What happens when you stop protecting your progress and start sharing it? This episode explores the powerful shift from building community to co-creating through collaboration—and why this matters deeply for trauma survivors navigating career development.

If you've spent years learning to trust yourself, the idea of sharing control can feel revolutionary or terrifying. But collaboration isn't about losing your authentic identity—it's about bringing your full self to the table and allowing what you create together to become more than you could protect alone.

I share my personal progression from "unhindered" (2023) to "connection" (2024) to "community" (2025) and now to "collaboration" (2026), revealing how each year built the foundation for the next. You'll discover why collaboration requires something different from cooperation or coordination, and how it asks trauma survivors to practice profound courage.

In this episode, you'll explore:

* The crucial difference between cooperation, coordination, and true collaboration
* Why sharing control doesn't mean losing your authentic identity
* How collaboration builds on the foundation of safety, connection, and community
* The vulnerable courage required when trauma survivors choose co-creation
* Practical ways collaboration might show up in your career journey

Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction: The word that keeps appearing
02:15 - Defining collaboration vs. cooperation and coordination
05:30 - The vulnerability of shared ownership
08:45 - My progression: From unhindered to collaboration
12:20 - 2024: Connection to self and others
14:40 - 2025: Building community and finding your people
17:30 - 2026: When community becomes co-creation
20:15 - What collaboration might look like in practice
22:45 - Your invitation to build together

Ready to explore how collaboration could transform your career development? Book a discovery call at https://calendly.com/cyndibennettconsulting/30min to discuss working together.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways I can help you grow your career journey:

1. Free trauma-informed career development resources from my website! Visit https://www.cyndibennettconsulting.com for always up-to-date tips.
2. Ready to build a fulfilling career with trauma-informed support? Join The Resilient Career Academy Learning Community, where trauma survivors support each other, share resources, and develop career resilience in a safe, understanding environment
3. Ready for personalized trauma-informed career coaching? Explore my range of virtual coaching packages designed for different stages of your career journey. Visit my website to find the right support for where you are now. [Visit my website: https://www.cyndibennettconsulting.com/1-on-1-coaching]

DISCLOSURE: Some links I share might contain resources that you might find helpful. Whenever possible I use referral links, which means if you click any of the links in this video or description and make a purchase we may receive a small commission or other compensation at no cost to you.

If you're heading into work while everyone else is opening presents or sitting down to holiday meals, this episode is for you. We're talking about the invisible weight shift workers carry during the holidays—and why it's completely valid whether you're missing celebrations you wish you could attend OR feeling relieved to have a legitimate reason to skip triggering family dynamics.

I'm breaking down what makes holiday shift work particularly challenging for trauma survivors, how to create meaningful moments on your own terms, and the professional strengths you're building (even if it doesn't feel like it right now). This isn't toxic positivity—it's real talk about navigating work when the rest of the world is celebrating.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Hook: You're not alone in working while others rest
00:07 - Introduction: What we're covering today
02:00 - The invisible weight shift workers carry
05:30 - The double-edged reality (grief AND relief)
09:00 - What you're building (whether you realize it or not)
12:30 - Creating your own meaningful moments
16:00 - Building sustainable patterns for your well-being
18:30 - Closing & call to action

What You'll Explore:

* Why shift work during holidays hits differently for trauma survivors
* The double-edged reality of missing celebrations (grief AND relief)
* Developing personalized regulation strategies for holiday shifts
* Creating alternative rituals that honor your reality
* Translating shift work resilience into career advancement

Whether you're in healthcare, hospitality, emergency services, retail, or any role that keeps you working when others rest—you're not alone, and your experience matters.

Resources mentioned:

Discovery call booking: https://calendly.com/cyndibennettconsulting/30min

When you're ready, here are 3 ways I can help you grow your career journey:

1. Free trauma-informed career development resources from my website! Visit https://www.cyndibennettconsulting.com for always up-to-date tips.
2. Ready to build a fulfilling career with trauma-informed support? Join The Resilient Career Academy Learning Community, where trauma survivors support each other, share resources, and develop career resilience in a safe, understanding environment
3. Ready for personalized trauma-informed career coaching? Explore my range of virtual coaching packages designed for different stages of your career journey. Visit my website to find the right support for where you are now. [Visit my website: https://www.cyndibennettconsulting.com/1-on-1-coaching]

DISCLOSURE: Some links I share might contain resources that you might find helpful. Whenever possible I use referral links, which means if you click any of the links in this video or description and make a purchase we may receive a small commission or other compensation at no cost to you.

Traditional performance management wasn't designed for the 61% of employees who've experienced trauma. In this episode, we explore why annual reviews, feedback sandwiches, and stretch goals often backfire with trauma survivors - and what trauma-informed performance management looks like instead.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Hook: Why performance reviews trigger trauma responses
01:30 - The hidden trauma-performance connection
03:45 - Why traditional approaches backfire
03:45 - #1: The annual review trap
06:00 - #2: The feedback sandwich fallacy
07:00 - #3: The stretch goal problem
07:30 - #4: One-size-fits-all metrics
08:00 - What trauma-informed performance management looks like
09:00 - Principle 1: Predictable, frequent connection
10:00 - Principle 2: Strength-based development
11:00 - Principle 3: Collaborative goal setting
12:00 - What this looks like in practice
14:00 - The business case (statistics)
16:00 - What you can do today
17:30 - Call to action & resources
You'll learn about:

The hidden trauma-performance connection that managers miss
Why self-evaluations create impossible double-binds for trauma survivors
The business case for trauma-informed approaches (43% reduction in turnover)

Practical alternatives that improve outcomes for everyone

Whether you're managing a team or navigating performance reviews yourself, this episode reveals how to create conditions where everyone can perform at their best.

Download the Trauma-Informed Management Quick Reference Guide: https://resilientcareeracademy.myflodesk.com/timqrg

When you're ready, here are 3 ways I can help you grow your career journey:

1. Free trauma-informed career development resources from my website! Visit https://www.cyndibennettconsulting.com for always up-to-date tips.
2. Ready to build a fulfilling career with trauma-informed support? Join The Resilient Career Academy Learning Community, where trauma survivors support each other, share resources, and develop career resilience in a safe, understanding environment
3. Ready for personalized trauma-informed career coaching? Explore my range of virtual coaching packages designed for different stages of your career journey. Visit my website to find the right support for where you are now. [Visit my website: https://www.cyndibennettconsulting.com/1-on-1-coaching]

DISCLOSURE: Some links I share might contain resources that you might find helpful. Whenever possible I use referral links, which means if you click any of the links in this video or description and make a purchase we may receive a small commission or other compensation at no cost to you.