Some property rules sound responsible. Sensible, even. Never buy at auction. Never stretch your budget. Always buy the worst house on the best street. But when first home buyers follow these rules without understanding the context, they can quietly limit their options—or worse, lock themselves into the wrong decision.

In part two of our two-part series, we unpack the quieter property rules that don’t get questioned enough. These are the ones buyers follow to avoid mistakes, judgement, or risk—but often at the cost of opportunity. We explain why fear-based advice creates analysis paralysis, and why real confidence doesn’t come from copying rules, but from understanding how decisions actually fit together.

We break down common advice like avoiding auctions, steering clear of strata, never stretching your budget, and buying anything just to “get on the ladder.” You’ll learn when these rules make sense, when they don’t, and which ones should never be broken. We also share real buyer examples that show how small, informed shifts in thinking can lead to much better outcomes.

If you’re feeling stuck between “playing it safe” and moving forward, this episode will help you see property advice through a clearer lens. Because smart buying isn’t about following rules blindly—it’s about knowing why you’re doing what you’re doing.

00:00 — Introduction to Sensible Property Rules

00:13 — Unpacking Fear-Based Advice

02:06 — Rule 6: Worst House on the Best Street

03:42 — Rule 7: Avoiding Body Corporate or Strata

05:27 — Rule 8: The Auction Dilemma

09:05 — Rule 9: Budget Stretching Myths

13:50 — Rule 10: The Ladder Fallacy

16:12 — Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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If you’re a first home buyer, you’ve probably heard the same advice over and over again: never buy on a main road, never buy a one-bedroom, never buy off the plan.

These “rules” get passed down by parents, friends, forums, and social media—usually with good intentions, but almost never with proper explanation. And that’s where the trouble starts.

In Part One of this two-part series, Meighan and Veronica break down the most common “never do this” property rules and explain where they actually come from. They unpack what these rules are trying to protect you from, why they exist, and—most importantly—what happens when you follow them blindly. Because rules without context don’t create confidence. They create fear, hesitation, and second-guessing.

You’ll hear a practical, honest discussion on buying on main roads (and why not all roads are created equal), the real risks of one-bedroom apartments, why off-the-plan purchases can quietly lock buyers out of the market, and the truth about house and land packages in large developments. They also tackle buying with friends or family—and why this rule isn’t a “never”, but a “never without the right structure”.

This episode is designed to help you replace confusion with clarity. By the end, you’ll understand how to think critically about property advice, how to spot when a rule applies to you—and when it doesn’t—and why strategy always matters more than soundbites.

00:00 — Introduction: Common Property Buying Rules

00:06 — Understanding the Rules and Their Origins

03:05 — Rule 1: Never Buy on a Main Road

05:02 — Rule 2: Never Buy a One-Bedroom Apartment

08:13 — Rule 3: Never Buy Off the Plan

10:50 — Rule 4: Never Buy a House and Land Package

13:19 — Rule 5: Never Buy with Someone Else

15:17 — Conclusion and Next Steps

1. Episode 256: Mortgage Strategy for First Home Buyers

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Auctions can bring out the best—and the worst—in first home buyers.

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the common mistakes buyers don’t realise they're making, from freezing too early to getting swept up in the heat of the moment.

Joined by auctioneer Peter Burgin, Meighan and Veronica unpack the real psychology of auction day and why so many people walk away saying, “We should’ve gone one more”—or worse, “What did we just do?”

You’ll hear why setting your limit isn’t the same as hoping for a certain price, how to pressure test your numbers before you show up, and why losing a property for the wrong reason is one of the biggest regrets buyers carry. The trio also explore the danger of relying on well-meaning but uneducated friends, the emotional traps auctioneers see every weekend, and how preparation can be your biggest advantage.

Peter also shares the telltale signs he uses to read bidders in real time, from the subtle body language cues to the moments he sees buyers unintentionally encourage competition. You’ll learn the truth about $1,000 bidding wars, the power of a thoughtful knockout bid, and how confidence (real or perceived) shapes the behaviour of everyone in the room.

If you’re planning on bidding at your first auction, or you’ve walked away from one feeling defeated or confused, this episode will help you feel grounded, prepared, and in control.

01:14 — Meet the Expert: Peter Burgin

03:17 — Behind the Scenes: Agent and Auctioneer Roles

05:14 — Pre-Auction Preparations

06:28 — Auction Day Strategies From an Auctioneer

08:14 — Communication and Collaboration Between Agents and Auctioneer

18:46 — Rhythm and Moment During an Auction

20:35 — How to Mentally Prepare for Auction Day

23:37 — Open Yourself to Communication

25:07 — Types of Buyers During an Auction

25:49 — Mistakes to Avoid at Auctions

30:02 — Reading the Room as an Auctioneer

37:56 — Final Advice for First Home Buyers

1. THE First Home Buyer Course is our Step-By-Step, No BS Guide to Every Stage of The Home Buying Process – It’s the next best thing to having your own buyer’s agent. With our expert guidance, you’ll know what to do at every step along the way. Become a home owner faster and easier. Click here: https://homebuyeracademy.com.au/YFHBG

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