confidence.

Stay in touch until the next episode:

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Email your questions and stories - yourweddingunlimitedpodcast@gmail.com

Listen to more:

Avoiding comparison: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0tjbVAIe8aqKFRez0vAmow?si=ccc22f08ec42498f

Navigating family expectations: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5AUkN5ATuo0JhQeWTtK8lD?si=f70857bbb88148bd

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In this episode of the Your Wedding Unlimited podcast, Abby Lynch explores the importance of repurposing your wedding décor to enhance sustainability, maximise your budget, and create a beautifully cohesive wedding day. She highlights how thoughtful choices, especially when it comes to florals, can make a big difference to both the look and cost of your celebration.

Abby shares practical steps for planning décor transitions, assigning tasks, and getting creative with how pieces are used in multiple parts of the day. She also encourages couples to think about how DIY or personal décor items can become meaningful additions to their home after the wedding.

This episode is perfect for couples wanting to get the most out of their investments while reducing waste and elevating their overall wedding experience.

• Repurposing décor is a sustainable choice
• Maximising the use of décor pieces saves money
• Cohesive styling improves the overall guest experience
• Flowers should be reused wherever possible
• Assigning décor-movement tasks is essential
• Consider using décor across multiple parts of the day
• DIY décor can be repurposed at home post-wedding
• Intentional choices lead to better outcomes
• Creativity helps décor work harder
• Planning ahead reduces waste and increases impact

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In this conversation, Abby explores the growing pressure couples feel to share every part of their wedding journey online. From the expectation to post engagement photos immediately, to curating the ‘perfect’ wedding day for social media, Abby discusses why this pressure exists and how couples can step back from it. She highlights the importance of authenticity, personal values, and protecting the meaningful moments that truly matter. This episode is a reminder that your wedding doesn’t need to be perfect for other people - it needs to feel right for you.

In this episode, Abby covers:

• The huge pressure to share everything online.
• How social media expectations can overshadow the excitement of planning.
• Why focusing on what feels right for the couple is essential.
• The reminder that weddings don’t need to be perfect; they need to be meaningful.
• How performing for an audience can detract from the personal experience.
• Why authenticity should come before societal standards.
• Encouraging couples to prioritise their own happiness over external validation.
• The importance of making decisions based on personal values.
• Why the wedding day should be about the couple, not about showcasing perfection.
• How it’s completely okay to step back from the pressure of social media.

Stay in touch until the next episode:

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Watch on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChef9jY_Ne116FZ4sLlQqbw

Email your questions and stories - yourweddingunlimitedpodcast@gmail.com

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