Men are being told to provide more, pay more, work more, and shut up while doing it.

In this episode of You Are the Problem, Cole breaks down why that narrative is broken, dangerous, and completely disconnected from the reality of the average man.

This is not about hating women.This is not about dodging responsibility.

This is about calling out a culture that demands sacrifice from men while refusing to ask hard questions about accountability, respect, and partnership.

Cole briefly addresses recent commentary pushing the idea that men should never question what a woman brings to the table — and explains why that logic collapses when applied to real life, real finances, and real relationships.

If you’re tired of being told your value is measured only by what you can provide, this episode is for you.

🎙️ You Are the ProblemHosted by Cole

Disagreements welcome.

Episode 1: “No More Running”
You blame an entire generation for being toxic… but you never stop to ask the only question that matters:

What is it like to date YOU?

This episode cuts through the excuses, the delusion, and the lack of accountability that’s taken over modern relationships. If you’re uncomfortable while watching this, good — it means something finally hit where it needed to.

In this episode you’ll learn:
• Why blaming “everyone else” keeps you stuck
• The psychology of self-sabotage
• The patterns you repeat without realizing
• The 30-Day Rewire Protocol to reset your mindset
• How to finally take responsibility for the person you bring to the table

If you’re serious about becoming a better partner, a better man or woman, and a better human — start here.

Subscribe to the podcast and follow the journey. Accountability isn’t a trend — it’s a lifestyle.