When Did We All Become So Boring?

If you can hold a convo, have a personality, and you have range… but lately every interaction feels like a bore... this episode is for you.

In this episode, we get into:

- Having a job is making us an absolute snooze fest

- How we were trained to build identity around work

- How job titles became the first identity we were ever handed

- Why we lead with work even though most of us don’t even like our jobs

- The dating angle: how men can be wrapped in work identity (and how women feed the beast too)

- A short-lived romance that proved how refreshing it is to get to know someone without work talk

- How being curious + authentic makes you more confident and more yourself

- And the fun part: my Kala-coded conversation starters resource to spice up your next interaction

Resources + Links

Download the guide: Kala-Coded Conversation Starters

https://spring-basil-85806.myflodesk.com/e85zoionw0

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A fun, personality-forward set of prompts to help you stop leading with work and start having better conversations.

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Our Inner Thoughts: A space to keep the conversation going with:

Monthly Group Thoughts (live virtual discussions)

Inside My Mind Q&A sessions (ask me anything — creativity, strategy, life, love, becoming)

Question for you: What’s your go-to conversation starter when you’re tired of talking about work?

Let's stay connected!

About Me:

I’m Kala! Host, content creator, and storyteller.

I create content and conversations that inspire women to stop hiding, stop apologizing, and show up as their full selves.

Over here, it’s about thoughts and conversations that help you return to yourself — your voice, your clarity, and what actually matters.

Socials: @KalaRiggins

My Website:

https://kalariggins.com/

Contact:

Kala@KalaRiggins.com